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LoneStarRising (OP) Forum Moderator User ID: 61973471 United States 09/22/2018 11:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why In The World Would Men Stop Mentoring Women Post #MeToo? It’s easy to set aside grossly misogynist responses to the #MeToo movement. But recent surveys suggest that a much subtler backlash is occurring and threatens the efforts some companies and organizations have made to support the advancement of women through leadership ranks. Three recent surveys arrived at similar troublesome findings: A growing number of men report being uncomfortable or afraid to work alone with a woman. Senior men are increasingly reluctant to mentor younger women or include them in opportunities like business travel or client dinners. One company, KPMG, recently took a proactive approach, jumping on the problem to prevent this backlash from setting back advancements in women being mentored and sponsored within their company. When I told my husband, who led a consulting firm for 40 years and employed, mentored and sponsored many young women, that I was writing about the #MeToo backlash, he laughed, thinking I was making it up. I said "No, it’s a real thing. Men are afraid to be alone with women at work.” “Then they’re jerks,” said my husband, unhelpfully. If you too are skeptical, here’s the data (the findings are preliminary but shouldn't be ignored): - A Pew Research Center survey asked respondents whether they thought that the recent focus on sexual harassment had made it harder for men to know how to interact with women in the workplace. Fifty-one percent of all adults questioned said yes. - SourceMedia reports on trends in the financial industries. Respondents to their recent survey on attitudes towards sexual harassment in the workplace post #MeToo voiced concern that women would be excluded from work situations “in order for men to protect themselves.” A darker prediction was made by a woman in her 30’s: “Corporations will discriminate against females and start hiring only male employees since it creates a less problematic environment.” One senior leader in the banking industry reported that several male colleagues had told her they were reconsidering mentoring women. - Lean In partnered with SurveyMonkey to look into the possible negative effects of the #MeToo movement for women’s advancement. Promoting mentorship is one of Lean In’s key priorities. Nearly half of male managers they surveyed reported being “uncomfortable participating in a common work activity with a woman, such as mentoring, working alone, or socializing together.” Senior men were five times more likely to hesitate to travel for work with a junior level woman than with a junior level man. [link to www.forbes.com (secure)] LoneStarRising |
Torchie User ID: 74276477 United States 09/22/2018 11:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | TIA for explaining Mike pence rule the metoo movement is terrible for all concerned Last Edited by Torchie on 09/22/2018 11:40 AM untying the shoelaces of the internet one post at a time love tastes best from teal buckets go GIT in your STALL! a Spark does not fall far from the Torchie |
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LoneStarRising (OP) Forum Moderator User ID: 61973471 United States 09/22/2018 11:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] LoneStarRising |
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Torchie User ID: 74276477 United States 09/22/2018 12:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] sounds muslim to me... I see the use but the loss is tremendous not to him, to us women one-on-one discussions are the most productive, would be sad to have them only with women Last Edited by Torchie on 09/22/2018 12:19 PM untying the shoelaces of the internet one post at a time love tastes best from teal buckets go GIT in your STALL! a Spark does not fall far from the Torchie |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76315989 United States 09/22/2018 12:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If I were a man , I would get out of the corporate work environment and let the snarky woman have it . They will treat each other with the same viciousness they have aimed at the white male. The Gays will double cross them because they secretly hate the women, as they should. They scanky women are animals who do not even love their own children. Let them eat each other alive men , do something else with your life. |
Shadow Dance User ID: 59490123 United States 09/22/2018 12:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | hahaha get back in the kitchen where you belong bitches ... raise your own kids, because NO one is going to hire you ... any more, and YOU CANT MAKE THEM ... because it will require an investigation into your background ... that femi-nazis can't pass HA HA |
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WatchingEddyMin User ID: 76928899 United States 09/22/2018 12:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Baby boys are sweet from birth and if they turn angry and mean, they get that meanness from the creepy self centered mothers who raised them. Some day all these hateful demonic woman who have been so mean to little baby boys, and others are going to stand before God, as we all will. On that day like Malcolm X said ,"I am not going to be sad when I see their chickens come home to roost." Quoting: Lajata Fathers can have a negative influence too-like if father has no respect for women the boy likely won't either unless he works hard to overcome it. "Doom! Doom! Doom! Something seems to whisper it in the very dark trees of America." - DH Lawrence "If any question why we died, tell them because our father's lied" Epitaphs of War, Rudyard Kipling (lost son in WW1) |
SoulWinner User ID: 58577065 United States 09/22/2018 01:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] sounds muslim to me... I see the use but the loss is tremendous not to him, to us women one-on-one discussions are the most productive, would be sad to have them only with women It has two purposes, really. First is to avoid the temptation to hit on women or engage in inappropriate conversation. Second is to eliminate credible false accusations. Based on hundreds of men who have confided in me, any man who denies the temptation exists is deluded, lying, or both. They might never act on it, but It comes to mind. And it takes one second to tip the domino that ultimately destroys a marriage, career, and credibility. ...Loving souls, starving trolls... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76678898 United States 09/22/2018 06:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Baby boys are sweet from birth and if they turn angry and mean, they get that meanness from the creepy self centered mothers who raised them. Some day all these hateful demonic woman who have been so mean to little baby boys, and others are going to stand before God, as we all will. On that day like Malcolm X said ,"I am not going to be sad when I see their chickens come home to roost." Quoting: Lajata Fathers can have a negative influence too-like if father has no respect for women the boy likely won't either unless he works hard to overcome it. mothers who are single are more likely to abuse there children than men. |
