Mom is dying

try and give her a ton of turmeric w/ black pepper extract..if she can drink


You are fortified for this. Your comfort is all she seeks

Op is this the account your Mom used?

Does her name begin with an L?

I'm so sorry either way. If it is L's account this really hits home a bit. Feel free to PM me if answering in the Forum is not cool with you. I'm going to stop and pray for her right now.

Blessings...
ES

Word.

You're right, and I will do as you've suggested. Thank you

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Last Edited by BrianMcFry on 10/10/2018 04:48 PM

I'm never good with words because I can't begin to imagine the pain of losing a parent.

I send you love and prayers. :(

I have been in your shoes twice..having to make the decision to put them under hospice care for their final days. There is really no comfort to offer because the loss of a parent is terrible. However, hospice is amazingly good dealing with both your parent's pain issues and with the family as a whole. I won't sugarcoat it, the death of a parent is something you never "get over." But, you do find a way to adapt to the new reality and you go on. As time passes, the months of sickness will recede from your memory and only pop up on rare occasions. You will be left with your Mom's memory, her wisdom and her love. That's what sustained me during my darkest time. Have faith that, although your world is now shattered, that you will be ok and your mom will be ok. Let her know that you don't want to hold her back from her journey. Giving a sick parent permission to let go frees them from holding on, at all costs, for the family. Let her know you will be ok. And, in time, you will be ok.

hugs and prayers for you and your family at this difficult time

Give me a pm if you need to talk

The guilt and blame lie entirely with the medical establishment and its approach to addiction.

While the difference between drinking and not drinking is startling, drinking may be a symptom, not a cause.

A good friend of my family is in hospice now. His brother drank and died in his early 60s. He didn't and is now dying in his late 90s.

But, without any options for self medication that aren't as toxic as alcohol (like Marijuana), what can people who suffer do? Learn not to suffer. That hasn't been successful yet. Blame the victim? We don't even know how cancer in the early stages can affect people emotionally


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"Cancer cells might actively release chemicals that can affect our mood, and make us more likely to be depressed"

She could've been self medicating the depression which was being caused by cancerous changes all along. Stopping drinking could've slowed it down. But not stopped her mood issues. Please don't feel guilt, this stuff is so complicated. And so very hard to watch, with little effective support.

That's tough man.
Went through the same myself

Prayers going up for you.

My mother died of cancer. DO NOT FORGET TO ASK TO TO MAKE A WILL! Your family may not give a shit what her will is.

Prayers for you and yours

Thank you, everyone of your comments are being taken to heart, and I deeply appreciate everyone's love, concern, and support during this troubled time. Love all of you.

Dear Lord.

Stay strong. It's hard to lose a parent.
I have lost both, 15 years ago.
Take this time to just love her.

Your family are in our prayers.

I’m so sorry OP

A real tough break for sure. I don't know really what to say. I just lost my sister and it helped me when I came here and made a thread about it like you. Believe it or not, there are some good folks here that do care about you, I do.

Good luck and don't forget to take a second or two for yourself during this process. Good luck friend.

Praying <3

So sorry OP...praying for your you and your Mom.

Here is a special prayer to pray with your Mother

Prayer of Salvation


"Heavenly Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your Son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey you, and to do your will for the rest of my life. Write my name in the book of Life. Thank you father, In Jesus' name I pray, Amen

I know how you feel...my father died suddenly at 67. He was heathy and it was a shock. It felt like someone reached into my chest and ripped my heart. The grief was horrific and the timing was also very bad.

But...know that there is no death, and what seems so is only transition. There is no “hell” either. It’s a made up word by the Catholics that the Protestants retained in their scripture to some extent.

It has been long said that Life on this earth is a school through which every spirit must pass.

She’s going home, where there is no suffering, Hate, pain or misery—only Love.

Many who have had NDEs have stated that it was so beautiful there and when given the choice they did not want to return — even happy young people with children who were forced to return against their “will”. Not their time yet. And they have a Message to share.



She may visit you at some point and tell you she’s okay.



Last Edited by Yesterday ~ TODAY ~ Tomorrow on 10/10/2018 06:15 PM

A soul may give up its shell but "death" is only something we label a body that no longer houses the essence of what we knew to be that person.

Losing a loved one is devastating. We lose something VERY precious to us. We can take comfort in knowing that we too are on the same journey and our time here is very short until we meet again.

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"Then said Martha unto Jesus, Lord, if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died.

But I know, that even now, whatsoever thou wilt ask of God, God will give it thee.

Jesus saith unto her, Thy brother shall rise again.

Martha saith unto him, I know that he shall rise again in the resurrection at the last day.

Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:

And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?

She saith unto him, Yea, Lord: I believe that thou art the Christ, the Son of God, which should come into the world."

DO YOU really WANT TO SAVE HER? Does she want to go, or has given up? Then if she has lost strength and hope then you need to step in with your fortitude. Do THIS FIRST!

Watch this!

Ten do it!
Our bodies, our brain has billions of Cannabinol Receptors that are good for utilizing only one thing. Cannabinoids.

The testings have been done, pharmaceutical companies are working into it's depths. 100% healing, I totally believe it.
But you need to study and watch and see the testings, the testimonies. INCREDIBLE!!

Job 36:12 English Standard Version (ESV)

12
But if they do not listen, they perish by the sword
and die without knowledge.



Hosea 4:6 English Standard Version (ESV)

6
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge;
because you have rejected knowledge



Proverbs 10:21 English Standard Version (ESV)

21
The lips of the righteous feed many,
but fools die for lack of sense.

John 8:32 - And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.


1 Corinthians 12:8 - For to one is given by the Spirit the word of wisdom; to another the word of knowledge by the same Spirit

Romans 10:17 - So then faith [cometh] by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.


GOD'S WORD COMES IN MANY FASHIONS! LISTEN, listen, listen

I am very sorry for your pain. You are the greatest miracle of her life and her legacy,. Be glad for that. Consider journaling your thoughts and her final days.
Peace be with you all

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I know this hurts! Hang in there... if you feel like sharing memories we’d love to hear some of your favorites! She will always be a part of your life and will live on through you...make sure to remember that in your grief... as hard as it is, she wants you to live a long and happy life!

Prayers sent too...So sorry OP...

I am so sorry, I lost my momma when I was 27 (heart attack she was 52) Make sure you cherish every single moment you have left, nothing else is as important right now, then give yourself time to grieve, pick yourself up and live your very best life because that is what she would want for you. I can also say from experience that there is NOTHING harder than watching someone you love waist away from cancer, what a wicked disease. You've got this, times like these are when we find our greatest strength

Soooo sorry


Dear Heavenly Father , we ask for Your will and no suffering , we ask for comfort for the loved ones and that hope comes from knowing this is a temporary separation , we ask the enemy have no power in this and You give Brian all he needs to get through this in Jesus name amen