. . and married a guy for reasons other than the word sets forth.

If it's of God then it's blessed. If not, it's . . well . . you know.

I knocked up the pastor's daughter and have paid for it a million times over.

We do what we do when we're young because we're horny or want security or whatever. We get ahead of God and so we get what we get.

Hope it works out for you sister.