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janedoenut User ID: 75249978 United States 11/07/2018 10:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fuck unconditional love. Someone fucks you over time and time again, they burn bridges. Unconditional love is not healthy for anyone and has gotten a lot of abused women maimed, killed and cheated on. There are horribly abusive parents who the child wants to love until they can't. There are psychotic children out there who abuse the crap out of their parents and bring them nothing but grief, destruction and sadness. Good grief, I can think of a million different scenarios where unconditional love is bullshit. Forgiveness is another story. You can forgive without forgetting. “If you'll let me tell you what I imagine about myself, you'll find it a lot more interesting” –Anne Shirley "Seemingly your father nor mother taught you that as a man, it's your job to protect and provide for women and lead strong families. As men, had you done your job, you wouldn't be living in a matriarchal society." - Janedoenut, 2018 |
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StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/07/2018 10:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fuck unconditional love. Quoting: janedoenut Someone fucks you over time and time again, they burn bridges. Unconditional love is not healthy for anyone and has gotten a lot of abused women maimed, killed and cheated on. There are horribly abusive parents who the child wants to love until they can't. There are psychotic children out there who abuse the crap out of their parents and bring them nothing but grief, destruction and sadness. Good grief, I can think of a million different scenarios where unconditional love is bullshit. Forgiveness is another story. You can forgive without forgetting. See, that's why we have problems on earth. We can nicely put boundaries, without adding any negative. We can still be in the unconditional. StarFlowers |
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StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/07/2018 10:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe what I've said touches your heart, but the space between childbirth and adulthood can be the difference between heaven and hell in the heart. Don't trust anyone but yourself in the matters of the heart. I agree and the reason we don't hear is we're clogged up especially the mind StarFlowers |
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StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/07/2018 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Unconditional love has always and will always exist. Quoting: Names are for suckers It is God's language. If you "hate" unconditional love, you never loved in the first place. Exactly, its not difficult. It's what we are. We are not our thoughts, our negative inner dialog not even the positive. Still your mind, and find out. StarFlowers |
Sungaze_At_Dawn User ID: 76899489 Canada 11/07/2018 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A message I've had and given when remembering, when the dam breaks and more of me flooded in: turn the dial up higher than you even can, go off the charts with it, on love and kindness. We're going home now! Its also important to dissolve that block and become more of your true self. Love and kindness raises frequency and takes you out of harms way. Not that we're out of the world and its harm, but protection when doing what came to do, can and does occur for many, but also, spiritual protection. They have no power over a soul that is not in their frequency realm. Last Edited by Sungaze_At_Dawn on 11/07/2018 11:06 PM The Devil tries to convince everyone he doesn't exist. The state tries to convince everyone they cannot resist. Do not go quietly into the good night. Rage Rage against the dying light! |
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StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/07/2018 11:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That's not quite right, as you learn to hold it for everyone but you put a stop to imbalance. How can that be so difficult I'm sure they've already desired to be bitter, easier to swallow than pride. Yes, they have to choose that they are finish They don't get it, that when you choose different, you are immediately free StarFlowers |
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hankie Everything User ID: 76897763 United States 11/08/2018 02:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love is not unconditional per say, it really not. You may not like it, love as man thinks of it tries to be unconditional it not Godly based. God will punish even those he loves, not to be mean to be kind, life is about getting you to learn to love not to be loved, thing is if you learn to love, it comes back at you ten fold. If you love you will not hurt people, I not talking about discipline that not what punishment by God is, if disciplining, say hay stop what your doing is bad, it either is hurting you or others, that means a lot of things. God can not jump in front of you wave his arms, although he sent others to do so, you have to understand this, he not cruel he just has to say to you wake up, love yourself enough to want something grand. Do not expect love to always be unconditional, that not normal, not if you are abusing others, you think someone who lies, cheats, steals, and kills and other really sick things, are nice lovable people? Funny thing is he still loves them, that just it, think of a loving father whose child does bad all the time, and hurts him and his fellow man, the father does not love this person, he loves his son, the one he used to know. This is why I think of everyone as a baby once, I would not like anything to happen to an innocent baby, they are all so lovable and innocent. Sorry I got a headache These are the times that tries men's and women's souls! May we come though it victorious! |
StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/08/2018 03:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love is not unconditional per say, it really not. You may not like it, love as man thinks of it tries to be unconditional it not Godly based. God will punish even those he loves, not to be mean to be kind, life is about getting you to learn to love not to be loved, thing is if you learn to love, it comes back at you ten fold. If you love you will not hurt people, I not talking about discipline that not what punishment by God is, if disciplining, say hay stop what your doing is bad, it either is hurting you or others, that means a lot of things. Quoting: hankie God can not jump in front of you wave his arms, although he sent others to do so, you have to understand this, he not cruel he just has to say to you wake up, love yourself enough to want something grand. Do not expect love to always be unconditional, that not normal, not if you are abusing others, you think someone who lies, cheats, steals, and kills and other really sick things, are nice lovable people? Funny thing is he still loves them, that just it, think of a loving father whose child does bad all the time, and hurts him and his fellow man, the father does not love this person, he loves his son, the one he used to know. This is why I think of everyone as a baby once, I would not like anything to happen to an innocent baby, they are all so lovable and innocent. That's not true, as there's huge difference in peoples development. Source is everywhere and within. And yes it is possible to either he born with high love or to develop. StarFlowers |
StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/08/2018 05:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love is not unconditional per say, it really not. You may not like it, love as man thinks of it tries to be unconditional it not Godly based. God will punish even those he loves, not to be mean to be kind, life is about getting you to learn to love not to be loved, thing is if you learn to love, it comes back at you ten fold. If you love you will not hurt people, I not talking about discipline that not what punishment by God is, if disciplining, say hay stop what your doing is bad, it either is hurting you or others, that means a lot of things. Quoting: hankie God can not jump in front of you wave his arms, although he sent others to do so, you have to understand this, he not cruel he just has to say to you wake up, love yourself enough to want something grand. Do not expect love to always be unconditional, that not normal, not if you are abusing others, you think someone who lies, cheats, steals, and kills and other really sick things, are nice lovable people? Funny thing is he still loves them, that just it, think of a loving father whose child does bad all the time, and hurts him and his fellow man, the father does not love this person, he loves his son, the one he used to know. This is why I think of everyone as a baby once, I would not like anything to happen to an innocent baby, they are all so lovable and innocent. First, God never punishes. That is a left over from false religion. What is called God is also a topic. Let's say prime Creator. He doesn't punish. There's is no punishment other than the consequences of your own actions thoughts, words and deeds. When you change, it changes. And then there's karma. People would rather die than admit they are fully responsible. For everything they create. I don't say especially you but generally. It's very hard to see and realise. And to grasp. Sure I do things myself were all here to learn. Unconditional love is not that you don't protect your children from danger. That's silly. Or that you don't think. It's the freedom of judging, of prejudgement, of criticism, where you show love, nothing else. And a helping hand. Etc. StarFlowers |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76842323 United States 11/08/2018 06:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | People would rather die than admit they are fully responsible. For everything they create. I don't say especially you but generally. It's very hard to see and realise. And to grasp. Sure I do things myself were all here to learn. Unconditional love is not that you don't protect your children from danger. That's silly. Or that you don't think. It's the freedom of judging, of prejudgement, of criticism, where you show love, nothing else. And a helping hand. Etc. Most people have died a little bit every time they refuse responsibility, giving over their power to chance or someone else. I have yet to find a protective behavior not associated with carnal judgement, but I can see how one can release their temporary judgements back to god=source to determine the outcome. Then I know people who have very conflicted sense of responsibility, being willing to choose, based upon their own set of values, that which they consider, which is more valuable to life on earth. For example a person who works with animals can select which ones are more important in their mind, and in a snap decision kill another animal to protect their own. So the idea of removing mankind from a hierarchical set of values would equal god-like behavior, since god occurs in all particles, ways and means, part and parcel. |
StarFlowers (OP) User ID: 72517382 United Kingdom 11/08/2018 06:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | People would rather die than admit they are fully responsible. For everything they create. I don't say especially you but generally. It's very hard to see and realise. And to grasp. Sure I do things myself were all here to learn. Unconditional love is not that you don't protect your children from danger. That's silly. Or that you don't think. It's the freedom of judging, of prejudgement, of criticism, where you show love, nothing else. And a helping hand. Etc. Most people have died a little bit every time they refuse responsibility, giving over their power to chance or someone else. I have yet to find a protective behavior not associated with carnal judgement, but I can see how one can release their temporary judgements back to god=source to determine the outcome. Then I know people who have very conflicted sense of responsibility, being willing to choose, based upon their own set of values, that which they consider, which is more valuable to life on earth. For example a person who works with animals can select which ones are more important in their mind, and in a snap decision kill another animal to protect their own. So the idea of removing mankind from a hierarchical set of values would equal god-like behavior, since god occurs in all particles, ways and means, part and parcel. The good thing is it can work perfectly with changing thought, and working with raising frequency. Often the thought is what carries it, unless you really are low, or doesn't want to change. I used to work with the mind and crystal in atlantis so this is my field, I've seen it all. I've seen some very bad examples. But most were just stuck and needed reboot. We have to remember most humanity are literally hypnotised. By the frequency, coming from media and in every way. If we break that... StarFlowers |
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