So, I have been working with my Mom trying to get her to say prayers and release her hatred and bitterness she has towards others

today I felt we would then try for her own children who I spent my life listening to her talk her hate about all of us

I started with asking for her to join me in prayer with blessing for my deceased brother JR, she would NOT

She said I will not, you can, I will just listen

I questioned, she said, because he is dead, there is no need to bless him

so I moved on to Lorena, she refused to bless her, I inquired if she was dead too

she said she didn't know if she was dead or not

I then said my name and inquired if I was dead as well

she refused to bless me as well

at that point I just said to Krystal "this woman's bitterness is so profound it is unreal, I love you Mom, I will talk to you tomorrow, good night" and hung up

She is in just denial of herself of being a perfect mother and angel I just sent her a text that said
"I grew up listening to you talk hate about us my whole life, that is curses"

because she refuses to believe that there is a curse on this family line

however, I feel my Grandma with her hatred cursed her own children herself, and my Mom has cursed her own children herself

You don't need to light candles and draw circles to curse someone just continue to talk and think horrible things about them is enough

But, eventually that does come back to a person, it is not worth it, the negativity is not worth the cost, the hatred is not worth the price