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~ CITRONELLA ~ (OP) User ID: 76640758 Canada 02/19/2019 01:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've probably already done that because I have a bad habit of not noticing sighs of interest. I've had many moments in life of missing the clues from a man that others can clearly see. One time I had a 6 month long crush on this guy at work and when we were finally in the same place at night, he asked me for a hug and then took me aside and asked if he could buy me a drink. I replied" umm no I'm ok thanks, "he" already brought me one and then I pointed to my friends boyfriend. Thanks just one of many because I'm clueless when a man is interested. ~ CITRONELLA ~ |
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~ CITRONELLA ~ (OP) User ID: 76640758 Canada 02/19/2019 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | adults already know how to communicate . Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77378438 in all instances one should be brief and direct and accurate . this shows you have respect and consideration . the exact opposite of the average females blah blah blah . good luck , you're going to need it . I feel that if I'm brief discreet and accurate, I become the chaser and that actually bothers my femininity. I get what your saying though, I suppose we all have ideas of the way we think things should be. I think he should be bold, walk up to me and say " so when we going out" . Which is the opposite of what femme nazis are manipulating men not to do. I want to give him a green light to be the man, so I can be the woman. If I find myself chasing him I'm going to start feeling likes hes the girl and I'm the guy. That doesn't work for me ~ CITRONELLA ~ |
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rockstar101 User ID: 39914443 United States 02/19/2019 01:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wear something nice and tell him you like him. When the one great scorer comes to write against your name, he writes not that you won or lost but how you played the game. The stance and stare of a wolf you find yourself alone with will tell you that he is prepared to treat you as you would treat him. Whether that comforts or frightens you, he has told you all you need know about both. |
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~ CITRONELLA ~ (OP) User ID: 76640758 Canada 02/19/2019 02:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thankyou ;) I get that attraction is important but I don't want to use that. I really think this guy is compatible for me and I for him I dunno, its just not me to be the chaser. ~ CITRONELLA ~ |
Red John User ID: 63476178 Canada 02/19/2019 02:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've probably already done that because I have a bad habit of not noticing sighs of interest. I've had many moments in life of missing the clues from a man that others can clearly see. One time I had a 6 month long crush on this guy at work and when we were finally in the same place at night, he asked me for a hug and then took me aside and asked if he could buy me a drink. I replied" umm no I'm ok thanks, "he" already brought me one and then I pointed to my friends boyfriend. Thanks just one of many because I'm clueless when a man is interested. The ability / inability to read "signs" non verbal body language etc. is not a habit / bad habit you are either capable or not Some of that is learned in the home by watching a healthy relationship between your mother and father some of it is innate, and the level of the innate ability is different for everyone I've never had any ability whatsoever I am completely incapable of picking up on anything that is not direct verbal and non verbal body language, hints, clues, cues, signs, signals, innuendo, etc. blows right by me and or right over my head whoosh ! if he is as you say supposedly an alpha then he will make it absolutely clear whether he is interested in you or not :pixie: General Failure Reading Drive A: Who is General Failure? There can be Only One Team Swirl Swirl Nation instead of red, post in the thread, then I can respond. [link to qz.com (secure)] |
DeploraVision ™ User ID: 61401388 United States 02/19/2019 02:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | adults already know how to communicate . Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77378438 in all instances one should be brief and direct and accurate . this shows you have respect and consideration . the exact opposite of the average females blah blah blah . good luck , you're going to need it . OMG, forget all the schemes and words and just SHUT UP! Give your alpha male a shoulder massage and giggle, while you are in your bra and panties.. that's it. Nothing else more is required except to just let him have his way, and then ask him if he wants a sandwich afterwords. What could be more simple? Don't dominate him or he will need viagra around you. Seriously. Comments have been disabled. |
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~ CITRONELLA ~ (OP) User ID: 76640758 Canada 02/19/2019 02:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The ability / inability to read "signs" non verbal body language etc. is not a habit / bad habit Quoting: Red John you are either capable or not... ...verbal and non verbal body language, hints, clues, cues, signs, signals, innuendo, etc. blows right by me and or right over my head whoosh ! if he is as you say supposedly an alpha then he will make it absolutely clear whether he is interested in you or not Ok good to know that others can relate. I don't even suffer from Aspergers or autism so I don't know why this happens to be honest. I can pick it out if it comes from a man who I'm not interested in because it makes me uncomfortable , but when it comes from a man who I am interested in...I just don't notice It, probably because I'm nervous or something, I don't know. But yes, I agree if he is an alpha he will make it clear. What I'm worried about is that maybe he hinted and I missed giving the I'm interested cues. ~ CITRONELLA ~ |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77112943 United Kingdom 02/19/2019 02:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | At the hard rock cafe, duh. Wheres that then?.. How do I get my hands on one when theres no hard rock cafe round here.. Ive no car, no money and I live in the North, any advice would be greatly appreciated TIA x |
~ CITRONELLA ~ (OP) User ID: 76640758 Canada 02/19/2019 02:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't sound like a woman. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75751562 A woman knows these things and therefore, doesn't ask. No, you're not Alpha male worthy, even if you are a bottom. I'm a woman, but I'm expressing that I have an issue with catching clues. If that makes me unworthy then I guess thats why he didn't chase me, or maybe he tried? I don't know. I still hope he will. I'm willing to throw one hint out there because I may have screwed up, Im not sure. Its not that I want to play games, I'm just very particular about gender roles. Its how I was raised. ~ CITRONELLA ~ |
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~ CITRONELLA ~ (OP) User ID: 76640758 Canada 02/19/2019 02:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'd like to but he's got me intrigued because he is everything I want in a man and from what he told his friend regarding his taste, I seem to be everything he wants in a woman. Question is... did he see it like I see it? I hope so. But sure, I can shut up about it. I haven't lost my mind or anything ~ CITRONELLA ~ |
DeploraVision ™ User ID: 61401388 United States 02/19/2019 02:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'd like to but he's got me intrigued because he is everything I want in a man and from what he told his friend regarding his taste, I seem to be everything he wants in a woman. Question is... did he see it like I see it? I hope so. But sure, I can shut up about it. I haven't lost my mind or anything ..okay then, here's how he see's it; I'm sure of it Comments have been disabled. |
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