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Pees and Ques User ID: 77182647 United States 12/07/2018 04:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? |
Jesus Christ Is God Almighty! User ID: 49033786 United States 12/07/2018 06:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Fear Jesus. Be afraid of him and ask him. If he does not give you an answer and you pursue the matter with mindful fear of him then if he waits for you to fulfill your desire to rebuke you then be ready to repent. I am sure that as long as you all fear him and your heart's intents are pure then he will find it acceptable and no sin. But many believers who know neither him nor the bible will fight it and what I've said forever. So I will ignore them as you should also and take this advice and continue on: BE AFRAID OF JESUS BEFORE YOU STEP. Jesus Christ is God. Read the Holy Bible, keep his commandments, obey all of his commands, save your soul. Jesus blesses you! <3 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74859192 Sweden 12/07/2018 07:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Let's answer the OP's question instead of judging him for being a horny bastard. There's actually a very similar story to the OP's dilemma in the Bible, so it's the natural place to go for guidance: Genesis 16 1 Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar. 2 And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the Lord hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai. 3 And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife. 4 And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes. 5 And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the Lord judge between me and thee. 6 But Abram said unto Sarai, Behold, thy maid is in thine hand; do to her as it pleaseth thee. And when Sarai dealt hardly with her, she fled from her face. There's no sign God gave a shit about how Abram got his dick wet. But the OP should still note it didn't turn out so well - the second woman got uppity against the first, and their friendship ended. |
Ethancarter User ID: 1440690 United States 12/07/2018 07:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? nope. But you can probably stick some stuff in your own holes and satisfy your deviance. Do not deny me whats rightfully mind You make me glad that I am single. Why? Sex should be a fun thing and we are both entitled to share and explore each other's bodies LOL Ethancarter |
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Mikhailman User ID: 76811228 United States 12/07/2018 07:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? My wife has had several surgeries on her private area's and now is not interested in sex. She understands my needs and her UN-Married friend has offered to fulfill my needs, is the bible okay with this? It seems like the bible does allow this. Quoting: JFKdemocrat Yes this is REAL and my situation, we have been married for over 20 years and she does not want me to continue to go sexless, sorry but all the hand-jobs in the world do not make up for NON vaginal sex At least your wife cares about you!!! My wife (50 year old) chooses to not have sex very often (and when we do, she won't let me touch her on her privates and only cares about her own release). I am pretty sure she "is" having an affair (she had when she was 28), we worked things out to preserve tha family and I thought we had a solid marriage after that issue. since she is now exercising 2-3 hours a day, "NOT Kidding" and is gone from 6am-8pm, and treats me like shit, I would guess she is back to her old habits. If my wife allowed me to seek out companionship, I would be delighted.... It was allowed in biblical times and most rich people and business executives have women on the side and their wives usually approve (as long as they bring home the bacon)... I know this, because my wife works in corperate situation and I see it all the time and she had an affair with an executive (I managed to get the bastard busted down to a salesman though and his wife divorced him once he was not making big bucks... Mikhailman |
Xeven User ID: 75948321 United States 12/07/2018 07:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? If she is hot and sexy, I say pound it out. Good luck! I reserve the right to declare my comments and posts as satire. Nothing I post should be considered or interpreted as advocacy for illegal activity. My comments are designed to inspire critical political thinking. I only mean half of what I say and only say half of what I mean. |
