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So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Basically we dated for a few months but then I found out his crazy. domineering ex-wife controls him and his every move because they have a four year old son and there both like 47. Thatís theyíre only kid. She just used him cause he was the good friend of her husband who she divorced then moved onto this guy just to do IVF, marry him briefly to get his last name then take him to the cleaners ln divorce court. As soon as she found out about me about 4 months in, he began distancing himself from me but he had hired me to work for him and that stopped too but he didnít stop paying me. Ten months later he says he really wants to help me financially but he doesnít expect sex and we rarely have it but when we do heís very passionate and says he loves me. I see him at a bar once in awhile and he gives me the saddest eyes and if he gets drunk he says he loves me. I told him to stop giving me money but he says he wants to and it makes him happy. Heís put on about 30-40 lbs since he began distancing himself and is drinking a lot. He lives so close to me rarely asks me over but I know he has strong feelings for me. And no heís not seeing his ex eufe. Heís afraid of her, she has him arrested for a DUI and she completely uses his son as a pawn to control him. He makes good money and has a great house and she was 42 with no options so she lured him in. He does whatever she asks of him. Heís miserable and loves his son more than anything. I ask him why he did this to me. Said he was so crazy about me and we had such a fun future together then he just sort of tossed me aside like an old shoe but then he wants to keep that one tie to me and I guess itís tthough the money. He always says give me time to figure out my shit.

I have no idea what this is. I know heís afraid of the ex but he refuses to do anything with me and I live minutes away. But then he sees me at the bar and he either seems awkward and stressed or he gets drunk and hangs onto me and whispers that he really does love me.

What do you think? Why would he keep giving me money? I told him to stop but he wonít. And he doesnít even ask for sex. Maybe once a month it just happens after weíve been at the bar. I want to move on and find a man who eahts to give me time and attention but Iím finding it hard with this tie o still have to him, and I donít know if he is just trying to tell me to wait? I know I ask him whatís going on and he said he doesnít know and I believe him. I just want maybe some male perspective on this or women who might have some insight. Thank you. Itís been incredibly hard on me.
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Sounds like he is just weird or something, LOL, why do you want a man who confuses you?
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If the Man can't put You ahead of His bitch EX then He isn't worth keeping.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Pro-tip: Most hookers have more than one client.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
your paragraphs mention dui, bar, drunk or drinking.

fact is he's an alcoholic. maybe charming at first but in the long term nothing but a nightmare.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
OP learn to use they're, their, and there properly please..
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Jesus Christ thatís all you got? The rest of my post was well written. I know the difference between theyíre and their but sometimes I canít be bothered with autocorrect who doesnít. But thanks. For nothing.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
your paragraphs mention dui, bar, drunk or drinking.

fact is he's an alcoholic. maybe charming at first but in the long term nothing but a nightmare.
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This is probably the truth as much as I wish it werent.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
RULE NUMBER ONE

you don't chase a man - a man chases you!

RULE NUMBER TWO

you don't take money from a married man or one that got a girl friend with a mutual child!

Cause that makes you a bimbo slut.. some would say a whore..

Dudes in here are too nice to you... propberly because you have an IQ of around 85..
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OP learn to use they're, their, and there properly please..
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cruise
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Pro-tip: Most hookers have more than one client.
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I donít know any hookers who get paid for no services. Then again I wouldnít know anything about that world.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
OP learn to use they're, their, and there properly please..
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cruise
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Easily amused.
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No help for this shit....I'm outta here. hf
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Pro-tip: Most hookers have more than one client.
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I donít know any hookers who get paid for no services. Then again I wouldnít know anything about that world.
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Bitch.. are you this retarded?

What the fuck is wrong with you?

He's got another women WITH CHILD and you take his money..

have you no decency and self respect at all

GET OUT OF HERE!
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OP learn to use they're, their, and there properly please..
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hahahaha
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
RULE NUMBER ONE

you don't chase a man - a man chases you!

RULE NUMBER TWO

you don't take money from a married man or one that got a girl friend with a mutual child!

Cause that makes you a bimbo slut.. some would say a whore..

Dudes in here are too nice to you... propberly because you have an IQ of around 85..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2584650


Wait just a minute. Youíre telling me I have a low IQ when your reading skills are so low you didnít catch that he is divorced and doesnít have a kid with a girlfriend? This must be insecure idiot day at GLP. Sorry I went here. Notthingís changed.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Pro-tip: Most hookers have more than one client.
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I donít know any hookers who get paid for no services. Then again I wouldnít know anything about that world.
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Bitch.. are you this retarded?

What the fuck is wrong with you?

He's got another women WITH CHILD and you take his money..

have you no decency and self respect at all

GET OUT OF HERE!
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Idiot. What part of she divorced his ass FOUR YEARS AGO did you miss? Are you saying he owes her his life, his happiness??
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
RULE NUMBER ONE

you don't chase a man - a man chases you!

