I get what you saying.
The ones screaming for pro-choice never had a choice of being here, while they want to be able to remove the next one that would have came if not for their power alone to remove them before they are born.
The one they removed like them never had a choice they just got killed instead of birthed.
Birth control would have been the responsible way to have prevented the conception to being with instead of killing a fetus.

The morning after pill taken as soon as it was a possibility of conception in a forced contamination of their egg, would have been better than to have allowed it to form in the womb past the egg phase.

Pro-life is the same in reverse it encourages pregnancy instead of preventing it to continue the cycles of replenishment of life.

It can be a husband that refuses children in the marriage not the wife, while she still has to keep her marriage intact and do so by knowing he does not want children and honoring that, or divorcing him.

It is not just the choice of woman and it is not just the choice of man.
The enviroment alone can have more control of the choice of determining whether there will be any replenishment of life abundantly or at all, it over rules both male and female.

It controls the seasons, we may not want a drought so sever while we do not have a choice when it sets in on us.