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JStav User ID: 69424012 United States 12/07/2018 09:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? My wife has had several surgeries on her private area's and now is not interested in sex. She understands my needs and her UN-Married friend has offered to fulfill my needs, is the bible okay with this? It seems like the bible does allow this. Quoting: JFKdemocrat Yes this is REAL and my situation, we have been married for over 20 years and she does not want me to continue to go sexless, sorry but all the hand-jobs in the world do not make up for NON vaginal sex At least your wife cares about you!!! My wife (50 year old) chooses to not have sex very often (and when we do, she won't let me touch her on her privates and only cares about her own release). I am pretty sure she "is" having an affair (she had when she was 28), we worked things out to preserve tha family and I thought we had a solid marriage after that issue. since she is now exercising 2-3 hours a day, "NOT Kidding" and is gone from 6am-8pm, and treats me like shit, I would guess she is back to her old habits. If my wife allowed me to seek out companionship, I would be delighted.... It was allowed in biblical times and most rich people and business executives have women on the side and their wives usually approve (as long as they bring home the bacon)... I know this, because my wife works in corperate situation and I see it all the time and she had an affair with an executive (I managed to get the bastard busted down to a salesman though and his wife divorced him once he was not making big bucks... Dude! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77064257 United States 12/07/2018 05:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Everyone knows adultery actually refers to adulteration of trade products and the ten commandments is a description of how to best form trading partnerships and has nothing whatsoever to do with individual actions. |
janedoenut User ID: 74315406 United States 12/07/2018 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? If you're interested in what the bible says, the bible says do not take oaths. You decided not to heed that warning and married under oath and I'm pretty sure it said something along the lines of honoring, cherishing and being faithful trough good times and bad. You are only as good as your word and kept oath. Honor is not measured during times of strength and joy, it's measured in times of trial and crisis. Figure out who you want to be? “If you'll let me tell you what I imagine about myself, you'll find it a lot more interesting” –Anne Shirley "Seemingly your father nor mother taught you that as a man, it's your job to protect and provide for women and lead strong families. As men, had you done your job, you wouldn't be living in a matriarchal society." - Janedoenut, 2018 |
Red John User ID: 68201099 Canada 12/07/2018 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Surgeries on private parts isn't very normal. What's up with that? Quoting: janedoenut If you're interested in what the bible says, the bible says do not take oaths. You decided not to heed that warning and married under oath and I'm pretty sure it said something along the lines of honoring, cherishing and being faithful trough good times and bad. You are only as good as your word and kept oath. Honor is not measured during times of strength and joy, it's measured in times of trial and crisis. Figure out who you want to be? ^This The Traditional, Sacred marriage vows include: ... For better or worse In sickness and in health ... |
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Red John User ID: 72473144 Canada 12/07/2018 06:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Everyone knows adultery actually refers to adulteration of trade products and the ten commandments is a description of how to best form trading partnerships and has nothing whatsoever to do with individual actions. then you're gonna have a problem with the following: 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God. except for idolaters, all of verse 9 deals with sexual sin adultery is sexual sin the woman "caught" in adultery brought to Jesus King David's adultery with Bathsheba cost him their "love-child" and several of his sons Jesus: Anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery |
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oniongrass User ID: 27537211 United States 12/07/2018 07:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Let's answer the OP's question instead of judging him for being a horny bastard. There's actually a very similar story to the OP's dilemma in the Bible, so it's the natural place to go for guidance: Quoting: The Monk Genesis 16 1 Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar. 2 And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the Lord hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai. 3 And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife. 4 And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes. 5 And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the Lord judge between me and thee. 6 But Abram said unto Sarai, Behold, thy maid is in thine hand; do to her as it pleaseth thee. And when Sarai dealt hardly with her, she fled from her face. There's no sign God gave a shit about how Abram got his dick wet. But the OP should still note it didn't turn out so well - the second woman got uppity against the first, and their friendship ended. It ended very very well. Sarah's womb was opened after she was 100 years old or so, and Abram (now Abraham) and she begat the line of a whole nation. Your wife is acting in a heroic tradition. . DON'T VAX, PROPHYLAX! ____________ There is no anger in Me: If one offers Me thorns and thistles, I will march to battle against him, And set all of them on fire. But if he holds fast to My refuge, He makes Me his friend; He makes Me his friend. (Isaiah 27:4-5) |
