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I could use some legal advice.. If possible? If not appropriate, just say. Please don't ban me.

 
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I could use some legal advice.. If possible? If not appropriate, just say. Please don't ban me.
I need some advice.

My father is being, and has been royally screw by my mom after seperation for 18 years now..

Paying 900$ a month to per since seperation.. For 18 years..

He and i both have crohns desease. He has it really bad, and his health is falling apart.. He is over 60, working 6-7 days a week and has been to the hospital multiple times.

My mother (gold digger) refuses to work.. And our socialist justice system might screw him once again..

She wants to double payments till the day he dies, and then get his new wife to pay when he dies.

I am disgusted.

He has help us kids and is a great father..

I would die for him in a heart beat, and want to see him be able
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To retire soon..

How the hell is this garbage allowed..
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03/02/2019 07:05 PM
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Seeing a good man, who has always been there for his children treated like this..

I am so angry.. It is evil.. How can i make this right.
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I would kill the wife before i paid a cent to it
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She is an evil bitch.

But i do not condone killing, except in self defense.
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03/02/2019 07:07 PM
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I cut all ties off with her..
She doesnt care, she wants her money.

She told the lawyers i'm a violent psychopath..

I'm a teddy bear..

I'm honestly a very gentle man, but i protect those i care about.
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03/02/2019 07:08 PM
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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

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So evil...
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03/02/2019 07:10 PM
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I will never get married because of this.

Male privilege my ass..

What a joke.
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03/02/2019 07:13 PM

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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
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Are these payments something he agreed to during the divorce?
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03/02/2019 07:13 PM
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Don't have kids until you're married, and don't get married until you've been living together a few good years.
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03/02/2019 07:15 PM

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Don't have kids until you're married, and don't get married until you've been living together a few good years.
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Living together before marriage drastically increases the likelihood of divorce. Honestly.
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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631

Are these payments something he agreed to during the divorce?
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Not sure
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Don't have kids until you're married, and don't get married until you've been living together a few good years.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53500144


Living together before marriage drastically increases the likelihood of divorce. Honestly.
 Quoting: SoulWinner


Married before first child
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Maybe i should start a go fund me..

I need to help the old man out.

I do ok, but one lawyer fee would bankrupt me..
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03/02/2019 07:18 PM
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Honor demands i do something. The man has slaved away for his family for my entire life, only to treated like this.

I'm prepared to move into my car to fight for him, to be able to retire.

But the courts are so corrupt.
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03/02/2019 07:24 PM

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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631

Are these payments something he agreed to during the divorce?
 Quoting: SoulWinner


Not sure
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In order to pay, the court must determine he has ongoing income and/or assets to cover the payments.

One way is to invest all liquid assets into one's home. Bankruptcy laws in US exempt the home. Another way is to provide gifts of assets to family members one trusts.

Imagine adding an addition to the home or otherwise improving its value. Years later, sell the home.
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03/02/2019 07:26 PM
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Move money into home or gifts to family?

Please explain a bit more.. I'm a simple man
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03/02/2019 07:27 PM
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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


bsflag You are either a liar or your dad and his lawyer are stupid. NO ONE pays alimony for 18 years and then suddenly has it doubled lol.
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03/02/2019 07:28 PM
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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631

Are these payments something he agreed to during the divorce?
 Quoting: SoulWinner


Not sure
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


In order to pay, the court must determine he has ongoing income and/or assets to cover the payments.

One way is to invest all liquid assets into one's home. Bankruptcy laws in US exempt the home. Another way is to provide gifts of assets to family members one trusts.

Imagine adding an addition to the home or otherwise improving its value. Years later, sell the home.
 Quoting: SoulWinner


You could upgrade the home, but that doesnt change your base income.. How does thst work?
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OP, I don't know what Province you are in, but I suspect their laws will be similar to that of Ontario's whom I have linked below for you.

The valid reason for change "The partner receiving spousal support should now be self-supporting." seems to apply to your father in this case.

I wish you and him the greatest success in your efforts to retain, indeed regain his life.

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If you remember what we were, and how we lived, then we'll have found life again.

Now we live in you; tell them of us.
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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


bsflag You are either a liar or your dad and his lawyer are stupid. NO ONE pays alimony for 18 years and then suddenly has it doubled lol.
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Its what she is pushing for.

He is going to have to retire early if he fails in court.

And lose his semi-comfortable retirement.

Even then..
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03/02/2019 07:31 PM
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She wants 2000$ a month and might get it.

Over half his income..

He will never be able to retire.

....


So evil...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


bsflag You are either a liar or your dad and his lawyer are stupid. NO ONE pays alimony for 18 years and then suddenly has it doubled lol.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73848670


My father is the smartest man i know..

A good man, screwed over by a gold digging whore who refuses to be independent.

Excuse my french.
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03/02/2019 07:33 PM
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Eh..


Maybe i buy him a better laywer?

I dont know
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03/02/2019 07:34 PM
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I've spent 6 months saving just under 5000$ ,

Wont be enough for a good lawyer.
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03/02/2019 07:37 PM
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seriously if i was married and she broke it up or took the child i would fucking ruin her and take my kid
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Move money into home or gifts to family?

Please explain a bit more.. I'm a simple man
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If he has any savings and owns a home, use all of it to improve his home. If he owns anything valuable--tools, hunting equipment, boat, etc., give it to his son. His son can let him use it whenever he wishes.
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seriously if i was married and she broke it up or took the child i would fucking ruin her and take my kid
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She kicked us out.

He raised us, schooled us and fed us.

She has remained unemployed for most of it..
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03/02/2019 07:43 PM
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Move money into home or gifts to family?

Please explain a bit more.. I'm a simple man
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If he has any savings and owns a home, use all of it to improve his home. If he owns anything valuable--tools, hunting equipment, boat, etc., give it to his son. His son can let him use it whenever he wishes.
 Quoting: SoulWinner


They wouldnt just take his home/ assets?
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seriously if i was married and she broke it up or took the child i would fucking ruin her and take my kid
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She kicked us out.

He raised us, schooled us and fed us.

She has remained unemployed for most of it..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


well good luck sir
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...

Are these payments something he agreed to during the divorce?
 Quoting: SoulWinner


Not sure
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


In order to pay, the court must determine he has ongoing income and/or assets to cover the payments.

One way is to invest all liquid assets into one's home. Bankruptcy laws in US exempt the home. Another way is to provide gifts of assets to family members one trusts.

Imagine adding an addition to the home or otherwise improving its value. Years later, sell the home.
 Quoting: SoulWinner


You could upgrade the home, but that doesnt change your base income.. How does thst work?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


If he earns 48k annually, I cannot imagine they could take 2k monthly. The amount they take is *likely* a percentage of income, savings, and assets.
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Move money into home or gifts to family?

Please explain a bit more.. I'm a simple man
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


If he has any savings and owns a home, use all of it to improve his home. If he owns anything valuable--tools, hunting equipment, boat, etc., give it to his son. His son can let him use it whenever he wishes.
 Quoting: SoulWinner


They wouldnt just take his home/ assets?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57810631


Not in US. The home is off limits. I assume same in Canada.
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Go to Court and ask the Judge to lower the payments