Dads who are divorced get screwed

I have paid in 88,000 now over 12 years, 28 months left and I can get a Passport and be free again.

It has been a struggle, but there is light at the end of the tunnel as they say.

If my ex husband hadn’t screwed women behind my back while carrying his babies...We’d be a happy family. And he screwed me over financially throughout our entire marriage. Men that screw everything up and expect a woman to smile and support them (while they lie and gaslight nonstop) should understand... no female w/self respect will support that. You may get away with it for a short while, but then reality arrives!

Then a female files for divorce and the man is SUCH A VICTIM. LOL 😂
Plz...... man up.

And for the true, good men out there that literally were good/faithful husbands... I feel for you. It sucks getting taking advantage of, doesn’t it?

I have paid in 88,000 now over 12 years, 28 months left and I can get a Passport and be free again.

It has been a struggle, but there is light at the end of the tunnel as they say.

Meh...shaddap! Make a sammich with your ass in the air and your panties down. That's what makes a good marriage.

Wimmins.

Men seem to hate good women, though.

All I got from this thread is don't get married. If you get married you have no one to blame but yourself for entering financial suicide. Women only have power that you allow them to have.

You were probably not pretty

get family counseling.. children need both of their parents in the same house raising them. However, if there are drugs, substance abuse, physical abuse or incest involved.. separation may be the better path.

wrongo bongo

you don't sacrifice your happiness and future for kids, they will have their own happiness and future some day, and divorcing and moving on will not kill them, but staying may kill you

it is a phenomenally horrible idea to stay for the kids

Not just child support and alimony, but also seeing your child/children with mommy's new partner, that will send a knife into your heart hearing them talk about mr. so and so.

I bet You are a selfish bitch.

Don't be foolish then. Don't get a divorce. Marry a Saved woman and man up and be a good leader in the marriage like men are supposed to be, and have an enjoyable life with many children. Be the spiritual leader you are supposed to be and God won't make it as hard and difficult for you.

If you look at the national stats on divorce in all cases where there are children involved get screwed by the justice system.
If the man violates the court order usually child support and men you should pay your child support if you dont you deserve what you get but your license can be revoked your pass port revoked, your property sized or a lien placed against it, pay check and bank account frozen, and placed in jail.

if the woman violates the court order usually visitation or moving out of state non notification things like this the man must seek out an attorney and file a civil suit to try and make it right. This will not promise you a win or even a change they may rule in her favor regardless and she will usually counter sue you for some made up crap that never happened.

So my advice is that if your single stay that way

If my ex husband hadn’t screwed women behind my back while carrying his babies...We’d be a happy family. And he screwed me over financially throughout our entire marriage. Men that screw everything up and expect a woman to smile and support them (while they lie and gaslight nonstop) should understand... no female w/self respect will support that. You may get away with it for a short while, but then reality arrives!

Then a female files for divorce and the man is SUCH A VICTIM. LOL 😂
Plz...... man up.

And for the true, good men out there that literally were good/faithful husbands... I feel for you. It sucks getting taking advantage of, doesn’t it?

I used to think that, too! Then I looked up the stats, only 4% of men fight for their kids in court.

Translation, 96% of men dont really give a shit about their own children.

I do not know where you got your divorce- but my EX lost nothing- Kept his passport and all!! We agreed on child support and I refused alimony - Set visits according to his schedule! We agreed that we hated the school system where we lived and agreed that I could move and we agreed to the State because it was in his path for travel.. We split the cost of everything involving our child... When he married his new thing it all changed- he changed- ignored his child, called his child and inconvenience to his life style! then tried to get full custody, even paid a lawyer and served me papers, I told him I would give him custody and pay child support no problem- He dropped it and resended the suit -- then threw a fit about paying child support so I told him to forget the child support- Filed papers to give us 50/50 time so he could get out of support- then he said he did not want to have his child that much- Well, his child is now 22 and has a child that he has yet to bother to see... He was a great husband until he started screwing anything that opened it's hole! He was a great dad until he married satan! Yes, I blame her for his complete 180 on his child!
It doesn't matter WHAT you think of your Ex- but, your CHILD should NEVER be brushed aside for a piece of ass!!! Whether your a man or a woman!!!
I never once spoke bad about my Ex- even supported his parenting (when he was parenting) even tried to support his bitch until she tried to tell me HOW to parent (she had no kids and couldn't even raise a dog!) ...

I COMPLETELY agree with you! And I made sure to go inside myself and figure out what caused me to attract someone that could treat me so poorly after marriage and children came into our lives. We dated for five years without problems. But I realized some life changes triggger people in ways that we don’t know expect. But there were clues I could have considered as opposed to ignoring.

I don’t do that anymore!

The irony is the SAME men complaining about divorced men getting screwed are the ones that picked women that put them in their situation!!!!
Oh.... but let’s not use common sense and basic intelligence to identify that.

I'm in a similar situation as a woman. Husband can't stop cheating. I have pretty much decided I am going to take the bullet for my son's sake and stay with him and just look the other way and pray none of these dirty whores he chases come here and scare my son. It's a horrible situation to be in. We have an awesome sex life and I cook, clean, childcare, etc. Trying to be the best traditional mother I can. Always afraid of STDs, always afraid of women drama. They embarrass me in public. It's just an awful nightmare and I cry myself to sleep most nights and live in terrible lonlieness. Honestly any man that cheats deserves what he gets. Beyond what it does to his spouse, the damage to his children is horrible esp when they need him and he's off piled up in bed with a whore. I am loyal. Sometimes I think this is a spiritual test and I swear to God I'd do anything if he'd stop.