silent treatment or timeout...

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A cult of personality arises when a country's regime – or, more rarely, an individual politician – uses the techniques of mass media, propaganda, the big lie, spectacle, the arts, patriotism, and government-organized demonstrations and rallies to create an idealized, heroic, and worshipful image of a leader, often through unquestioning flattery and praise. A cult of personality is similar to apotheosis, except that it is established by modern social engineering techniques, usually by the state or the party in one-party states. It is often seen in totalitarian or authoritarian countries.

The term first came to modern prominence in 1956, in Nikita Khrushchev's secret speech On the Cult of Personality and Its Consequences, given on the final day of the 20th Congress of the Communist Party of the Soviet Union. In the speech, Khrushchev, who was the First Secretary of the Party – in effect, the leader of the country – criticized the lionization and idealization of Joseph Stalin, and, by implication, his Communist contemporary Mao Zedong, as being contrary to Marxist doctrine. The speech was later made public and was part of the "de-Stalinization" process the Soviet Union went through.

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De-Stalinization (Russian: destalinizatsiya) consisted of a series of political reforms in the Soviet Union after the death of long-time leader Joseph Stalin in 1953, and the ascension of Nikita Khrushchev to power.[1]

The reforms consisted of changing or removing key institutions that helped Stalin hold power: the cult of personality that surrounded him, the Stalinist political system, and the Gulag labour-camp system, all of which had been created and dominated by him. Stalin was succeeded by a collective leadership after his death in March 1953, consisting of Georgi Malenkov, Premier of the Soviet Union; Lavrentiy Beria, head of the Ministry of the Interior; and Nikita Khrushchev, First Secretary of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of the Soviet Union (CPSU).

Silent de-Stalinization"

There were dangers in denouncing Stalin as he was placed on a pedestal both at home and among communists abroad.[3] In the years 1953–1955, a period of "silent de-Stalinization" took place, as the revision of Stalin's policies was done in secret, and often with no explanation. This period saw a number of non-publicised political rehabilitations,[4] (such as Marshal Mikhail Tukhachevsky, Politburo members Robert Eikhe and Jānis Rudzutaks, and those executed in the Leningrad Affair[5]) and the release of "Article 58ers".[4] However, due to the huge influx of prisoners returning from the camps (90,000 prisoners in 1954–55 alone), this could not continue.[4]

In December 1955 Khrushchev proposed a commission to be set up in order to investigate Stalin's activities on behalf of the Presidium; this investigation found out that out of the 1,920,635 arrested for anti-Soviet activities – who were arrested on fabricated evidence in the first place and confessed under torture authorized by Stalin – 688,503 were executed.[6]

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real time Silent De-Stalinization, 21st century version...

I have been dealing with some weird ass silent treatment by an ass for a while.I have never had sex with him etc.Alot of phone stuff. Sexual phone calls.If we ever DID get alone somewhere,we share the kind of sexual energies that would definitely be wall slamming furniture breaking lol.No denying it.Point is, he lies and pisses me off, I talk shit then he says he is done with me.Then he keeps calling randomly and expects me to stop cooking or wtf ever I am doing and meet or talk to him.If he were dominate enough I might lol but he isn't. Just weird to read text he is done with me and he text or calls again.
Damn good thing my heart doesn't belong to him or It would be torn apart now more than it already was when I met him.
I am so glad I never fucked him lol. It has been nice to have an 'intimacy' with him,I have been alone.I just keep hoping he didn't record us over the phone lol!
I faked it so much just to satisfy him but confess a RARE few times I actually got off. If I thought he did that I would track him down and take his phone and run it over lol. That is what I get for trying again, to trust anyone.
If I never hear from him again I am fine with it and if he calls I am fine with it.No way in hell I would be physically intimate with him,Not now. He is too damn SHIFTY,and maybe on the psycho side.I am part psycho myself but at least reliable lol.

you own it and that's more than others, so you're already above them lol


silent treatment makes you feel like shit, but why would someone go out of their way to punish you, if you were a piece of shit




Last Edited by psychopath_slayer on 08/27/2018 07:15 PM

Thanks : )

Thanks : )
Yea,this guy even asked me to live with him several times.He definitely confused me and drew me towards him slowly, but he definitely could never OWN me lol.

