My husband is alway’s yelling and screaming!

I guess make a gassifier then.We hijacked the thread though nice gabbing with you.Time for a small whiskey and coke and
a out door video on youtube.Later all.

Forgot this one.
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I like your style

Come on be the man, help the old ladies make a wood fuel gas burner for the rig so we can be more efficient. It is not off topic, in my world.

Nothing wrong with one shot to go to sleep . Sheesh.

It took me well over 50 years to find my happy place in the woods. many times I thought I would never make it no matter how hard I tried and tried to kill myself off in some ways with all my grief. Never give up and do not give in to grief and despair.

I need about 4 or 5 shots for that

Sorry, but it is possible not to raise your voice to each other.

I still remember all the people who ripped me off of all my wages. I take it with a smile, a frown makes my face look ugly and old.

I'm missing my camping vids missies!

A clean conscience is the fountian of youth

Sweet poetry

Not in the real world. Well, maybe if you have a physical disability that prevents speech, but even then the sign language and facial expressions would be equal to raising the voice.

Grow up.

You know, it sounds like some of you ladies just pick shit men...

My dad and step mom lived like you just bitched about and you know what? She was happy to do it because she loved him.

When she got bed ridden with cancer, my dad didnt forget how she was to him and tended to her until her last breath.

Some of you bitter fucks, men and women both, are gonna die alone and get eaten by your fucking cats.

Wrong, shouting is for intellectually challenged people. I'm not saying we have never disagreed or had problems but we have every single time calmly discussed things. Always remembering that we we respect and love each other. Astrologically we should be a fairly volitile couple as well as ethnically, but we are both intelligent and have that has trumped the potential issues.

I had a lot more than a man to run away from as a little girl when I ran to the woods.

They locked me up in a test hospital at age 12. I was high IQ

I had no where to escape,l ran to the woods where they found me.

what is your star sign? lol

It was not a safe place for a little girl, they held me down to put drugs in me and took my blood. Where I was raped and lost my virginity at age 12.

Libra, last week, 14th was my birthday

They did the same thing to my older brother and sister, all separate hospitals for tests at a very young age with no crimes ever commited at a very young age with many obuses, they both were murdered.

My brother and sister were both murderded at a young age. I survived with less than an 8th grade education.

If anyone wants to look up my records I would apriciate that, my doctor Murphy was convicted for crimes in eastern state hospital in Oregon at my age of 12.

I got the law of emancipation kegalised. I proved I could make it on my own even though I could not spell it all right... LOL

I have seen many children abuse the law of emancipation I worked so hard for. that is my only regret, spoiled brats.

I made emancipation from the state legal as an orphan locked up in you know where, and brats abused it.

You are married to an evil, raging, lunatic NARCISSIST. Look up everything you can on the topic. Check Youtube, Facebook groups, read about it online. You need to inform yourself. This disorder is pure evil and you are being conditioned to accept this treatment and feel as if you are trapped. You are not trapped, don't believe it. Christianity does not mean you are an animal that deserves abuse.

First of all, you have choices. You do not need to put up with any verbal, emotional, physical or sexual abuse. You can walk right out that door at any time.

The following is not saying the behavior of your husband is acceptable. This is saying why some folks (male or female) end up yelling and screaming to get their points across.

Usually when someone yells and screams, it's often because they don't 'feel heard'. Out of pure frustration they often end up repeating themselves, their voice getting louder and louder.

Next time he starts yelling, stop what you're doing and saying, look at him, PAY ATTENTION, and just listen to him. HEAR what he's saying. In a calm and quiet voice, say back to him what you think he's saying. See if he starts calming down because he finally 'feels' heard.

As for the situation where he just starts having sex with you before you are ready. If you decide to let him proceed, have some lube ready and apply it yourself before he begins, so it won't be so painful.

Hopefully at some point in your life, the two of you can talk calmly about what you'd each like from the other, without there being a battle. If that cannot happen, the two of you seriously need more help than anyone in this forum can give, look for a professional counselor, together or by yourself.