Fess up GLP, How many have "Lusted" after a Guy/Gal and finally "get with them" only to find out....

Ban this troll already

I JUST did this last weekend. It sucked.

Chick was cool, met her a few months ago. Took her out once, something didn’t feel right, so I blew her off. She found me again, so I took her out again. Told my buddies I couldn’t remember why I blew her off the first time, and that I was trying to be open minded.

Met up, her place, I brought pizza and beer for her (no drink for me), and talked and watched Netflix. I got to listen to her life story again, which is the worst part of dating imo. Got to listen to her talk mad shit about her ex, I guy I kinda knew.

Got her in bed, felt kinda weird, but I rolled with the vibe. Sex came, so I pulled out my best performance. Passionate, intense, all of it. I had serious stamina backing me up, and I could’ve gone all night. About 30 minutes in she says, “if you’re trying to get me off, don’t even bother, I don’t get off from sex”.

Well that killed the mood. I didn’t finish. Snuggling and sleep felt awkward.

Next day, full date day. I worked till noon. Met up with her shortly afterwards and took her shooting guns (her idea), took her to a waterfall (which is rare where I live), took her out for Chinese food and back to my place for a movie that she wanted to watch.

Time passed, then sex. About 10 minutes into it, I realized it wasn’t much fun to “do sex” to her if she wasn’t going to get off, and I lost my.... desire.

I smoked a cig, said good night to her and turned out the light.

Next day, I get a text at work from her. All happy and smiles and a pic. Then I responded with it ain’t gonna work, not sexually compatible.

She lost her mind. Non stop texts, insulting me, saying I sucked in bed, calling me names, insulting my manhood and claiming I degraded her.

It was completely insane. Clearly this chick had never been rejected before, and the thought that some guy wasn’t pursuing her for sex must’ve broke her brain.

She ended up using 3 different phones to continue her war path, all because I said I wasn’t feeling it and didn’t think we were compatible.

Two days later, I’m out fishing, enjoying my time by myself, and I finish and put my poles in my car and look up. Who do I see? Her, with the ex, riding bikes. I know the guy, he rolls up to me, I say “you on a date?” He says “yeah, sorta”. I say, “cool, I was with her a couple days ago”. He says, “oh, you’re Joe?”. I say, “yup”, then she starts to head back towards us talking, and I say, “and now I’m the fuck outta here”.

She talked shit about this guy’s hygiene, his clothes, his job, his drinking, how he treated her kids, the way he treated her overall... and there she was, having a bike ride date.

Probably had to find a guy quick to repair her ego from getting rejected over something I bet she thought was the easiest part of hooking a guy.

I’ve had better sex with my left hand.

Let me guess, you're not getting ANY...LOL

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What made it a bad experience OP?
No involvement on her part?



You would think sex would be easy - but its involved - in so many ways both tangible and intangible. I never figured it out and I've been on sabbatical now for a while.

Stop caring and just blow your load, the chicks actually like that more.

Sounds like she’s not into you

Quit being a victim. Move on

You need to butt sex her. That always works.

Sometimes the dead fish are freaks in bed...like nipple clamps hooked up to car battery freaks. They usually give you hints about what type of circus they prefer.

It's true OP. I dated this afro stoner chick that pursued me in college. She could be kind of bossy and a grouch, but she was sort of submissive in bed. I dropped digits and gave her oral making her orgasm multiple times (by her own admission) while she just laid on her back. Sometimes that's as far as we got. I'm used to girls eager to return the favor and be more playful. In hindsight, maybe she was a total submissive and I should have told her what to do at every step. But I had never been with anyone like her before, so I guess I messed up by not trying that. Even the kissing was kind of bland with her. Maybe it's a stoner thing I don't know. I have never done drugs.
We dated for a few months, but I swear we may have only had actual intercourse like 3 times. At least it seems like it. I would avoid her sometimes on campus because she would wear this scowl and i didn't want to be the guy to walk over to deal with it. My ex before her was cruel and I decided not to put up with that stuff anymore. I stopped calling her for a week while she was out of class. She broke up with me the next time I saw her. It wasn't worth it to me to be with someone who acted like a grouch and seemed indifferent about sex. I ended up dating a sweetie after her and I was almost surprised at how fun and nice women can be... at least for a while.

It often isn't worth the chase.


I'll just leave it at that.

Go from the best you've ever had to a loud sloppy old cunt worst p.o.a. ever.

Made me miss the previous one even more than I would've thought possible.

She's BPD, bro. You had a lucky escape. And lucky she found another guy to immediately cling to otherwise she'd have continued stalking you and boiled your pet rabbit alive.