how can you expect someone to be honest with you, when they can't even be honest with themselves

OP, truth is, that I expect anything from anyone at any time while not expecting anything at all.Odd way to live I know. I am a closed off person in my true personal life by my own choice and always will prefer that way, of living. That doesn't mean I am shut nor blind to the world any people and their. .Ways.I am not so withdrawn that I have lost the ability for love light passion and Trust. I try to open up.To breathe around very VERY few,and if they have flaws? I tend to exept them.When I want anyone in my life, I take them at the worst and love them. It was only a lust thing with us, but I STILL lol,require a trust.He wanted to know everything about me and didn't want to tell anything of himself. Knows where I live and a hell of a lot more and I know next to nothing of him. I know one thing for certain, OP. That would be I am a gullible fucking idiot.
I, just feeling how I have been for years, threw caution to the wind and tried to go outside and pway ,


He couldn't have handled playing with me anyway.
: (

when you learn to play their game, things aren't the same and you're not "fun" to play with anymore...

Yea I know. Fuck it. I will just play with myself :-D
Unless you have better advice.

well if you do it yourself, at least you know it'll be done right

Yes! lol
Yea I played though.He text and call and say I see you-or am watching you,or ask where are you? I would be honest and say at a store and he would wait a few and say I see your car and am waiting out here for you,or I am in your driveway waiting for you to get home.Should have seem me rushing lol.Never there when I got there and didnt answer when I called but We have met, and the closest was in a vehicle together. I don't know.Yea, major head games

If I were not so softhearted I would have beat him at his own damn game. I mean. I have a trunk. Lol.

I wish him the best.It really was my fault for falling for it.
At least I was the honest one.

you should know they always come back, so don't give up on beating him at his own game, commit and dismantle, slay his ass




Last Edited by psychopath_slayer on 08/28/2018 01:22 AM

figuratively, not literally lol

Damn lol. You seem fun. Wanna play with me? :-D



Just joking. Yea I hear you on that.Nah. I have no desire to 'play' with him anymore. The only thing I would dismantle would be his phone and I would only do that if he recorded me 'us' on it lol. I mean I have the ability to do that too,but that is not how I am.That is just not fucking cool to me.I could have done alot of shit just by following him etc.That is something I do not do,especially when I have an"intimate" relationship.That is childish.As child like as I can act at times though,I was clearly the adult here lol .Fuck em.

I agree, fuck'em

And no OP, I don't think he will be back. Either it is like you said,his game was not fun anymore, or something spooked him away lol.




Go Figure :-D

Nite OP.I could talk to you all night. Going to try and sleep and NO! I! AM!NOT! RESTLESSS!

lol ;

even if I had access to his phone, I would opt not to look at it because seeing the bs would enrage me and its simply not worth it...

cue the cliché ignorance is truly bliss saying lol

Phfttt. Not even with somebody elses front hole.

Lol
Had to say that.

haha I'm glad you did lol

if you DO dismantle his phone, think about me, I can live vicariously thru you lol


good night

It's good to see you again. So you it turned out well for you?

good to see you as well, umm it was difficult, but I was tired of them insulting my intelligence and they were surprised that I was no longer willing to remain silent, the 2 of them together don't have that stronghold on me, I'm not their victim...


I was right about all of the sick shit they were doing, but there was so much stuff I didn't realize because one of them was my closest friend and its disgusting, they are vile beings...


I have one last source they can use to come at me with, of course its a kid and I have never witnessed a display of cowardly behave like the two of them, but its been a great awakening of sorts and the fun has just begun...

I couldn't help but laugh when the asshole across the hall claimed he wasn't texting me anymore, therefore it should stop what has begun and I remimded him that's not that works, that's not how any of that works lol


they were sure proud of doing the shit to me in the dark, why not own and claim your handywork, take pride of your evil doings and let friends and family see your craftiness...


yeah they don't like that, too bad lol

last year I thought I was being watched in my bedroom, I believed the asshole across the hall had placed a camera in there because of the unexplainable coincidences...

that caused me to flashback to a conversation my 'friend' and I had several months ago where she said to me, "do you think it(camera) could be in your bathroom" and knowing now what I didn't know then, I'm willing to bet there was a camera in my bathroom...

I mean WHY?