Been sharing my wife with other men for over 10 years. Still happily married!

I realise that kind of thing is not for everyone. To each his own of course. But we are still very much in love and still happy. Been married for nearly 16 years and I have been sharing her for 10 years. It was my idea and I encouraged her. She resisted for a while and then we eventually discussed it again a few years later and she has been fine with it ever since.

How it works is that I find the guys for her (usually through the internet or the local area) and I have also got a few guys from the gym I go to for her. We had one immigrant fisherman from the Ivory Coast recently who I shared her with. The guys go get a recent up to date blood test and STD/urine check and we have them present the evidence they are "clean" before she gets into bed with them. She usually only sees the same guy once or twice. It's never been more than twice the same guy has visited. This is due to the fact that we have had some problems with creepy dudes who keep obsessing over it and wanting it every night so she has to block them or report them to the cops or something. But most guys are fine with it. The best guys to get are married or taken guys that way there is less chance of them becoming emotionally needy/attached. More freedom.

When it comes to women, she likes women too, I allow her to select her partners. She usually chooses bigger/curvy women which is my taste anyway so I'm happy with her selections usually.

Anyway, I am not trolling I am just putting it out there that there are relationships like this that work and we have never had any issues with it.

If you have any questions about this kind of lifestyle ask I guess.