This 'feels' like a troll thread.

But if it's not----what a conundrum.

This for sure is a "Damned if you do ; and damned if you don't..." type of life's moments. I feel for you.

Who can tell YOU what to do that would satisfy you're contemplation...no one really.

Myself, that's just too weird. I would have to search how much I love my own wife and not having sex first and foremost.

And if I could live without her and then the sex.

Some people CAN be together without sex.

No one mentioned oral sex yet.....is that out of the question???

Just asking....