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XJDUB User ID: 73274634 Canada 02/01/2018 02:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A single mother is the WORST type of family for proper emotional development of children! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76182626 No father around to hold the mother accountable for her bullshit. Let the facts fall wherever, whenever, and however they may. INTP - The Logician. 'Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.' - Albert Einstein. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76194002 United States 02/01/2018 02:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They battle through sickness, exhaustion, no sleep, and do everything alone. They have the toughest time but are the happiest and are very popular on social media and have tons of friends who respect and love them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75819918 When a childless woman gets sick she gets to have people coming over to pamper her and bring her medicine and soup while she lays on the sofa watching TV. A single mother doesn't get that luxury. Try being sick with 3 wild kids running back and forth, fighting, breaking things. When a childless woman gets a lack of sleep, she goes to work, comes home and perhaps goes to bed a couple of hours earlier than normal to "catch up" on the missed sleep. Again, try having 3 crazy kids running amok and refusing to sleep until after 10pm. By the time the single mother gets her head down she's woken up again by the youngest having a nightmare and needing to be comforted which in turn wakes the other up, then the other won't settle back down, and on and on it goes. A childless woman gets the chance to soak in a hot bath for an hour with a glass of wine at the end of the day without disturbance. No need to explain why a single mother can't even go for a pee in peace, nevermind take a bath. When a single mother takes a job or goes back to school/college, she has to try to work everything around the school run schedule which is demanding. The employer or college may not be flexible. This involves a lot of running around and constant phone calls with employer. Again, a problem not faced for childless women or women with husbands. A single mother has to manage her income to pay for rent, utilities, etc. But not only that, the meager income she gets must stretch towards kids clothing and food costs, school uniforms, shoes, bikes, toys, haircuts, and more. There is no comparison to what a single mom has to budget for compared to a mid 30s childless woman. Single mothers have no time to go to the gym or to lose weight and so they have to deal with the constant alluding to their weight gain both from men and snide women alike. Childless women finish work and have all the time in the world to hit the treadmill. I could go on and on here but it would take all day! Yet despite all they have to deal with single mothers get up, put their face on, wear their smile and get shit done. You never see them begging for a man to come help them. Their self-confidence is off the chain. All the obstacles they have overcome have made them strong. If you talk to a single mom and ask them where do they get their admirable confidence and assertiveness from the simple answer they give every time is "well what choice to I have". One of the biggest misconceptions is that single moms sit around and pine for a man or "big daddy government" to come help them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Every single mom I have ever encountered has been all for effort and reward. They do what they do and give not one single fuck if anyone judges them for it. They are not expecting any Prince Charming to come along and "rescue" them. This is a complete myth. Most single moms are the DUMPERS in relationships because they realize the guy will never live up to the high standards they have set for themselves and their incredible ambition. They don't settle. They take care of their home and their back pocket. A man is a nice addition to their life, a bonus, but in no way a necessity. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70038066 United States 02/01/2018 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | does any one of you know what its like for your spouse to die and then you are the only parent left to your child. I didn't think so. Because if you did, you would realize you are going to hell for saying the BS coming from your mouth. yes, that is what a single parent is, and its time that people stop judging others without standing in their shoes. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70038066 what cracks me up is, how many of these people ARE deadbeat dads? easy to bitch ig·no·rant ˈiɡnərənt/Submit adjective lacking knowledge or awareness in general; uneducated or unsophisticated. "he was told constantly that he was ignorant and stupid" synonyms: uneducated, unknowledgeable, untaught, unschooled, untutored, untrained, illiterate, unlettered, unlearned, unread, uninformed, unenlightened, benighted; More lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about something in particular. "they were ignorant of astronomy" synonyms: without knowledge of, unaware of, unconscious of, oblivious to, incognizant of, unfamiliar with, unacquainted with, uninformed about, ill-informed about, unenlightened about, unconversant with, inexperienced in/with, naive about, green about; More informal discourteous or rude. |
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**Aurora** User ID: 73316671 United Kingdom 02/01/2018 02:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They battle through sickness, exhaustion, no sleep, and do everything alone. They have the toughest time but are the happiest and are very popular on social media and have tons of friends who respect and love them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75819918 When a childless woman gets sick she gets to have people coming over to pamper her and bring her medicine and soup while she lays on the sofa watching TV. A single mother doesn't get that luxury. Try being sick with 3 wild kids running back and forth, fighting, breaking things. When a childless woman gets a lack of sleep, she goes to work, comes home and perhaps goes to bed a couple of hours earlier than normal to "catch up" on the missed sleep. Again, try having 3 crazy kids running amok and refusing to sleep until after 10pm. By the time the single mother gets her head down