RULE NUMBER TWO

you don't take money from a married man or one that got a girl friend with a mutual child!

Cause that makes you a bimbo slut.. some would say a whore..

Dudes in here are too nice to you... propberly because you have an IQ of around 85..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2584650


Wait just a minute. Youíre telling me I have a low IQ when your reading skills are so low you didnít catch that he is divorced and doesnít have a kid with a girlfriend? This must be insecure idiot day at GLP. Sorry I went here. Notthingís changed.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11196131



You are a dumb bitch, he lies to you.. he doesn't give a flying FUCK about you except FUCKING you once in a while.

He's making excuses why he "can't be with you right now"..

HOW STUPID ARE YOU?????

He is paying you for SEX and tells you anything you want to hear since you are DUMB enough to get fooled by that.. you properbly had a not so stable family life cause otherwise YOUR DADDDY would have taught you right and protected you from this "situation"..

Yeah you got at the most an IQ of around 85
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Basically we dated for a few months but then I found out his crazy. domineering ex-wife controls him and his every move because they have a four year old son and there both like 47. Thatís theyíre only kid. She just used him cause he was the good friend of her husband who she divorced then moved onto this guy just to do IVF, marry him briefly to get his last name then take him to the cleaners ln divorce court. As soon as she found out about me about 4 months in, he began distancing himself from me but he had hired me to work for him and that stopped too but he didnít stop paying me. Ten months later he says he really wants to help me financially but he doesnít expect sex and we rarely have it but when we do heís very passionate and says he loves me. I see him at a bar once in awhile and he gives me the saddest eyes and if he gets drunk he says he loves me. I told him to stop giving me money but he says he wants to and it makes him happy. Heís put on about 30-40 lbs since he began distancing himself and is drinking a lot. He lives so close to me rarely asks me over but I know he has strong feelings for me. And no heís not seeing his ex eufe. Heís afraid of her, she has him arrested for a DUI and she completely uses his son as a pawn to control him. He makes good money and has a great house and she was 42 with no options so she lured him in. He does whatever she asks of him. Heís miserable and loves his son more than anything. I ask him why he did this to me. Said he was so crazy about me and we had such a fun future together then he just sort of tossed me aside like an old shoe but then he wants to keep that one tie to me and I guess itís tthough the money. He always says give me time to figure out my shit.

I have no idea what this is. I know heís afraid of the ex but he refuses to do anything with me and I live minutes away. But then he sees me at the bar and he either seems awkward and stressed or he gets drunk and hangs onto me and whispers that he really does love me.

What do you think? Why would he keep giving me money? I told him to stop but he wonít. And he doesnít even ask for sex. Maybe once a month it just happens after weíve been at the bar. I want to move on and find a man who eahts to give me time and attention but Iím finding it hard with this tie o still have to him, and I donít know if he is just trying to tell me to wait? I know I ask him whatís going on and he said he doesnít know and I believe him. I just want maybe some male perspective on this or women who might have some insight. Thank you. Itís been incredibly hard on me.
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u b a Fukien parasite
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Okay I scolded you enough, now listen up!

A real man does everything for his women, he would die for his women..

but he wants a SPECIAL women.. and special mean HARD TO GET, not one that is spreading her legs.. especially not because HE PAYS HER..

You are not special to him cause he's had your pussy and he needs a good fuck once in a while, he feels okay since he PAYS YOU, which makes you a cheap slut.. but not "special"..

Don't expect a miracle, for this guy you are just a piece of meat..

and in the future.. try to be a bit more classy.. let a man wait, let him fight for you.. only then he might think he can't live without you.. THAT'S HOW NATURE MADE MAN AND WOMEN.. but you apparently never been taught the right approach.. now don't be all pissy.. you came here for advice.. you needed to hear this...
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
RULE NUMBER ONE

you don't chase a man - a man chases you!

RULE NUMBER TWO

you don't take money from a married man or one that got a girl friend with a mutual child!

Cause that makes you a bimbo slut.. some would say a whore..

Dudes in here are too nice to you... propberly because you have an IQ of around 85..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2584650


Wait just a minute. Youíre telling me I have a low IQ when your reading skills are so low you didnít catch that he is divorced and doesnít have a kid with a girlfriend? This must be insecure idiot day at GLP. Sorry I went here. Notthingís changed.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11196131



You are a dumb bitch, he lies to you.. he doesn't give a flying FUCK about you except FUCKING you once in a while.

He's making excuses why he "can't be with you right now"..

HOW STUPID ARE YOU?????

He is paying you for SEX and tells you anything you want to hear since you are DUMB enough to get fooled by that.. you properbly had a not so stable family life cause otherwise YOUR DADDDY would have taught you right and protected you from this "situation"..

Yeah you got at the most an IQ of around 85
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God. How does it feel to be such a bitter, angry, monumental loser???
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
Give him ALL of the money back.
Problem solved.

