My husband is alway’s yelling and screaming! | |
nutmeg User ID: 76388104 United States 10/24/2018 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: nutmeg I attended to an ungrateful husband for 32 years. The kids were wonderful...still are. I wish you well. nutmeg, you're being waaay nicer than I'm holding myself back from being....bless your heart, lovey. lol I just deleted a not-so-nice comment I made because she seems miserable, sweetie. Well, she seems like an unholy cunt to me....just sayin'. |
the deplorable ar-15 nut User ID: 75500784 United States 10/24/2018 11:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know it is not safe to drill metal in a gas tank and it is does not fix easy if you already have a leak. If I am going to bypass the gas tank, why not make a wood gas fuel burner. I guess make a gassifier then.We hijacked the thread though nice gabbing with you.Time for a small whiskey and coke and a out door video on youtube.Later all. We are a REPUBLIC.If we can keep it MORAN! A pissed off American Veteran! |
the deplorable ar-15 nut User ID: 75500784 United States 10/24/2018 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Forgot this one. [link to youtu.be (secure)] We are a REPUBLIC.If we can keep it MORAN! A pissed off American Veteran! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 10/24/2018 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know it is not safe to drill metal in a gas tank and it is does not fix easy if you already have a leak. If I am going to bypass the gas tank, why not make a wood gas fuel burner. I guess make a gassifier then.We hijacked the thread though nice gabbing with you.Time for a small whiskey and coke and a out door video on youtube.Later all. I like your style |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/24/2018 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know it is not safe to drill metal in a gas tank and it is does not fix easy if you already have a leak. If I am going to bypass the gas tank, why not make a wood gas fuel burner. I guess make a gassifier then.We hijacked the thread though nice gabbing with you.Time for a small whiskey and coke and a out door video on youtube.Later all. Come on be the man, help the old ladies make a wood fuel gas burner for the rig so we can be more efficient. It is not off topic, in my world. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/25/2018 12:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It took me well over 50 years to find my happy place in the woods. many times I thought I would never make it no matter how hard I tried and tried to kill myself off in some ways with all my grief. Never give up and do not give in to grief and despair. |
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Monger of Many Things User ID: 46950775 United States 10/25/2018 12:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl He sounds like a substance abuser. Just leave the room when he cranks up. Don't have sex with him when he acts that way. Have you ever asked him if he threw himself on the grocery store floor when he didn't get his way? LOL But listen, it simply isn't possible that you haven't ever raised your voice to him. So don't play that card. And don't play the Christian card. It's old. Sorry, but it is possible not to raise your voice to each other. If I had a dollar for every time I got suspicious... I'd wonder who was paying me, and why? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/25/2018 12:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It took me well over 50 years to find my happy place in the woods. many times I thought I would never make it no matter how hard I tried and tried to kill myself off in some ways with all my grief. Never give up and do not give in to grief and despair. Quoting: register I still remember all the people who ripped me off of all my wages. I take it with a smile, a frown makes my face look ugly and old. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/25/2018 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It took me well over 50 years to find my happy place in the woods. many times I thought I would never make it no matter how hard I tried and tried to kill myself off in some ways with all my grief. Never give up and do not give in to grief and despair. Quoting: register I still remember all the people who ripped me off of all my wages. I take it with a smile, a frown makes my face look ugly and old. A clean conscience is the fountian of youth |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 10/25/2018 12:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It took me well over 50 years to find my happy place in the woods. many times I thought I would never make it no matter how hard I tried and tried to kill myself off in some ways with all my grief. Never give up and do not give in to grief and despair. Quoting: register I still remember all the people who ripped me off of all my wages. I take it with a smile, a frown makes my face look ugly and old. A clean conscience is the fountian of youth Sweet poetry |
Moon&Stars User ID: 29184782 United States 10/25/2018 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl He sounds like a substance abuser. Just leave the room when he cranks up. Don't have sex with him when he acts that way. Have you ever asked him if he threw himself on the grocery store floor when he didn't get his way? LOL But listen, it simply isn't possible that you haven't ever raised your voice to him. So don't play that card. And don't play the Christian card. It's old. Sorry, but it is possible not to raise your voice to each other. Not in the real world. Well, maybe if you have a physical disability that prevents speech, but even then the sign language and facial expressions would be equal to raising the voice. Grow up. Moonstar |
