So I just started a job that I wanted but a better one just came up today....need advise. | |
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UrMomsD1ld0 User ID: 77302328 United States 02/08/2019 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've had tons of jobs in my life and I stayed at ones that I didn't like and I hated my life at that time, all of my advice is is find out if you're going to hate your life in a year at the new job or at the other job which will be better, my advice take the one thats gonna send you the most places in life and spontaneous so you never get burnt out |
countryleftypenn User ID: 30585150 United States 02/08/2019 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just tell the TRUTH! Jesus Christ is the only way to Salvation. 1 Corinthians 1611 AV KJ Bible Chapter 15 1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76284064 United States 02/08/2019 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just remember it was your current company's decision to fire a person to make room for you...not your decision. You do not really owe them anything and if just about any company was met with a decision to make, they would not hesitate in the least in firing anyone (as they clearly showed, hiring you). |
Little Red Hen User ID: 74791459 United States 02/08/2019 08:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most businesses would fire you in a heartbeat if it was economically feasible and have no employee loyalty, so you should not feel bad. Just tell them you were offered a position that was more in line with what you are looking for. No harm, no foul. You don’t owe them anything. I don’t suffer fools or shills lightly... Don’t gaslight me, bro. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77345291 United States 02/08/2019 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They probably didn't fire someone to hire you. They probably just made that up so that you didn't want to leave. When people have to play mind games with you to keep you and make up stories, don't feel bad to leave them in the dust. If its a better opportunity with better pay and you think it would be better overall after weighing the pros and cons, don't feel bad to leave them in the dust. Don't get emotionally attached. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77276135 United States 02/08/2019 08:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just remember it was your current company's decision to fire a person to make room for you...not your decision. You do not really owe them anything and if just about any company was met with a decision to make, they would not hesitate in the least in firing anyone (as they clearly showed, hiring you). Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76284064 yea your probably right, I just feel I led them on. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77276135 United States 02/08/2019 08:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most businesses would fire you in a heartbeat if it was economically feasible and have no employee loyalty, so you should not feel bad. Just tell them you were offered a position that was more in line with what you are looking for. No harm, no foul. You don’t owe them anything. Quoting: Little Red Hen the thing is, I asked them to wait for a week so I can weigh my options, and they did... they could of easily found someone new during that time as they had other candidates. I should of never accepted the job. |
Icey User ID: 77119763 United States 02/08/2019 08:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got offered a job that I took because I needed to secure a job and had none, its been less than a week, and I got offered a better position and pay at another company, I feel really bad because they fired someone so I can have that position I secured... Quoting: Help Wanted 77276135 so if I leave, they have no one to cover me, but I need to do whats best for myself for my future, but I do not want to leave them stranded... but I must start immediately at the new job. Please help. Is the other job with a company you will like working for? Give your current employer a chance to match the pay. I am SNOWIE. WELCOME TO THE NEW ICE AGE. TRY NOT TO STARVE. |
regenerated User ID: 75482645 United States 02/08/2019 09:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got offered a job that I took because I needed to secure a job and had none, its been less than a week, and I got offered a better position and pay at another company, I feel really bad because they fired someone so I can have that position I secured... Quoting: Help Wanted 77276135 so if I leave, they have no one to cover me, but I need to do whats best for myself for my future, but I do not want to leave them stranded... but I must start immediately at the new job. Please help. Is the other job with a company you will like working for? Give your current employer a chance to match the pay. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77357141 United States 02/08/2019 09:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got offered a job that I took because I needed to secure a job and had none, its been less than a week, and I got offered a better position and pay at another company, I feel really bad because they fired someone so I can have that position I secured... Quoting: Help Wanted 77276135 so if I leave, they have no one to cover me, but I need to do whats best for myself for my future, but I do not want to leave them stranded... but I must start immediately at the new job. Please help. Op I feel your pain. At the end of the day you need to be cut throat as fuck and look out for yourself and your family and fuck all else. Make sure you do thorough research on both companies and try to make the best long term decision based on your instincts. One important thing is a companies fiscal standing. You don't want to stay at a company that offers you better pay that has made bad financial decisions leading to layoffs in the past. You also need to try and pick the company that you instinctually feel will give you the greatest respect for you as a human being. I was laid off on the 28th after taking a job that had a fantastic contract. They were fiscally unstable come to find out and also honorless dogs - stealing over $6 million in contracts from my hard work. Now I have 4 job offers on the table and am trying to rake in a couple more early next week. I'll lay them all out on the table and seek advice from locals in the business, family, and also make a determination based on my research on all the companies |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77276135 United States 02/08/2019 09:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got offered a job that I took because I needed to secure a job and had none, its been less than a week, and I got offered a better position and pay at another company, I feel really bad because they fired someone so I can have that position I secured... Quoting: Help Wanted 77276135 so if I leave, they have no one to cover me, but I need to do whats best for myself for my future, but I do not want to leave them stranded... but I must start immediately at the new job. Please help. Is the other job with a company you will like working for? Give your current employer a chance to match the pay. yea the new job is something I can make a career, the job I secured is a dead end job. |
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Earl Gunner User ID: 13213395 United States 02/08/2019 10:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | negotiate for hire pay, they fired a previous employee for one reason, they conned you to work cheaper. If you aint first, youre last. |
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Yukon Cornelius User ID: 77137727 United States 02/08/2019 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got offered a job that I took because I needed to secure a job and had none, its been less than a week, and I got offered a better position and pay at another company, I feel really bad because they fired someone so I can have that position I secured... Quoting: Help Wanted 77276135 so if I leave, they have no one to cover me, but I need to do whats best for myself for my future, but I do not want to leave them stranded... but I must start immediately at the new job. Please help. Move on and dont look back. Your company will drop you like a rock if it ever suits their needs. zero loyalty |
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spoof User ID: 77330776 United States 02/09/2019 02:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got offered a job that I took because I needed to secure a job and had none, its been less than a week, and I got offered a better position and pay at another company, I feel really bad because they fired someone so I can have that position I secured... Quoting: Help Wanted 77276135 so if I leave, they have no one to cover me, but I need to do whats best for myself for my future, but I do not want to leave them stranded... but I must start immediately at the new job. Please help. Is the other job with a company you will like working for? Give your current employer a chance to match the pay. yea the new job is something I can make a career, the job I secured is a dead end job. This should tell you all you need to know. If you stay at the dead end job you will hate yourself in the future. |