But you're not going to do that, are you?
After all, you're still a woman who's kinda won the $2500 for life lottery. Gotta squeeze that lemon until it's completely dry.

"Muh glass ceiling ... Muh being paid less ... Muh #MeToo ... Boohoohoo"

Fucking cunts. Do you have morals? No, you don't.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
RULE NUMBER ONE

you don't chase a man - a man chases you!

RULE NUMBER TWO

you don't take money from a married man or one that got a girl friend with a mutual child!

Cause that makes you a bimbo slut.. some would say a whore..

Dudes in here are too nice to you... propberly because you have an IQ of around 85..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2584650


Wait just a minute. Youíre telling me I have a low IQ when your reading skills are so low you didnít catch that he is divorced and doesnít have a kid with a girlfriend? This must be insecure idiot day at GLP. Sorry I went here. Notthingís changed.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11196131



You are a dumb bitch, he lies to you.. he doesn't give a flying FUCK about you except FUCKING you once in a while.

He's making excuses why he "can't be with you right now"..

HOW STUPID ARE YOU?????

He is paying you for SEX and tells you anything you want to hear since you are DUMB enough to get fooled by that.. you properbly had a not so stable family life cause otherwise YOUR DADDDY would have taught you right and protected you from this "situation"..

Yeah you got at the most an IQ of around 85
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God. How does it feel to be such a bitter, angry, monumental loser???
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You're the btter prostitude.. I just told you to wake the fuck up ..

what a fucking retarded slut...

eyeroll2
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this is how god fucked us

It takes a male and female to reproduce. An omnipotent being couldnít anticipate a problem there?
:)
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soory .. "BITTER PROSTITUTE"

was typng fast..bye bye moron..
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this is how god fucked us

It takes a male and female to reproduce. An omnipotent being couldnít anticipate a problem there?
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I bet OP was produced OUT OF WEDLOCK.. would explain her cluelessness..
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this is how god fucked us

It takes a male and female to reproduce. An omnipotent being couldnít anticipate a problem there?
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I bet OP was produced OUT OF WEDLOCK.. would explain her cluelessness..
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Iím clueless too.
:)
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
this is how god fucked us

It takes a male and female to reproduce. An omnipotent being couldnít anticipate a problem there?
 Quoting: C. corax


I bet OP was produced OUT OF WEDLOCK.. would explain her cluelessness..
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Iím clueless too.
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I am dr. dating... asking me anything about men and I tell you all you need to know..

But for real.. those born out of wedlock have lacked what is considered "normal social standards" and usually missed the education of one parent.. this makes their understanding incomplete, and thus repeating the same mistakes, due to not knowing better.. eventually get PLAYED easily.. by someone.. that has no scruples to take advantage as long as they get their needs fulfilled..
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RULE NUMBER ONE

you don't chase a man - a man chases you!

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Someone put it this way...you never see the egg chasing the sperm.

Get some self respect and a real man that keeps you much higher on his list of priorities. His kid should come before you if he's a good father, but his ex wife obvious sits higher on the list than you do.

No one can change the situation but you. Live miserably or not.
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this is how god fucked us

It takes a male and female to reproduce. An omnipotent being couldnít anticipate a problem there?
 Quoting: C. corax


I bet OP was produced OUT OF WEDLOCK.. would explain her cluelessness..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2584650


Iím clueless too.
 Quoting: C. corax


I am dr. dating... asking me anything about men and I tell you all you need to know..

But for real.. those born out of wedlock have lacked what is considered "normal social standards" and usually missed the education of one parent.. this makes their understanding incomplete, and thus repeating the same mistakes, due to not knowing better.. eventually get PLAYED easily.. by someone.. that has no scruples to take advantage as long as they get their needs fulfilled..
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fulfilled needs

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One thing OP actually does know is a) sheís sane b) she has a job and c) she has a sex life. None of which any of you respondents can say for yourselves. Good bye. Thought Iíd drop in and post this question and it was like disturbing a beehive of miserable, disgusting, perverted, idiotic losers. Good God. Thank God for this guy in my life, you all make him look like an amazing catch. And who came up with the $2500 number? Stupid! I didnít even talk abjog figures, but my guess is you have a lot zero in your bank account right now. Thank god itís a holiday and your parents fed your useless arses. And as for the German man, you guys are boring as fuck and smell bad. Brush your teeth and get a life.
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Re: So this guy I dated for awhile keeps his distance but says he really wants me in his life and gives me money every month
He is paying you to be his backup so he doesn't feel afraid and aloneZ

You are unable to move on because you risk losing this income if you stop seeing him.

You are his employee. If you quit he will hire another one. If he wants a mother backup girlfriend he will hire another one. He can go through call girls and housecleaners until he finds another backup once a month save him from feeling completely alone girlfriend.

It's really sad about him but I don't see that this will end with you living in his nice house.





GLP