Roobit User ID: 75627883 United States 10/25/2018 12:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would kick his wrinkly, hateful old ass to the curb under those circumstances. Quoting: Lady Jane Smith .... but then I am not known for taking shit. ditto, so sorry, being alone is nice, try it.... It's great! You can eat scrambled eggs for dinner, take your time shopping. No one asks where you've been, how you spent your money. You come and go as you wish! You watch any TV show you want. You wash your OWN clothes. Have I forgotten anything? Life is good. Yes you left out a lot, no waiting hand and foot on a man when you both just got off work, doing his laundry, cooking, dishes, cleaning the toilet, bed sheets and the list is so long I can not go on, not to mention full time 24 hr a day 7 days a week kids if you are younger. You know, it sounds like some of you ladies just pick shit men... My dad and step mom lived like you just bitched about and you know what? She was happy to do it because she loved him. When she got bed ridden with cancer, my dad didnt forget how she was to him and tended to her until her last breath. Some of you bitter fucks, men and women both, are gonna die alone and get eaten by your fucking cats. The Abyss stares back... Glp ping pong champ... |
Monger of Many Things User ID: 46950775 United States 10/25/2018 12:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl He sounds like a substance abuser. Just leave the room when he cranks up. Don't have sex with him when he acts that way. Have you ever asked him if he threw himself on the grocery store floor when he didn't get his way? LOL But listen, it simply isn't possible that you haven't ever raised your voice to him. So don't play that card. And don't play the Christian card. It's old. Sorry, but it is possible not to raise your voice to each other. Not in the real world. Well, maybe if you have a physical disability that prevents speech, but even then the sign language and facial expressions would be equal to raising the voice. Grow up. Wrong, shouting is for intellectually challenged people. I'm not saying we have never disagreed or had problems but we have every single time calmly discussed things. Always remembering that we we respect and love each other. Astrologically we should be a fairly volitile couple as well as ethnically, but we are both intelligent and have that has trumped the potential issues. If I had a dollar for every time I got suspicious... I'd wonder who was paying me, and why? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/25/2018 01:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had a lot more than a man to run away from as a little girl when I ran to the woods. Quoting: register They locked me up in a test hospital at age 12. I was high IQ They did the same thing to my older brother and sister, all separate hospitals for tests at a very young age with no crimes ever commited at a very young age with many obuses, they both were murdered. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/25/2018 01:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had a lot more than a man to run away from as a little girl when I ran to the woods. Quoting: register They locked me up in a test hospital at age 12. I was high IQ They did the same thing to my older brother and sister, all separate hospitals for tests at a very young age with no crimes ever commited at a very young age with many obuses, they both were murdered. My brother and sister were both murderded at a young age. I survived with less than an 8th grade education. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76989304 United States 10/25/2018 01:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had a lot more than a man to run away from as a little girl when I ran to the woods. Quoting: register They locked me up in a test hospital at age 12. I was high IQ They did the same thing to my older brother and sister, all separate hospitals for tests at a very young age with no crimes ever commited at a very young age with many obuses, they both were murdered. My brother and sister were both murderded at a young age. I survived with less than an 8th grade education. If anyone wants to look up my records I would apriciate that, my doctor Murphy was convicted for crimes in eastern state hospital in Oregon at my age of 12. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25666639 United States 10/25/2018 02:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are married to an evil, raging, lunatic NARCISSIST. Look up everything you can on the topic. Check Youtube, Facebook groups, read about it online. You need to inform yourself. This disorder is pure evil and you are being conditioned to accept this treatment and feel as if you are trapped. You are not trapped, don't believe it. Christianity does not mean you are an animal that deserves abuse. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 39440397 United States 10/25/2018 02:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First of all, you have choices. You do not need to put up with any verbal, emotional, physical or sexual abuse. You can walk right out that door at any time. The following is not saying the behavior of your husband is acceptable. This is saying why some folks (male or female) end up yelling and screaming to get their points across. Usually when someone yells and screams, it's often because they don't 'feel heard'. Out of pure frustration they often end up repeating themselves, their voice getting louder and louder. Next time he starts yelling, stop what you're doing and saying, look at him, PAY ATTENTION, and just listen to him. HEAR what he's saying. In a calm and quiet voice, say back to him what you think he's saying. See if he starts calming down because he finally 'feels' heard. As for the situation where he just starts having sex with you before you are ready. If you decide to let him proceed, have some lube ready and apply it yourself before he begins, so it won't be so painful. Hopefully at some point in your life, the two of you can talk calmly about what you'd each like from the other, without there being a battle. If that cannot happen, the two of you seriously need more help than anyone in this forum can give, look for a professional counselor, together or by yourself. |