MissCleo User ID: 76541118 United States 09/22/2018 06:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] great rule. protects women and men. |
MissCleo User ID: 76541118 United States 09/22/2018 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Baby boys are sweet from birth and if they turn angry and mean, they get that meanness from the creepy self centered mothers who raised them. Some day all these hateful demonic woman who have been so mean to little baby boys, and others are going to stand before God, as we all will. On that day like Malcolm X said ,"I am not going to be sad when I see their chickens come home to roost." Quoting: Lajata Fathers can have a negative influence too-like if father has no respect for women the boy likely won't either unless he works hard to overcome it. mothers who are single are more likely to abuse there children than men. there's more to this than just negative behavior. Single mothers are more likely to invite a man into the house that will kill the offspring of another man, just like lions or animals in the wild. Single mothers are more likely to have been abused, there's a reason they are single. So there's not really a rule to follow here. |
Paranoiaaaaa Butters User ID: 76955274 Japan 09/22/2018 06:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] great rule. protects women and men. It's going have to be this way. you can never tell who is going to turn on you anymore. It's ridiculous! "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
ConcreteBrunette User ID: 76863067 United States 09/22/2018 07:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Liberals sew division and we react appropriately, out of fear. Quoting: Fret Wiz It's tragically sad. Homosexuals can have the most heinous sex and no one touches them. Imagine what kind of "fun" Anderson Cooper and Don Lemon have. They are destroying everything about the eros of heterosexual love & sex and honestly as a woman my darkest fear is Islam ways; men separated from women and having to wear blankets and curtains |
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kiffertom User ID: 70413540 United States 09/22/2018 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | its like the fucking boy scouts. who in their right mind would be a scoutmaster? all it takes is one kid to cop an attitude. your life is ruined. now who in the fuck wants to be alone with a female in a corporate atmosphere? Dont blame me im not my fault! |
LividCoffeeDrinker User ID: 76100954 United States 09/22/2018 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If I were a man , I would get out of the corporate work environment and let the snarky woman have it . They will treat each other with the same viciousness they have aimed at the white male. The Gays will double cross them because they secretly hate the women, as they should. They scanky women are animals who do not even love their own children. Let them eat each other alive men , do something else with your life. Quoting: Lajata Sounds like being a nurse! I always tell my co-workers we might have an easier time if we covered each others backs like the boys in law enforcement. When we get a straight male nurse, it is everything I can do to keep myself from falling at his feet. They are so much easier to work with and their presence actually calms the other girls down. |
LividCoffeeDrinker User ID: 76100954 United States 09/22/2018 08:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We are going to end up in burkas or like handmaids or some shit. I saw that as soon as it started up. You can't dress, and pose, and model, and flirt like they do and then be mad about being objectified. You don't go into Hollywood if you have objections to the casting couch. It will have to be all trannys in Hollywood when women are no longer allowed to perform. |
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Jmoore User ID: 32068541 United States 09/22/2018 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] sounds muslim to me... I see the use but the loss is tremendous not to him, to us women one-on-one discussions are the most productive, would be sad to have them only with women Well try being an honest guy that has never so much as showed interest in another female than my wife of 20 years. Then have a liberal female get you fired from a job that you loved over false sexual harassment allegations. I guess though I should feel happy that the cunt didn't try to get me thrown in jail over a false rape allegation. |
Torchie User ID: 74276477 United States 09/24/2018 02:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is never alone with any woman other than his wife. It protects him from false claims of sexual harassment. the Rev. Billy Graham followed this rule too. [link to en.wikipedia.org (secure)] sounds muslim to me... I see the use but the loss is tremendous not to him, to us women one-on-one discussions are the most productive, would be sad to have them only with women It has two purposes, really. First is to avoid the temptation to hit on women or engage in inappropriate conversation. Second is to eliminate credible false accusations. Based on hundreds of men who have confided in me, any man who denies the temptation exists is deluded, lying, or both. They might never act on it, but It comes to mind. And it takes one second to tip the domino that ultimately destroys a marriage, career, and credibility. or opens them up. untying the shoelaces of the internet one post at a time love tastes best from teal buckets go GIT in your STALL! a Spark does not fall far from the Torchie |
Torchie User ID: 74276477 United States 09/24/2018 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We are going to end up in burkas or like handmaids or some shit. Quoting: LividCoffeeDrinker I saw that as soon as it started up. You can't dress, and pose, and model, and flirt like they do and then be mad about being objectified. You don't go into Hollywood if you have objections to the casting couch. It will have to be all trannys in Hollywood when women are no longer allowed to perform. this has a history women were not actresses for a long time, no woman appeared on stage. men played the female roles. I agree this is creeping and creepy sharia untying the shoelaces of the internet one post at a time love tastes best from teal buckets go GIT in your STALL! a Spark does not fall far from the Torchie |