I had a female friend ask me how I would survive without him financially. She actually had me worried, but I went through with it anyway.

I have to laugh now. I have more money now than I ever had with him. And guess what? I refused to ask for alimony in the divorce settlement! My lawyer thought I was crazy. I don't recommend no alimony for every woman, but I did it. I am soooo much happier now! OP would be happier, too. She just needs to be strong and do it!