she's woken up again by the youngest having a nightmare and needing to be comforted which in turn wakes the other up, then the other won't settle back down, and on and on it goes. A childless woman gets the chance to soak in a hot bath for an hour with a glass of wine at the end of the day without disturbance. No need to explain why a single mother can't even go for a pee in peace, nevermind take a bath. When a single mother takes a job or goes back to school/college, she has to try to work everything around the school run schedule which is demanding. The employer or college may not be flexible. This involves a lot of running around and constant phone calls with employer. Again, a problem not faced for childless women or women with husbands. A single mother has to manage her income to pay for rent, utilities, etc. But not only that, the meager income she gets must stretch towards kids clothing and food costs, school uniforms, shoes, bikes, toys, haircuts, and more. There is no comparison to what a single mom has to budget for compared to a mid 30s childless woman. Single mothers have no time to go to the gym or to lose weight and so they have to deal with the constant alluding to their weight gain both from men and snide women alike. Childless women finish work and have all the time in the world to hit the treadmill. I could go on and on here but it would take all day! Yet despite all they have to deal with single mothers get up, put their face on, wear their smile and get shit done. You never see them begging for a man to come help them. Their self-confidence is off the chain. All the obstacles they have overcome have made them strong. If you talk to a single mom and ask them where do they get their admirable confidence and assertiveness from the simple answer they give every time is "well what choice to I have". One of the biggest misconceptions is that single moms sit around and pine for a man or "big daddy government" to come help them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Every single mom I have ever encountered has been all for effort and reward. They do what they do and give not one single fuck if anyone judges them for it. They are not expecting any Prince Charming to come along and "rescue" them. This is a complete myth. Most single moms are the DUMPERS in relationships because they realize the guy will never live up to the high standards they have set for themselves and their incredible ambition. They don't settle. They take care of their home and their back pocket. A man is a nice addition to their life, a bonus, but in no way a necessity. DRESSED IN THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD -Helmet of salvation -Breastplate of righteousness -Belt of truth -Sword of the Holy Spirit -Shield of faith -Sandals of the gospel |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76175925 United States 02/01/2018 02:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A single mother is the WORST type of family for proper emotional development of children! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76182626 2 parents are definitely required for proper development but sometimes those just arent the circumstances for a variety of reasons. A single mother then needs to seek out Grandparents or other substitutes for role models. Too late. No father = undeveloped, dysfunctional child. Always. :batmanfu: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14759731 United States 02/01/2018 02:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it may not be ideal, but sometimes there are worse results from a normal 2 parent household. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70038066 Sure and there are tall Chinese people too. Many kids at my children’s school have committed suicide, ALL from two parent households. Just sayin. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14759731 United States 02/01/2018 02:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, fuck women that have excellent choice in men. Who wants a man that will work for the family, it's better to get a dead beat that will disappear after banging the shit out of them and filling them with cum. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72666162 The ones that spread them for everyone are far more confident and strong. Never got asked out by anyone that I could now in hindsight call a good guy. Have met very few in my lifetime. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76194002 United States 02/01/2018 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, fuck women that have excellent choice in men. Who wants a man that will work for the family, it's better to get a dead beat that will disappear after banging the shit out of them and filling them with cum. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72666162 The ones that spread them for everyone are far more confident and strong. Never got asked out by anyone that I could now in hindsight call a good guy. Have met very few in my lifetime. That says a lot more about you than it does about your perceived lack of "good guys". |
Mike Ehrmantraut User ID: 13046680 United States 02/01/2018 02:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How can I tell? "Moral of the story is I chose a half measure when I should have gone all the way. I'll never make that mistake again. ==== ESTJ-a (Executive) 93% Extroverted, 82% Observant, 83% Thinking, 82% Judging,72% Assertive ==== |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76127358 United States 02/01/2018 02:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's pretty bad when I won't bother with a drippy cunt just waiting for me. They always complain about kids, exes, money, and anything else, and I'll be damned if I'll let my cum go anywhere besides their ass or mouth. Widows are the exception. I'd do my best for one, if I ever met one that didn't already have her act together. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76198931 Estonia 02/01/2018 02:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Kids of broken families, raised by single moms - have the weak psyche and ability to be accountable stable grownup persons. Pure statistics. Such persons are the fertile ground for liberals. Conservative families with both biological dad and mom produce healthier, stronger youngsters as pillars of society. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74962726 United States 02/01/2018 02:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a dad and did my best for all my kids even though their mother was not the best. When the last one was 18, she up and left, and I had spent years looking forward to our time together. I know single mothers, and unless their last kid is 18 or they're 10's, I won't fucking bother with them. I've yet to meet one that could run her life and that of the kids, and if she has more than one, you can bet she's a total fuckup in life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76127358 It's pretty bad when I won't bother with a drippy cunt just waiting for me. They always complain about kids, exes, money, and anything else, and I'll be damned if I'll let my cum go anywhere besides their ass or mouth. Widows are the exception. I'd do my best for one, if I ever met one that didn't already have her act together. With the amount of High Quality porn on the internet..............who needs them I save all the extra money for guitars and shit. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76198573 United States 02/01/2018 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They battle through sickness, exhaustion, no sleep, and do everything alone. They have the toughest time but are the happiest and are very popular on social media and have tons of friends who respect and love them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75819918 When a childless woman gets sick she gets to have people coming over to pamper her and bring her medicine and soup while she lays on the sofa watching TV. A single mother doesn't get that luxury. Try being sick with 3 wild kids running back and forth, fighting, breaking things. When a childless woman gets a lack of sleep, she goes to work, comes home and perhaps goes to bed a couple of hours earlier than normal to "catch up" on the missed sleep. Again, try having 3 crazy kids running amok and refusing to sleep until after 10pm. By the time the single mother gets her head down she's woken up again by the youngest having a nightmare and needing to be comforted which in turn wakes the other up, then the other won't settle back down, and on and on it goes. A childless woman gets the chance to soak in a hot bath for an hour with a glass of wine at the end of the day without disturbance. No need to explain why a single mother can't even go for a pee in peace, nevermind take a bath. When a single mother takes a job or goes back to school/college, she has to try to work everything around the school run schedule which is demanding. The employer or college may not be flexible. This involves a lot of running around and constant phone calls with employer. Again, a problem not faced for childless women or women with husbands. A single mother has to manage her income to pay for rent, utilities, etc. But not only that, the meager income she gets must stretch towards kids clothing and food costs, school uniforms, shoes, bikes, toys, haircuts, and more. There is no comparison to what a single mom has to budget for compared to a mid 30s childless woman. Single mothers have no time to go to the gym or to lose weight and so they have to deal with the constant alluding to their weight gain both from men and snide women alike. Childless women finish work and have all the time in the world to hit the treadmill. I could go on and on here but it would take all day! Yet despite all they have to deal with single mothers get up, put their face on, wear their smile and get shit done. You never see them begging for a man to come help them. Their self-confidence is off the chain. All the obstacles they have overcome have made them strong. If you talk to a single mom and ask them where do they get their admirable confidence and assertiveness from the simple answer they give every time is "well what choice to I have". One of the biggest misconceptions is that single moms sit around and pine for a man or "big daddy government" to come help them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Every single mom I have ever encountered has been all for effort and reward. They do what they do and give not one single fuck if anyone judges them for it. They are not expecting any Prince Charming to come along and "rescue" them. This is a complete myth. Most single moms are the DUMPERS in relationships because they realize the guy will never live up to the high standards they have set for themselves and their incredible ambition. They don't settle. They take care of their home and their back pocket. A man is a nice addition to their life, a bonus, but in no way a necessity. Happy single mothers? Never met one as they are oxymorons. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76175925 United States 02/01/2018 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, fuck women that have excellent choice in men. Who wants a man that will work for the family, it's better to get a dead beat that will disappear after banging the shit out of them and filling them with cum. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72666162 The ones that spread them for everyone are far more confident and strong. Never got asked out by anyone that I could now in hindsight call a good guy. Have met very few in my lifetime. That says a lot more about you than it does about your perceived lack of "good guys". Most of the men I know are good guys. Sometimes, in a relationship, they don't know how to control their anger to an acceptable point. Perhaps what I consider acceptable is above the bar. Single women are strong. And I totally agree with community, extended family and the mom figuring out how to be a better disciplinarian. I really haven't seen that many examples of totally happy couples. On a deep, core level. Yet I have seen it, and it is amazing. But I do see a lot of amazing individuals who maybe don't make the best choices in finding others. And when everyone pretends to be someone they are not, or exists primarily in assumptions, the nurturing of a relationship doesn't have the fertile ground to develop. Single mothers need our support - and sometimes people don't have family. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73198869 United States 02/01/2018 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Single mothers are good for two things and two things only. Cooking and Fucking. The few I’ve dated, I’ve treated like shit and they just took it hoping I’d help them and their snot nose kids with a bill ore two. Cook me dinner, let me dump a load in you and then get the fuck outta my house and back to your baggage. |