My husband is alway’s yelling and screaming!

As a guy who has been the angry screaming husband, I can tell you what happened to me.

I started with a great relationship, there was nothing I wouldn't have done for her,or her kids. When life and pressures started taking its tolls affection was withheld. My connection to her faltered after years of it and I began to stop making that effort out of fear of being rejected over and over. Of course life's pressures didn't stop, they became worse. Life lost all meaning to me and I became resentful and angry.

Everyone here tells you to sort yourself out, leave him etc, I would ignore that... You got into a relationship to support each other through good and bad... I suggest you try to point this out to him when he isn't charged up.

Of course the pc thing is just kick him to curb and don't stand for it, your an independent woman who don't need no man..... Especially the husband you chose.

This old lady survived with less than an 8th grand education and found my dream home safe in my neck of the woods. It was hell all the way, but worth it.

Its domestic Violence's.. Pack his back kick him out.
If he won't go get an dvo and have cops escort him out.
You should not have to put up with his crap.

Or go on strike do nothing around the house like cook clean wash etc for a month.

What support his anger. Really.
No do not leave him

do not give up on your dreams, each day they take another thing from you it leads you to another step to your dream

He is acting like a typical porn addict. Guys that are addicted to porn act like this. They are so use to living in a fantasy world of perfect young women who are at their beck and call when it comes to sex. Many are actually addicted to very young women and boys. It won't matter how young our good looking you are, you will never be enough. Look up porn addiction. Hugh Hefner had to have porn going in the background to get off even when having girls young enough to be his grand daughters in the room with him.

See a lawyer and start making plans to leave. I'm sorry. It won't get better.

crooks robbing widows and orphans it the bible no 1 no no

the church ripped me off the most and I am a widow and orphan

I grew up at age 12 in in a state hospital, and you all bitch about farts

This place is starting to seem like a psych ward more and more every day.

You have to own a house and have your shit together to kick someone to the curb.

If anyone's going to the curb, it's her. (but she'll stay anyway.)

fixed

just wait for 2 more weeks. its going to be off the chain.

And It's not even mid winter yet.

Sorry to hear this.

So, he never yelled and screamed when you were dating? It just was a surprise once you got married?

You might have to leave him and spend the rest of your life as a single Christian person. Pray for his soul.

Some people just have to rant and remain anonymous. Most people here are kind and understanding. Then there are a few hateful who don't even like themselves, so they call everyone else whores to make their insecure selves feel important.

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Troll!

The Bible makes references to the zodiac calander especially in the book of Ezekiel when it gives the time line of Christ’s return. I don’t know the verse but when it’s talking about the times it’s talking about the zodiac procession.

Damn that's bad, cancer or not you can't let him get away with that sounds like you're not even consenting, keep that in mind the fact you're in tears and he still carries on that's fucked up.

Benefit of doubt here, assuming you're not just trolling.

Last Edited by The Real Mr Anderson Fella on 10/25/2018 10:28 AM

Tell him it's natural viagra or better yet antioxidants for his cancer.

We need you as the voice of REASON baby

I like this one: "If I was trying to poison you, the portions would be much larger"

When were you going to get around to telling him that you are deaf, dumb and blind?!! ; ) JUST KIDDING.

It may be time to make a play for the plumber. ; )

Hi Crimson....just stumbled on this thread and im sorry to hear you are ...a victim of abuse....pure and simple.

I see you are from Israel and cant help but ask, is there a cultural thing going on here regarding the Man... Of course there is NO excuse for this behaviour.

Has he always been like this or has it been sudden or a gradual lead up to this behaviour?

20 years marriage is a long time, and with a 17 year age gap the the strains would have been there despite you saying `it does not matter. The age divide always comes into focus as the years and maturity `creep up`.

You say you are crying an need a friend..... Is this because you have been controlled to the point of not being allowed a friend, or does friend to YOU mean something different?

Would you like to give that a shot? Assuming you are even something loosely construed as a "man".