Women: Question about clitoral Stimulation | |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76908332 Australia 01/16/2019 07:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dunno man, try licking her ears and the area behind and down her neck to her shoulder. You got to do it right tho. Quoting: StratCast73 tried it many times (many different ways) and she doesn't like it... Literally, she is a complete prude! Are you talking about your wife or platonic lover? |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is it 'sad' and 'pathetic' to be OP? Did you read the entire thread? He says she was likely sexually abused by her step-father... It breaks my heart that she was apparently abused (must have been really tramatic for her to completely reject intimacy... She may actually be more comfortable being with women... Seriously! She seems to have only wanted to be with men is to have children.. Mikhailman |
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Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... Mikhailman |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76908332 Australia 01/16/2019 07:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is it 'sad' and 'pathetic' to be OP? Did you read the entire thread? He says she was likely sexually abused by her step-father... It breaks my heart that she was apparently abused (must have been really tramatic for her to completely reject intimacy... She may actually be more comfortable being with women... Seriously! She seems to have only wanted to be with men is to have children.. LOL Perhaps, you only are comfortable with men! :naileditandy: |
docsquat User ID: 77287901 United States 01/16/2019 07:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, you are too focused on the clit. Work your way around there until she grabs your head and pulls it right to her clit and then start humming Yankee Doodle dandy! Start at her nipples, the slowly run your tongue own to her belly button, then veer off to her pube line then back up and down to her large tendons that join the legs to the pelvis, working closer to the sweet spot. Expect at least 15 to 20 minutes to get to this point. This is going to take a while. Last Edited by docsquat on 01/16/2019 07:51 AM Purity of Essence |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76908332 Australia 01/16/2019 07:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... I’m gonna ask you one more time...are you talking about your wife or platonic lover? |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I've enjoyed this thread from my first snarky comment on the first page that "I don't understand the question". That was my way of saying something is not right with this scenario. Quoting: Renaissance Woman You have some serious red flags here with this woman. With the added details you have given, and assuming you are not trolling, I would honestly advise you to move on from this train wreck. Unless you like a "project" woman with issues and possible past trauma and 4 kids with another man (men?). I'm also getting a sense that maybe she's just not that into you. Sex should be the fun and easy part in a healthy relationship. This woman is going to be a lot of work and trouble for you, in my opinion. the 4 kids are mine, sorry for the confusion.. Mikhailman |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I've enjoyed this thread from my first snarky comment on the first page that "I don't understand the question". That was my way of saying something is not right with this scenario. Quoting: Renaissance Woman You have some serious red flags here with this woman. With the added details you have given, and assuming you are not trolling, I would honestly advise you to move on from this train wreck. Unless you like a "project" woman with issues and possible past trauma and 4 kids with another man (men?). I'm also getting a sense that maybe she's just not that into you. Sex should be the fun and easy part in a healthy relationship. This woman is going to be a lot of work and trouble for you, in my opinion. the 4 kids are mine, sorry for the confusion.. she has progressively become a complete sexual recluse...and yes, it is a slow motion train wreck Mikhailman |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76908332 Australia 01/16/2019 07:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I've enjoyed this thread from my first snarky comment on the first page that "I don't understand the question". That was my way of saying something is not right with this scenario. Quoting: Renaissance Woman You have some serious red flags here with this woman. With the added details you have given, and assuming you are not trolling, I would honestly advise you to move on from this train wreck. Unless you like a "project" woman with issues and possible past trauma and 4 kids with another man (men?). I'm also getting a sense that maybe she's just not that into you. Sex should be the fun and easy part in a healthy relationship. This woman is going to be a lot of work and trouble for you, in my opinion. the 4 kids are mine, sorry for the confusion.. she has progressively become a complete sexual recluse...and yes, it is a slow motion train wreck :trolltrain: |