JFKdemocrat (OP) User ID: 69760165 Italy 12/07/2018 07:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? My wife has had several surgeries on her private area's and now is not interested in sex. She understands my needs and her UN-Married friend has offered to fulfill my needs, is the bible okay with this? It seems like the bible does allow this. Quoting: JFKdemocrat Yes this is REAL and my situation, we have been married for over 20 years and she does not want me to continue to go sexless, sorry but all the hand-jobs in the world do not make up for NON vaginal sex At least your wife cares about you!!! My wife (50 year old) chooses to not have sex very often (and when we do, she won't let me touch her on her privates and only cares about her own release). I am pretty sure she "is" having an affair (she had when she was 28), we worked things out to preserve tha family and I thought we had a solid marriage after that issue. since she is now exercising 2-3 hours a day, "NOT Kidding" and is gone from 6am-8pm, and treats me like shit, I would guess she is back to her old habits. If my wife allowed me to seek out companionship, I would be delighted.... It was allowed in biblical times and most rich people and business executives have women on the side and their wives usually approve (as long as they bring home the bacon)... I know this, because my wife works in corperate situation and I see it all the time and she had an affair with an executive (I managed to get the bastard busted down to a salesman though and his wife divorced him once he was not making big bucks... RELEASE ALL OBAMA BIDEN CLINTON records...Putin is a asshole, just like Biden and Clinton. |
Mikhailman User ID: 76811228 United States 12/07/2018 07:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? My wife has had several surgeries on her private area's and now is not interested in sex. She understands my needs and her UN-Married friend has offered to fulfill my needs, is the bible okay with this? It seems like the bible does allow this. Quoting: JFKdemocrat Yes this is REAL and my situation, we have been married for over 20 years and she does not want me to continue to go sexless, sorry but all the hand-jobs in the world do not make up for NON vaginal sex you could do A-NO........... Mikhailman |
JFKdemocrat (OP) User ID: 69760165 Italy 12/07/2018 07:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Yes they have! Last Edited by #Zuckerberg for Prison on 12/07/2018 07:39 PM RELEASE ALL OBAMA BIDEN CLINTON records...Putin is a asshole, just like Biden and Clinton. |
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InvisibleGoogles User ID: 77070591 United States 12/07/2018 07:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Ignore what the others are saying. Polygamy is all over the bible here is proof [link to www.biblicalpolygamy.com] Adultery is looking at a mans wife with intent to lay her or actually laying down with her. The whole "lust after a women is adultery" is referring to intent to lay down with a mans wife. Looking at an unmarried women sexually is not adultery. Nor is sleeping with multiple women who are not married considered adultery. Solomon himself had a thousand wives. You can research everything I said yourself its true. Religion is man made doctrine the whole one man and one woman is totally false. The only thing I have to say is sex is marriage. So when you do lay down with an unmarried women(a women who is a virgin) make sure you love her as desrcibed in the bible. Also if your wifes friend is not a virgin dont have sex with her because sex with a non virgin is adultery. She would be considered married already. |
Anonymous Gopher User ID: 21959633 United States 12/07/2018 08:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Ignore what the others are saying. Polygamy is all over the bible here is proof [link to www.biblicalpolygamy.com] Adultery is looking at a mans wife with intent to lay her or actually laying down with her. The whole "lust after a women is adultery" is referring to intent to lay down with a mans wife. Looking at an unmarried women sexually is not adultery. Nor is sleeping with multiple women who are not married considered adultery. Solomon himself had a thousand wives. You can research everything I said yourself its true. Religion is man made doctrine the whole one man and one woman is totally false. The only thing I have to say is sex is marriage. So when you do lay down with an unmarried women(a women who is a virgin) make sure you love her as desrcibed in the bible. Also if your wifes friend is not a virgin dont have sex with her because sex with a non virgin is adultery. She would be considered married already. |
