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Serious relationship question....

 
FeedYourHead

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02/26/2019 08:28 PM

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You are responsible for your own behavior.

No excuses.
 Quoting: Vasily


I'm not looking for excuses... That is why i think that acting like a spoiled brat is also wrong as much as yelling...
 Quoting: KEK


Sorry.

I was not pointing that statement directly at you.

Was using the "royal you", if you will.

It's just a good guiding principle.

Accept responsibility for your own actions and behavior regardless of what anyone else does.

IOW, someone else's bad behavior does not excuse one's own.
 Quoting: Vasily


Curiosity question, do you get frustrated at times on the internetS when you feel what you intended was not what was received? I know I do....
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02/26/2019 08:29 PM

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I totally agree with you...maybe i phrase my question the wrong way...

I`m trying my best in this relationship.. LIKE MY BEST!! Went back to school to get my shit together, i am now a high pressure welder and all.

It seems like everytime i bring something that bothers me, i get the rolling eyes, i get the ''mirror mirror'' thingy...it's getting hard for me to stay calm at some point.

I'm not a wife beater, not at all LOL. I just lose my cool, when her argument makes absolutly no sens, and it's only ''yea, but you do the same....''
 Quoting: KEK


True, you are not a wife beater, instead you are a whiny bitch! What woman is going to respond to that? Why not for once, just doing something FOR HER? No motive, just because you love her? That of course, assumes you do...try thinking about what she wants for a changed? oh wait...you might actually have to give a damn....
 Quoting: FeedYourHead


Why the personal attacks?

I'm pretty sure you don't know me lol

I'm not even going to responds any further to you lol.
 Quoting: KEK


No attack intended...just speaking truth.

Please note, you said you had a "serious relationship question" but then you consider the truth an "attack"?

interesting....
 Quoting: FeedYourHead


Yep, he’s the one sounding like he’s bitching constantly about what “bothers” him.
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Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?
 Quoting: KEK


yelling is abuse.

if you lose your temper that's on you.
 Quoting: MissCleo



Do you believe in emotional abuse?

Let's say your partner cheats on you and you yell at him/her... Are you the one to blame? im just trying to figure my shit right now....

i'm a little bit lost ATM
 Quoting: KEK


Butting in....you seem to be only willing to look at the symptoms of whats wrong instead of the actual issues...just sayin....
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02/26/2019 08:29 PM

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Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?
 Quoting: KEK


yelling is abuse.

if you lose your temper that's on you.
 Quoting: MissCleo


That is mostly true, I have never raised my voice to my wife and she has never done it to me. But there are plenty of women more than glad to push your buttons until you snap.
If I had a dollar for every time I got suspicious...

I'd wonder who was paying me, and why?
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02/26/2019 08:30 PM

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Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?

EDIT: I realize that my question is a little bit badly put... It was more to catch the attention rather than to look for blames ;) red_heart
 Quoting: KEK


hehehe...I see I have you thinking....THAT my friend is a good thing!!!!

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02/26/2019 08:33 PM

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Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?
 Quoting: KEK


yelling is abuse.

if you lose your temper that's on you.
 Quoting: MissCleo



Do you believe in emotional abuse?

Let's say your partner cheats on you and you yell at him/her... Are you the one to blame? im just trying to figure my shit right now....

i'm a little bit lost ATM
 Quoting: KEK


IF you are dealing with cheating in your relationship then you have many serious considerations, depending on your situation.

IF it's just the two of you and you want to work on the relationship you have many choices but you first have to recognize what YOU want and why you want it...
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02/26/2019 08:34 PM

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Re: Serious relationship question....
You are responsible for your own behavior.

No excuses.
 Quoting: Vasily


I'm not looking for excuses... That is why i think that acting like a spoiled brat is also wrong as much as yelling...
 Quoting: KEK


Sorry.

I was not pointing that statement directly at you.

Was using the "royal you", if you will.

It's just a good guiding principle.

Accept responsibility for your own actions and behavior regardless of what anyone else does.

IOW, someone else's bad behavior does not excuse one's own.
 Quoting: Vasily


Curiosity question, do you get frustrated at times on the internetS when you feel what you intended was not what was received? I know I do....
 Quoting: FeedYourHead


absolutely.
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02/26/2019 08:34 PM
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Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?

EDIT: I realize that my question is a little bit badly put... It was more to catch the attention rather than to look for blames ;) red_heart
 Quoting: KEK


I guess I can't post the truth here.
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02/26/2019 08:39 PM
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Re: Serious relationship question....
Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?

EDIT: I realize that my question is a little bit badly put... It was more to catch the attention rather than to look for blames ;) red_heart
 Quoting: KEK


I guess I can't post the truth here.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75926669



You are 100% free to post what you want, what's up?
KEK  (OP)

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02/26/2019 08:43 PM
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Re: Serious relationship question....
Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?

EDIT: I realize that my question is a little bit badly put... It was more to catch the attention rather than to look for blames ;) red_heart
 Quoting: KEK


hehehe...I see I have you thinking....THAT my friend is a good thing!!!!

tounge
 Quoting: FeedYourHead


Yes, i love everyone's feedback.

I really want to better myself. Some may say ''you act like the bitchy one'', yea well that's fine. Say what you want!

If you think so that means you don't really know me. cheers
FeedYourHead

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02/26/2019 09:03 PM

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Re: Serious relationship question....
Who is to blame the one that keep bitching, or the one that is fed up and yell?

EDIT: I realize that my question is a little bit badly put... It was more to catch the attention rather than to look for blames ;) red_heart
 Quoting: KEK


hehehe...I see I have you thinking....THAT my friend is a good thing!!!!

tounge
 Quoting: FeedYourHead


Yes, i love everyone's feedback.

I really want to better myself. Some may say ''you act like the bitchy one'', yea well that's fine. Say what you want!

If you think so that means you don't really know me. cheers
 Quoting: KEK


May I challenge you to go back and re-read what I said...seriously, without thinking you have to respond to me...you don't.
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02/26/2019 09:09 PM
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Re: Serious relationship question....
If you want to just "live in love" , you have to set the example.

Walk away before letting it get to the point where you are yelling and screaming. No one responds well to that.

Love one another.

You sound like you have some anger problems that need to be dealt with.
She sounds like she is dealing with her own issues.
Either love one another unconditionally and work on it together or it is best to have peace in your life alone.

With Love.
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02/26/2019 09:12 PM
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Re: Serious relationship question....
We ALL need to look in the mirror!

None of us is perfect.

Recognizing that you have a problem is half the battle won!
You can't change anything until you recognize you have a problem and then work on getting to the root of that problem.





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