Renaissance Woman User ID: 74808330 United States 01/16/2019 07:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I've enjoyed this thread from my first snarky comment on the first page that "I don't understand the question". That was my way of saying something is not right with this scenario. Quoting: Renaissance Woman You have some serious red flags here with this woman. With the added details you have given, and assuming you are not trolling, I would honestly advise you to move on from this train wreck. Unless you like a "project" woman with issues and possible past trauma and 4 kids with another man (men?). I'm also getting a sense that maybe she's just not that into you. Sex should be the fun and easy part in a healthy relationship. This woman is going to be a lot of work and trouble for you, in my opinion. the 4 kids are mine, sorry for the confusion.. Are you saying this thread is about your wife with whom you have 4 kids? Sorry, I was thinking it was a new girlfriend. Ditching her (as I would have suggested) is a little more complicated now if she's your wife with 4 kids. "For with thee is the fountain of life: in thy light shall we see light." |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, you are too focused on the clit. Work your way around there until she grabs your head and pulls it right to her clit and then start humming Yankee Doodle dandy! Quoting: docsquat Start at her nipples, the slowly run your tongue own to her belly button, then veer off to her pube line then back up and down to her large tendons that join the legs to the pelvis, working closer to the sweet spot. Expect at least 15 to 20 minutes to get to this point. This is going to take a while. been there, done that! doesn't work with her... Mikhailman |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 07:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I've enjoyed this thread from my first snarky comment on the first page that "I don't understand the question". That was my way of saying something is not right with this scenario. Quoting: Renaissance Woman You have some serious red flags here with this woman. With the added details you have given, and assuming you are not trolling, I would honestly advise you to move on from this train wreck. Unless you like a "project" woman with issues and possible past trauma and 4 kids with another man (men?). I'm also getting a sense that maybe she's just not that into you. Sex should be the fun and easy part in a healthy relationship. This woman is going to be a lot of work and trouble for you, in my opinion. the 4 kids are mine, sorry for the confusion.. she has progressively become a complete sexual recluse...and yes, it is a slow motion train wreck LOL!! Mikhailman |
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LilMiss User ID: 76614166 United States 01/16/2019 08:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the way to stimulate a woman is with her mind. Quoting: MissCleo The vagina does not have the same function as a penis. Women don't need to have sex, or ejaculate. Use intelligence and ettiquette and leave sex out of it until she brings up the subject. Thank God I am not a female She is right, though. ;) |
CptInvestigate User ID: 40568329 United States 01/16/2019 08:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi. I had sometime to think about this. It is impossible unless the woman is: A genetically born male with a gspot in the anal area. A higher being(Jinn, Angel, Ai-bot) who has stolen orgasmic energy from a regular female who got an orgasm via clitoral stimulation. Any woman stating it is possible, I suggest you get the "cut" down there than come back and tell me if you have inner ohs. The sad thing about this is society chastised me for being a woman who could orgasm, but it's like a basic need. My libido is small, yet it's still there, every once and a while, I have to get off. Unofficial member of my own hate club. I'm there in a limited capacity. :[ |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76908332 Australia 01/16/2019 08:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I've enjoyed this thread from my first snarky comment on the first page that "I don't understand the question". That was my way of saying something is not right with this scenario. Quoting: Renaissance Woman You have some serious red flags here with this woman. With the added details you have given, and assuming you are not trolling, I would honestly advise you to move on from this train wreck. Unless you like a "project" woman with issues and possible past trauma and 4 kids with another man (men?). I'm also getting a sense that maybe she's just not that into you. Sex should be the fun and easy part in a healthy relationship. This woman is going to be a lot of work and trouble for you, in my opinion. the 4 kids are mine, sorry for the confusion.. Why you involve children in your trolling... |
