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Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 12:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look, don't one-star me until you've seen the accumulated advice given to others. That in itself is a one-star move. A d*ck move, to be more precise. I take my advice-giving seriously, and put a great deal of thought into it. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 12:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look, don't one-star me until you've seen the accumulated advice given to others. That in itself is a one-star move. A d*ck move, to be more precise. Quoting: Rose8 I take my advice-giving seriously, and put a great deal of thought into it. Thread: Ancient Wise One - Offering Advice Today Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 12:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look, don't one-star me until you've seen the accumulated advice given to others. That in itself is a one-star move. A d*ck move, to be more precise. Quoting: Rose8 I take my advice-giving seriously, and put a great deal of thought into it. Thread: Ancient Wise One - Offering Advice Today Thread: Wise Ancient One Giving Relationship Advice Today Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, Mr One Star who has this to say with the red thumbs, cowardly bullying system: 8/9/2018 Not wise at all, in fact, pretty effin' dumb Nobody determines my worth but me. I'll remind myself of that, and the four agreements as I see you stalking my threads just to harass me and insult me. The Four Agreements are: 1. Be Impeccable with your Word: Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the Word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your Word in the direction of truth and love. 2. Don’t Take Anything Personally Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. 3. Don’t Make Assumptions Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. 4. Always Do Your Best Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
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Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 02:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok. there is this guy i recently met. he is very cute,very kind to me and generally a very kind person. he is singing in a metal band and he is doing some software job. when i go to dinner with him, i dont like the way he eats his food and i can feel his smell, i dont like the way i eat my food when i am with him..you know, i didnt feel my mom's smell or my ex's smell ..even when they smelled bad. and with my ex i liked the way i ate my food eventhough i messes it up like a kid sometimes and he is a gemini and i am leo. what do you think? Quoting: Archer7 Eating style and hygiene issues will always be deal breakers in the end. They're small things, but also HUGE things. If it's going to bother you right off, that irksome feeling is NEVER going to change. You being a Leo, you'll always want to have the control, and that's just not something you're going to be able to control. I'm not sure how you feel a persons smell, or how you don't feel a smell even when they don't smell bad, but I get it...the dude gives your the heeby jeebys. I would suggest that you not move forward with it. He is neither cute enough, kind enough or successful enough for you to overcome your discomfort. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
Archer7 User ID: 76788887 Turkey 08/09/2018 02:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok. there is this guy i recently met. he is very cute,very kind to me and generally a very kind person. he is singing in a metal band and he is doing some software job. when i go to dinner with him, i dont like the way he eats his food and i can feel his smell, i dont like the way i eat my food when i am with him..you know, i didnt feel my mom's smell or my ex's smell ..even when they smelled bad. and with my ex i liked the way i ate my food eventhough i messes it up like a kid sometimes and he is a gemini and i am leo. what do you think? Quoting: Archer7 Eating style and hygiene issues will always be deal breakers in the end. They're small things, but also HUGE things. If it's going to bother you right off, that irksome feeling is NEVER going to change. You being a Leo, you'll always want to have the control, and that's just not something you're going to be able to control. I'm not sure how you feel a persons smell, or how you don't feel a smell even when they don't smell bad, but I get it...the dude gives your the heeby jeebys. I would suggest that you not move forward with it. He is neither cute enough, kind enough or successful enough for you to overcome your discomfort. i'd advise myself exactly like this. thanks. but then i always failed with the ones i picked when i dumped these types. why so? also i didnt quite feel like the controller with my ex which was a virgo, a rather depressed and controlling character he was. |
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Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 03:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Had a falling out with a friend over 10yrs ago. Still dream her from time to time, she always seems to regret the fact that we don’t speak now-a-days. Any chance of reconciliation? Quoting: MaidenBrooklyn You never know until you try. Ten years is a long time to mend old wounds. People can change significantly in that period of time and you two could be entirely different now. The dreams could signify a real connection between you two where you are picking up how she really feels. OR, adversely, it could just be your yearning for things to actually be that way. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
NotStarvingActress User ID: 20396732 United States 08/09/2018 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why can't others do the same for me? I've reached out so many times to others for friendship, saved many peoples lives by finding them work, and in return am continually disappointed to see how in return they bad mouth me behind my back and spread lies about me. Why are people so cruel? Grateful to GLP as otherwise I've become almost agoraphobic with only 1 or 2 friends I see occasionally. Don't talk to anyone else. |
