"he" will not ascend until he stops blaming"her" for all that is wrong. "He" needs to accept his own responsibility and embrace her as she embraces him. They both need to remove the betrayers within them, that which betrays which is holy and true so they may rise up to the coming age. He betrays her and himself by continuing to call her a whore. She betrays him by continuing to create without him that is why she is a whore.

Judas and Sophia are both of the 13th house or aeon/age. They rule over that age. Are ruling over this age. According to the Gospel of Judas they will not rise up to the holy generation in their state.

The holy generation has no rulers commanding it except spirits and souls. (According to Judas Gospel)

Moral of the story is for each to purify themselves and remove their Judas and Sophia aspects which betrays their own kind so that their souls may ascend to the next age.

If we do not do this work we will not return to the deathless realm of the true divine masculine and feminine. We will not ascend.

When "Sophia" removes the whore within herself she no longer will be Sophia. She transforms into pure light again and no longer is called by that name. He will no longer be called Judas when he removes his betrayer.