Theobromine The Deplorable User ID: 75048140 United States 01/16/2019 08:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... OP - If she was abused as a minor ...later married and acted this way ... No intimacy desires ... Maybe she did NOT CONSENT to sex when she was married ...and abused again... She is recreating abuse scenario by steaming you up and shutting you down ... UNCONSCIOUSLY getting close enough for more abuse ... Maybe she's trying to be NORMAL now but has never had NORMAL SEX - let herself enjoy it ... Due to things beyond her control she doesn't share about her past... Or briefly shares as an explanation... YOU will be paying for the past man or men that abused her ... Leave it alone ... You can't fix broken when it's THAT BROKEN Move on Torture yourself if you must - but realize from now on its not on her - it's on YOU how much you go crazy - you do it to yourself every day you stay. She ain't right - not her fault - ain't going to be right ... If she wants a relationship with a man - she has to FIX herself or find a eunuch - which would be more likely. So she is arm candy now ... But behind closed doors she is no partner for you. "What are you helping with all this helping?" Buddhist saying |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76908332 Australia 01/16/2019 09:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... OP - If she was abused as a minor ...later married and acted this way ... No intimacy desires ... Maybe she did NOT CONSENT to sex when she was married ...and abused again... She is recreating abuse scenario by steaming you up and shutting you down ... UNCONSCIOUSLY getting close enough for more abuse ... Maybe she's trying to be NORMAL now but has never had NORMAL SEX - let herself enjoy it ... Due to things beyond her control she doesn't share about her past... Or briefly shares as an explanation... YOU will be paying for the past man or men that abused her ... Leave it alone ... You can't fix broken when it's THAT BROKEN Move on Torture yourself if you must - but realize from now on its not on her - it's on YOU how much you go crazy - you do it to yourself every day you stay. She ain't right - not her fault - ain't going to be right ... If she wants a relationship with a man - she has to FIX herself or find a eunuch - which would be more likely. So she is arm candy now ... But behind closed doors she is no partner for you. OP already stated the four children are his... either way OP is talking about his wife or mistress... |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 10:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... I’m gonna ask you one more time...are you talking about your wife or platonic lover? platonic lovers don't have sex, that's why it's platonic... Mikhailman |
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Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 10:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... OP - If she was abused as a minor ...later married and acted this way ... No intimacy desires ... Maybe she did NOT CONSENT to sex when she was married ...and abused again... She is recreating abuse scenario by steaming you up and shutting you down ... UNCONSCIOUSLY getting close enough for more abuse ... Maybe she's trying to be NORMAL now but has never had NORMAL SEX - let herself enjoy it ... Due to things beyond her control she doesn't share about her past... Or briefly shares as an explanation... YOU will be paying for the past man or men that abused her ... Leave it alone ... You can't fix broken when it's THAT BROKEN Move on Torture yourself if you must - but realize from now on its not on her - it's on YOU how much you go crazy - you do it to yourself every day you stay. She ain't right - not her fault - ain't going to be right ... If she wants a relationship with a man - she has to FIX herself or find a eunuch - which would be more likely. So she is arm candy now ... But behind closed doors she is no partner for you. Thank you for the sound advice! I think you sumarized the situation pretty well! FYI: She always try's to make a big display of affection in public (try's to show other people and especially other women how much we are in love (she is all over me, kissy, touchy), then in private, she is cold as ice!! I am sick of the faux relationship! Yes, she always tells me how she wants to attack me and ravage me sexually, (get's my hopes up) then shut's it down before it happens... Mikhailman |
Mikhailman (OP) User ID: 76811228 United States 01/16/2019 10:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I actually do (I have been very supportive), she says she doesn't know what she wants... She tells me (all the time) that she loves me... I have went out on a limb and told her I will allow anything (if it will please her) and she just says she doesn't know... I am at whit's end, I can't live like this, despite loving her.. My feeling is she is so "kincked out" about her sexuality, that she is afraid to tell me what she truly desires (she's probably into something like choking and pain)... I think it is time to start looking elsewhere... I’m gonna ask you one more time...are you talking about your wife or platonic lover? platonic lovers don't have sex, that's why it's platonic... and yes, I have platonic relationships with several female friends, They are very special people and I would love to have more of a relationship with any one of them, but just keep it platonic because I respect the fact that they are married and one is lesbian. Mikhailman |
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