My husband is alway’s yelling and screaming!

There it is lol Scorpio is am emotional water sign and Cap and Aquarius are earth and air signs. I think you'd fair better with someone who was more emotional and sympathetic LOL

Sell him to Hamas.

I see no reason why you shouldn’t just leave for good. do it when he’s not at home. No need to tell him until you’re safely out of town.

My little sister had this guy she dated who kept putting g his hands on her . I could never catch theittle bastard either . So I told her if he hits you act hurt blubber cry all that shit and when he turns around grab the biggest hardest thing you can find and hit him upside his head . She grabbed an old 1950s era vacum cleaner made of heavy metal and broke it over his head. He went flying through the screen door and rolled off the porch is what she told me . I know he never touched her again . If the hatefull old bastard is giving you a hard time do the same yes he will.be mad may be the end of the marriage but you sound nice don't live in fear and take emotional abuse it will drive you crazy .

He is jealous of you
He is trying to steal your youth.

Tell him to fuck off with the bullshit.
You know his game

He probably hates women.
How is he with his mother?

Or undiagnosed diabetes, which can cause mood swings and general insanity (or what seems like that to a normal person)

praying for you dear soul...

He must feel his mortality if he has physical challenges.

Unfortunately, it seems he is reacting in the physical world thinking he needs to satisfy his physical needs because he doesn't have that long to live (in his mind)...

As a Christian, you must find that difficult to understand because you might care more for a spiritual focus near the end of your life..?

It is really not that easy ask Women on here about it!

What stops you from divorcing? You'll be so much happier!

This made me cry and Thank you

Can't he order his own viagra?

Astragalus may help reverse age-related symptoms. Very cheap from swanson.com .

Good luck to both of you.

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I am trying to get up my strength to do just that!

I had a female friend ask me how I would survive without him financially. She actually had me worried, but I went through with it anyway.

I have to laugh now. I have more money now than I ever had with him. And guess what? I refused to ask for alimony in the divorce settlement! My lawyer thought I was crazy. I don't recommend no alimony for every woman, but I did it. I am soooo much happier now! OP would be happier, too. She just needs to be strong and do it!

Last Edited by nutmeg on 10/24/2018 09:22 PM

That's an understatement

Leave, go to your local version of women's resources or if you feel that you can't then the next time he does something call the police or leave and GO to the police.

You are only guaranteed this life, live it the best you can. No one should have to live in fear.

Last Edited by Raisty on 10/24/2018 09:21 PM

Well, we're cryin' together.....

I've had such a day, and I'm angry that people don't make their lives better for themselves, then anger turns into frustration, and I cry.

Lovey, I don't know what you've got going on inside of yourself that keeps you with this sorry excuse for a human being, but you sure need to figure it out, and get yourself to loving yourself.

Once you love yourself, you won't be able to put up with him.

Please....just take care with and of yourself, okay?

My heart to yours, with tears....

Where is your Kibbutz? north middle or near gaza ?

sounds like an asshole.

By the way, Crimson Tide Girl in Israel? Long way from home

I think you should replace him

(((( hugs )))))

mine did that too.
was married 38 years and then he tried to kill me.

look up Narcissist Personality Disorder.

You can't change him, but can leave. stash money and get out.

for good news!
Power to you.

This is abuse. This is not someone you should stay with. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Can you get away? Is there a shelter, or a relative?

This.

The sheriff's office has a women's shelter.

Go before it's too late.

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bwaaahaaaaaaaaa
back in the day,there were saccharin tablets,more like "pastilles" small,round,white same as a 1 mg valium and this one would always put one in her hubbie's morning coffee,would shake out the sacchrin and have the valium palmed...
true.
LOL
but OP ? for some of us, we grew up in households where the men were always yelling etc and simply used judgment to turn it off or get the hell outta the way.
remember one time going to a girlfriend's place to see if she could come downstairs for a while and their kitchen table coming down the flight of stairs etc LOL we just yelled in were they alright - LOL !!!!
some had rough upbringing and thought nothing of it.
but being he's your husband, you claim to be Christian, and most likely he will not consent to counseling-take care of things yourself and no one can make decisions FOR YOU.

I hope you can get through this, I have no witty advice, just talking to the architects, they hear you. Just try to Invision another long life.

This is why I'm a proud FEMINIST

ditto, so sorry, being alone is nice, try it....

Very Christian of you to tell total strangers that your husband is a piece of shit. Your husband is probably bored, stressed and I doubt that you are 100% clean in this situation.

Marriage has ups and downs. A wife is the guiding light of a man. If your light isn't guiding him, then he will be in darkness. Maybe get off GLP, fix your marriage and stop back stabbing. I have never once been online and aired my dirty laundry like you just have regarding my husband.

If you don't like the sex, then tell him what you do like. Be forceful regarding that department. Sounds like you just lay there and expect him to do all the work. Well I would start not caring about having sex with you either. Get your house hold together.

Disgrace to God. Gossip and being unfaithful to your husband behind his back.