I've put everyone ahead of myself for most of my life. Every fight every soul goes thru is their own experience, and how they choose to handle it is their own path. I don't need you to tell me how to lead my life or what not to do for me to feel any differently about my choices. Your comment actually deserves a "blow me buttercup", but instead, if I have time, I'll just say a little prayer for your bitterness.