MaidenBrooklyn User ID: 18681330 United States 08/09/2018 03:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Had a falling out with a friend over 10yrs ago. Still dream her from time to time, she always seems to regret the fact that we don’t speak now-a-days. Any chance of reconciliation? Quoting: MaidenBrooklyn You never know until you try. Ten years is a long time to mend old wounds. People can change significantly in that period of time and you two could be entirely different now. The dreams could signify a real connection between you two where you are picking up how she really feels. OR, adversely, it could just be your yearning for things to actually be that way. Thanks! Very helpful! |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 03:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a live and let live type of person. Not being super observant nor visual, I don't see a need to focus on others' faults. Quoting: NotStarvingActress Why can't others do the same for me? I've reached out so many times to others for friendship, saved many peoples lives by finding them work, and in return am continually disappointed to see how in return they bad mouth me behind my back and spread lies about me. Why are people so cruel? Grateful to GLP as otherwise I've become almost agoraphobic with only 1 or 2 friends I see occasionally. Don't talk to anyone else. I think people are very self-involved, whether consciously or sub-consciously, and they do not look outside themselves to really involve themselves with others, even if those others have been kind or not. People are in a constant state of survival. It makes it fairly hard to look outside of your own self to tend to the emotional needs of others. For those that DO look beyond themselves and do the nasty things, it's the survival technique of narcissists, which are a nefarious breed of human being that is ever increasing. In the case of narcissists, you will NEVER (no matter how hard you try) be able to please them unless you are suffering. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
NotStarvingActress User ID: 20396732 United States 08/09/2018 03:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a live and let live type of person. Not being super observant nor visual, I don't see a need to focus on others' faults. Quoting: NotStarvingActress Why can't others do the same for me? I've reached out so many times to others for friendship, saved many peoples lives by finding them work, and in return am continually disappointed to see how in return they bad mouth me behind my back and spread lies about me. Why are people so cruel? Grateful to GLP as otherwise I've become almost agoraphobic with only 1 or 2 friends I see occasionally. Don't talk to anyone else. I think people are very self-involved, whether consciously or sub-consciously, and they do not look outside themselves to really involve themselves with others, even if those others have been kind or not. People are in a constant state of survival. It makes it fairly hard to look outside of your own self to tend to the emotional needs of others. For those that DO look beyond themselves and do the nasty things, it's the survival technique of narcissists, which are a nefarious breed of human being that is ever increasing. In the case of narcissists, you will NEVER (no matter how hard you try) be able to please them unless you are suffering. Thank you so much for your very insightful response. Any ideas of how to find true friends? No longer feel safe going dancing or seeing the sights alone. Used to think it was possible to have strictly platonic friendships with men but have found with one wonderful exception, they get mad at me if I'm not interested in them romantically. Frustrating as I'm super honest from Day-1 re me feelings. Have had a lot of difficulty with female friendships. Last Edited by NotStarvingActress on 08/09/2018 03:45 PM |
Superkicker User ID: 75394950 United States 08/09/2018 03:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My life is one miracle after another and all my heart's desires are met. I praise God all the time and receive premonitions which always happen, can read minds, and have received numerous Angelic interventions throughout my life at the most critical times. My question to you is: Should I seek God's other end-time's witness so we can start the termination of all this world's BS, ushering in His return and then the eternal Kingdom on earth that's been prepared. It's a huge responsibility. What say you? Superkicker |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76827597 Japan 08/09/2018 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, Mr One Star who has this to say with the red thumbs, cowardly bullying system: Quoting: Rose8 8/9/2018 Not wise at all, in fact, pretty effin' dumb Nobody determines my worth but me. I'll remind myself of that, and the four agreements as I see you stalking my threads just to harass me and insult me. The Four Agreements are: 1. Be Impeccable with your Word: Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the Word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your Word in the direction of truth and love. 2. Don’t Take Anything Personally Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. 3. Don’t Make Assumptions Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. 4. Always Do Your Best Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret. You might want to credit the author, Don Miguel Ruiz. I'm sure most people know that, but just in case. |
Superkicker User ID: 75394950 United States 08/09/2018 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My life is one miracle after another and all my heart's desires are met. I praise God all the time and receive premonitions which always happen, can read minds, and have received numerous Angelic interventions throughout my life at the most critical times. My question to you is: Should I seek God's other end-time's witness so we can start the termination of all this world's BS, ushering in His return and then the eternal Kingdom on earth that's been prepared. It's a huge responsibility. What say you? Quoting: Superkicker Here's a little Bob Dylan while you ponder your response: [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] Superkicker |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 04:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a live and let live type of person. Not being super observant nor visual, I don't see a need to focus on others' faults. Quoting: NotStarvingActress Why can't others do the same for me? I've reached out so many times to others for friendship, saved many peoples lives by finding them work, and in return am continually disappointed to see how in return they bad mouth me behind my back and spread lies about me. Why are people so cruel? Grateful to GLP as otherwise I've become almost agoraphobic with only 1 or 2 friends I see occasionally. Don't talk to anyone else. I think people are very self-involved, whether consciously or sub-consciously, and they do not look outside themselves to really involve themselves with others, even if those others have been kind or not. People are in a constant state of survival. It makes it fairly hard to look outside of your own self to tend to the emotional needs of others. For those that DO look beyond themselves and do the nasty things, it's the survival technique of narcissists, which are a nefarious breed of human being that is ever increasing. In the case of narcissists, you will NEVER (no matter how hard you try) be able to please them unless you are suffering. Thank you so much for your very insightful response. Any ideas of how to find true friends? No longer feel safe going dancing or seeing the sights alone. Used to think it was possible to have strictly platonic friendships with men but have found with one wonderful exception, they get mad at me if I'm not interested in them romantically. Frustrating as I'm super honest from Day-1 re me feelings. Have had a lot of difficulty with female friendships. I think true friends are just very few and far in between. You just have to maintain a lot of boundaries to ensure that people cannot take advantage. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 04:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My life is one miracle after another and all my heart's desires are met. I praise God all the time and receive premonitions which always happen, can read minds, and have received numerous Angelic interventions throughout my life at the most critical times. My question to you is: Should I seek God's other end-time's witness so we can start the termination of all this world's BS, ushering in His return and then the eternal Kingdom on earth that's been prepared. It's a huge responsibility. What say you? Quoting: Superkicker It's not really relationship/family advice. I believe if you feel you are an end-time witness you should probably examine why. Also, do you have the finances to seek out other professed witnesses and do you have a way to discern if those witnesses are authentic or not? I reckon, if you receive such guidance as you described, perhaps you should inquire with the divine beings that seem to hover in your sphere and see if an answer is forthcoming. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
Rose8 (OP) User ID: 13251065 United States 08/09/2018 04:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, Mr One Star who has this to say with the red thumbs, cowardly bullying system: Quoting: Rose8 8/9/2018 Not wise at all, in fact, pretty effin' dumb Nobody determines my worth but me. I'll remind myself of that, and the four agreements as I see you stalking my threads just to harass me and insult me. The Four Agreements are: 1. Be Impeccable with your Word: Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the Word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your Word in the direction of truth and love. 2. Don’t Take Anything Personally Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. 3. Don’t Make Assumptions Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. 4. Always Do Your Best Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret. You might want to credit the author, Don Miguel Ruiz. I'm sure most people know that, but just in case. Thank you. Yes, Don Miguel Ruiz is the author of The Four Agreements and other companion books related to the topic. Nobody Determines MY Worth but ME |
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Superkicker User ID: 75394950 United States 08/09/2018 04:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My life is one miracle after another and all my heart's desires are met. I praise God all the time and receive premonitions which always happen, can read minds, and have received numerous Angelic interventions throughout my life at the most critical times. My question to you is: Should I seek God's other end-time's witness so we can start the termination of all this world's BS, ushering in His return and then the eternal Kingdom on earth that's been prepared. It's a huge responsibility. What say you? Quoting: Superkicker It's not really relationship/family advice. I believe if you feel you are an end-time witness you should probably examine why. Also, do you have the finances to seek out other professed witnesses and do you have a way to discern if those witnesses are authentic or not? I reckon, if you receive such guidance as you described, perhaps you should inquire with the divine beings that seem to hover in your sphere and see if an answer is forthcoming. Problem is I don't really want to begin smiting the earth until submission or all are destroyed. I'm really a lover. I'm sure it will soon be clear as I leave it up to Christ to command me re: this. Superkicker |
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revvn User ID: 76816258 United States 08/09/2018 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | whats even the point all my life i've simply focused on improving the relationship to myself im waaay happier than most people i see, whom seem desperate to connect with others of course im incapable of even the most casual of conversations which others do so effortlessly. so often i wonder if this speaks of some deficit on my end, which i should seek to correct but really i always come back to whats even the point |
Ticker2.0 User ID: 72806498 Canada 08/09/2018 06:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I believe I've had a spiritual embargo all my live. the only thing that mattered deep in my heart was to have some friends and a girlfriend . lonely i was mostof my life even though i was good looking ,athletic , always smiling to people and never attracting what so ever. Is there a way to break apart a spiritual embargo? |
TlvmmCpoft User ID: 76827095 Italy 08/09/2018 06:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I believe I've had a spiritual embargo all my live. the only thing that mattered deep in my heart was to have some friends and a girlfriend . lonely i was mostof my life even though i was good looking ,athletic , always smiling to people and never attracting what so ever. Is there a way to break apart a spiritual embargo? Quoting: Ticker2.0 Smoke pot. I gained hundreds of instant friends when I did. All fake as fuck, but I'm pretty sure most of the sober ones are too. I don't know what lies they told you, but I can promise they were lies. There's a fine line between training, trauma, and torture. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76722488 United States 08/09/2018 10:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thank you. I have been in the same job for almost 20 years, I am unhappy and in a rut. I can't imagine anything else I could do for a living that isn't sitting at a desk typing. I have no life, I avoid my family, and my friends are dying or moving away. I have lots of hobbies but no idea how to turn them into employment. I feel stuck and aimless and without purpose. |