Ummm....Yes. Entirely, 100%.

It's rather a long story, but the bottom line is that I had a list of absolute requirements. I wrote down my prayer. All of a sudden, little things kept breaking at my work and I had to go to the hardware store to get the stuff to fix it. He became my personal assistant. Then started chatting me up, and I was like, "What?"..Then I made him jump through my requirements, and he never knew what they were because since I wasn't a super young thing anymore, they were personal and not common. He cleared every single one. The last was must like certain Monty Python flicks. And he brought that up, not me.

And then I made him get tested for every STD because his history was extremely sketchy. He passed all of that, too. And then we got married. Be 16 years this fall.

There have been some very difficult times, mind you. But with the complete certainty that YHVH put us together, we made it through those challenging times.

He isn't who I would have picked. But he is the one my Heavenly Father picked for me, and we are good together and blessed. :)

So, I'd say pray, and wait, and be still and listen to the Spirit. I believe there is someone for everyone, and if we seek what YHVH wants for us, it will always be better for us than what we would pick for ourselves.