Truth Reaper User ID: 75955494 United States 12/07/2018 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Soon your blue balls will make the decision for you! Buy condoms or saltpeter! Last Edited by Truth Reaper on 12/07/2018 08:22 PM I lost my apathy. |
Xeven User ID: 75948321 United States 12/07/2018 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Last Edited by Xeven on 12/07/2018 08:31 PM I reserve the right to declare my comments and posts as satire. Nothing I post should be considered or interpreted as advocacy for illegal activity. My comments are designed to inspire critical political thinking. I only mean half of what I say and only say half of what I mean. |
Red John User ID: 63815868 Canada 12/07/2018 08:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Ignore what the others are saying. Polygamy is all over the bible here is proof [link to www.biblicalpolygamy.com] Adultery is looking at a mans wife with intent to lay her or actually laying down with her. The whole "lust after a women is adultery" is referring to intent to lay down with a mans wife. Looking at an unmarried women sexually is not adultery. Nor is sleeping with multiple women who are not married considered adultery. Solomon himself had a thousand wives. You can research everything I said yourself its true. Religion is man made doctrine the whole one man and one woman is totally false. The only thing I have to say is sex is marriage. So when you do lay down with an unmarried women(a women who is a virgin) make sure you love her as desrcibed in the bible. Also if your wifes friend is not a virgin dont have sex with her because sex with a non virgin is adultery. She would be considered married already. murder, and genocide, etc. are all over the bible too does that make it OK No! Polygamy, adultery, fornication, ... is not OK it's outside of the Manufacturer's design and intent for marriage and the sexual union one man with one woman to the exclusion of all others for life polygamy was "blind eyed" to an extent due to the societal structure where there was no real security for a single woman or widow etc. what is recorded is often recorded as lessons for what not to do |
InvisibleGoogles User ID: 77070591 United States 12/07/2018 08:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? Ignore what the others are saying. Polygamy is all over the bible here is proof [link to www.biblicalpolygamy.com] Quoting: InvisibleGoogles Adultery is looking at a mans wife with intent to lay her or actually laying down with her. The whole "lust after a women is adultery" is referring to intent to lay down with a mans wife. Looking at an unmarried women sexually is not adultery. Nor is sleeping with multiple women who are not married considered adultery. Solomon himself had a thousand wives. You can research everything I said yourself its true. Religion is man made doctrine the whole one man and one woman is totally false. The only thing I have to say is sex is marriage. So when you do lay down with an unmarried women(a women who is a virgin) make sure you love her as desrcibed in the bible. Also if your wifes friend is not a virgin dont have sex with her because sex with a non virgin is adultery. She would be considered married already. murder, and genocide, etc. are all over the bible too does that make it OK No! Polygamy, adultery, fornication, ... is not OK it's outside of the Manufacturer's design and intent for marriage and the sexual union one man with one woman to the exclusion of all others for life polygamy was "blind eyed" to an extent due to the societal structure where there was no real security for a single woman or widow etc. what is recorded is often recorded as lessons for what not to do If you say anything in the bible is not ok you are rejecting Gods word. Hosea 4:6 King James Version (KJV) 6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. You either accept that polygamy is what God designed and that it is totally ok. Or you reject it and risk God rejecting you. Your choice. Last Edited by InvisibleGoogles on 12/07/2018 08:45 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70191118 United States 12/07/2018 08:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: My wife has a problem providing sex and has her best friend willing to fill in for her, is the bible okay with this? My wife has had several surgeries on her private area's and now is not interested in sex. She understands my needs and her UN-Married friend has offered to fulfill my needs, is the bible okay with this? It seems like the bible does allow this. Quoting: JFKdemocrat Yes this is REAL and my situation, we have been married for over 20 years and she does not want me to continue to go sexless, sorry but all the hand-jobs in the world do not make up for NON vaginal sex yes it is Biblical, Sarah provided Hagar to have sex with Abraham because she was barren. Have fun. but it is only to produce offspring. |