I’ve done everything I can to save my marriage and family

honorable..

maybe just let go but not divorce and go with the flow?

perhaps trying too hard is part of the problem?

Dear God, please help this man and his children Lord. Please send your Holy Spirit to comfort them. We ask deliverance from evil for his wife, the mother of his children, in the name of Jesus we pray, and by the power of almighty God! Amen!

I'll pray this for OP, too

Hang in there, OP.

exorcism??

The world is changing fast now and ever faster. Did your wife ever profess to know Jesus? Is she fallen away from grace?

Regardless, God is using the upcoming world situations and tribulations to literally scare the hell out of some people. They will either turn to Jesus or they will move further away which is a higher likelihood of resulting in a very bad death.
Some people, by the way they have lived, have to be essentially "scared straight". God knows that and will not be sorry for imposing hardships to help their repentance.

It is not time to give up yet. Stay steadfast in prayer. God can and will do what human beings cannot. When there is no money, who can get the drugs then? When the world is fighting to stay alive, some of the narcissism has to die off (or the narcissists die off). Then perhaps the trash that some considered so important may not seem so important after all. Those who have indulged in addictions will have to learn the hard way that that is not successful living.

No your not a cuck, drugs just release all the super feel good feelings in the brain, you can’t compete with that.
The only way for her to change is to hit rock bottom, the drugs eventually will wear her down, which could take many years.
It’s essentially all up to her, you’re doing everything thing you can do.

Last Edited by Judgmental Bastard on 02/16/2019 01:31 AM

You need to get your family back to church.

In addition to the support there, lots of churches sponsor addiction meetings usually on site.

Blessings.

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I’ve been there, never had any desire to go back to where many men are going. Makes me sick.

I’m just bone tiered and spiritually weak. My faith is the size of not a mustard seed but a poppy seed. My oldest son is self destructing at school I have been getting him counseling meeting with school authorities and I’m getting pastoral counseling myself, but I feel I’m failing. My flesh is weak and I give into temptation and I know I’m delaying my prayers from that. I pray Ephs 6:10-20 my wife flaunts her affair in my face all the time. And the hardest thing is when I have to put our children in his car and see them drive off. Some days I just want to die. But I know my kids need me I’m the only stable thing they have. I’m just hurting a lot.

We have an awesome church family they all look up to me and admire me. My children are very active in the youth ministry as I’m very active in the church and the ministry. I minister at a old folks home on Sundays. My pastor is my best friend. Sometimes I feel I’ve only been hanging on because my church admires me.

stop with the religious BULLSHIT for a start...


ffs...


really...


then...observe nature...


grasp reality and ask yourself just how much spooge she has taken on board in the two years of her being single
signed "God"

I’m praying for you brother. And I forgive you for what you said. Nothing you can say can cut me any deeper than I have already been cut. May you find peace in your life through the love of Jesus.

yeah...that's great...ta


point is
she has gone, you are better off without her
man, when the Holy Kingdom comes, what percentage actually achieve eternity??
0.5% is about it...
so save your energies for your kids, listen to your father in law and move on...

who knows, you may even find someone to be equally yoked with...


as Solomon said a 3 twine cord is not easily broken...

I too forgive you for believing the heinous lies of the established church

remember, He said, in the last days I will send forth a delusion so strong, even the Elect will be deceived.

Divorce doesn't mean you stop loving her. It just means drawing a line in the sand. Maybe it will wake her up enough to get help. You could always remarry if she gets into recovery. If not, at least you're not all stuck in limbo and held hostage by the whims of a drug addict.

Look up Emmett Fox and his Golden Key to prayer. Like someone else said, maybe trying too hard is part of the problem. Let go and let God. It really works!

Start focusing on living your own life and providing a healthy loving environment for your kids.

You are willingly sending your children off with the boyfriend of a drug addict?! She's not even the one picking them up?!

If she's really a drug addict, your first responsibility and duty is to protect your children - even if that means protecting them from their mother. That boyfriend of hers is more likely her drug dealer or pimp.

You need to save your children! Drug addicts will pass around their own kids to be sexually abused for their next fix and never think twice about it.

You need to see an attorney, file for full custody, and let God sort it out from there. You're worse than a cuck!

My wife came out of the closet and left me for another woman. And the funniest thing is they both love Jesus. That's right. Some of those Christian lesbians. It's always some reason or excuse to why God loves them and being gay isn't a sin. Yeah, I know. It's not in the ten commandments or in the Bible 1k times. I told her though the 6 times it's mentioned in the Bible, it's all wrong. Unnatural, abomination, exc exc. Yet, guess what. Those verses are not correct. I just find it funny. This entire gay thing has gotten out of hand and now there is even a huge gay Christian group out there. So I feel your pain. Thankfully I have no kids, so i'm not having to go through that.

clueless..


I'd trust a drug attic before an attorney!

in fact most of the problems bible thumpers face is related to this.

the bible is a Law book but they aint got eyes to read it correctly.

has it not been written:

Luke 11:52

“Woe unto you, lawyers! for ye have taken away the key of knowledge: ye entered not in yourselves, and them that were entering in ye hindered.”

Are you insane? Why would you deal with a piece of shit woman when there are far better out there? Why would you subject yourself to that? If she's abusing drugs and fucking other guys you have to move on. It's in insult to decent women that you want to be with trash who doesn't respect you anymore.

This doofus keeps sending his traumatized kids (who are acting out from abuse) off to a drug den with their mom's pimp. But lawyers are the bad guys.

I'm sure the local crack head will be happy to defend your constitutional rights.

She needs needs rebab and getting of alc. Or drugs can kill someone be of withdrawl so be careful

what makes you think 'my' rights come from a piece of paper?

but carry on that bankrupt path..

THIS

Though He slay me, I will yet praise him.

Thank Him every morning--- for your kids and pray for your wife's soul-- she is going to hell for her evil ----- unless she repents.

God bless you, OP.

Honestly... You sound kinda boring for her. That's just my opinion.

No peace to the wicked ... God will exhaust you in for time . She broke off with you , go move on now ...just be a strong father for you children . Very hard situation , prayers for you

Many men whose wives and children use drugs put religion first in their lives.

Often because of their "close friendship" with the pastor.

Religious conferences make the YMCA of the '80s look tame

Honestly ...if you kick living shit out of guy and do a good job , and when he's down. Put your balls in his face , you may go to jail , but she will not be able to bang this dude any longer without seeing your face or thinking about you emasculating him

Remember OP, we all with souls are families.