God some of you are clueless. Marriage is an institution by God between two consenting adults.

The problem with today is that most people want to live WITHOUT God and they aren't ADULTS.

There are too many assholes out there that only think about me and their happiness, and I hate to break it to those assholes is that a good marriage doesn't include me but WE.

You see my wife and I are a TEAM. Whenever I make a decision in life I consult my wife because we are a TEAM. Whenever she makes a decision in life she consults me because we are a TEAM. Whenever I go somewhere, I let my wife know because we are a TEAM and whenever she goes somewhere she does the same thing.

Also marriage takes WORK as does anything in this life that is worth keeping. And that's the problem with today's assholes is that they don't want to work at anything. In fact for these immature people if they wake up one day and they aren't happy and if they don't FEEL in love then they start looking somewhere else. But the problem is that they end up destroying their children's life because of their own selfishness.

And yes I am married and I have been married for close to 20 years. And yes there have been times that I have felt like getting a divorce and she has felt the same, but the truth is that I am an adult and I made a promise to her when I got married and I intend to keep that promise no matter how I feel. And yes there are children in the picture. So for me when I get in a disagreement with my wife its better to come to an understanding like adults and forgive each other instead of putting my arm in a wood chipper as so many men do through divorce.