The reason for divorce is men just lay down to rot

I agree with you, but I find most women I date want to take more than they give.

Hence my lifestyle to stay single and mingle

I can't say that anything here is wrong.

But let me just explain my self a bit. I'm going to stick with "generalizations"

Women want "emotional connection" and
Men want "sexual connection"

If women want MORE emotional connection, then it shouldn't be up to the man to instigate it. However, when she reaches out emotionally he should respond.

If men want MORE sexual connection, then it shouldn't be up to the woman to instigate it. However, when he reaches out sexually, she should respond.

We don't have to be "actors" pretending to be something we are not. Men don't have to go around pretending to be emotionally needy. Women don't have to go around pretending to be sexually needy. We just have to be sympathetic to our spouses needs.

And, to give our spouses a break in real life, our desires for our spouses attentions should be realistic. ie, a man shouldn't expect a porn star and a woman shouldn't expect Dr Phil.

It's everyone on both sides of the fence. If you are a kind, decent person prepare to be fucked hard by everyone.

You've got to learn quickly how to keep people at arm's length or they will succubus your soul and then blame you for it.

Men generally don't want to work anymore after a certain age because their bodies are so broken down they want to have a few years of peace and quiet before they die. They get the peace and quiet assuming they aren't married to a nag.

And women provide what?

Relationships are supposed to be partnerships. Doesn't matter how many times I say it, no one ever listens.

You are supposed to take care of each other. If each person put the other one first in a relationship, and went out of their way to make the other happy, there would be a lot more happy relationships.

You know pretty quickly in a relationship if that person is a match or not. If that person is selfish, and thinks that their needs, time, and peace are more important than the other partner's, then it will never work.

I would never marry someone that couldn't understand those basic principles.

Seems like everyone today, on both sides, just wants a servant.

No thanks... I'd rather be alone.

Sex is all they have to offer nowadays, most of them anyways

If they offered it for an affordable price, I'd go for it.

I love when they give you that look while in doggystyle alamode

If Op is right then women have some very serious psychological, spiritual, and character flaws. And op is saying women are not capable of true love but use men like dogs.

In my life, from what I’ve seen, women are pretty stupid and operate with the cognizance of children.

I’d rather just keep a few 20 year old girls around to drain the sperm out of my sack. They can go away when they aren’t servicing my shaft. All you old bitches can get lost.

Meanwhile I’ll have a couple young ladies in their bikinis glistening on the deck of my boat.

Relationships are supposed to be partnerships. Doesn't matter how many times I say it, no one ever listens.

You are supposed to take care of each other. If each person put the other one first in a relationship, and went out of their way to make the other happy, there would be a lot more happy relationships.

You know pretty quickly in a relationship if that person is a match or not. If that person is selfish, and thinks that their needs, time, and peace are more important than the other partner's, then it will never work.

I would never marry someone that couldn't understand those basic principles.

Seems like everyone today, on both sides, just wants a servant.

No thanks... I'd rather be alone.

And women provide what?

But men get really pompous about what they provided her. He makes a bold statement that he works 10 hour days to provide for her. That is not what keeps women around. Simply being a basic provider is not even close to enough.

Men lay down to rot because they have their basic needs met. He has food, water, tv, bed and good quality sex. He loses his masculinity and just gets lost in a day to day world of work, eat, sex, sleep, repeat. This is AMAZING to a young wife, but after 5 years of this, she starts to want SO MUCH MORE.

Women are different than men. Women tend to have their most important years between age 22 and 40. After 40, their kids no longer need her to survive. Her lil pipsqueeks could probably survive on their own. She is dealing with a serious shift in thinking. She needs more purpose in her life. This time of change for her comes EXACTLY when her husband starts his serious testosterone decline and lose of ambition.

She is seeking purpose, while he is losing motivation for even the smallest of ambitions like changing light bulbs. She is slowly awakening while he is slowly falling asleep. She gets depressed because she doesn't feel like he is sexy enough for sex. Sex becomes a chore. She doesn't want to just have sex every day and have no direction in life. She wants adventure, she wants to get closer to god, she wants to be with a real man. What is a real man? A real man provides her endless feelings of purpose due to his incredible leadership. He performs amazing innovative maintenance of their lifestyle. He provides her with so much that keeps her intetested and he has so much masculine power that she feels that god has put him in charge of her.

When women dirorce a man, their first reaction is to get ahold of some masculinity. This usually comes in the form of a young strong high testosterone hunk. She yearns to find high testosterone. Sadly, after all the flings ar over, divirced wonen tend to repeat the same processes where she finds a good strong single guy and she watches him lose hos ambition and motivation just like her ex husband, so the cycle of divorce repeats again.

It's very hard for a woman to find that perfect guy who isn't gonna lay down and rot 10 years into a marriage. Those guys tend to get gobbled up really early in life and part of what inspires him to be so strong, so masculine and so motivated is because he has a gorgeous sweet wife. If ypu want your husband to keep getting better in life, you as a woman have to perform maintence too. You have to inspire him in order for him to inspire you.

It's the idea that 2-3 kids and working your life away so your kids can grow up, and work their life away till their bodies are worthless, that's the problem.

Worker bees work till they are no longer useful. Then you're medicated till your insurance won't pay and then you die. They make money off of you till your last breathe. Repeat, repeat, repeat...

The bitch probably never had a job in her life.

Just moves from cuck to cuck who is willing to support her.

I'm sure she's great in the beginning until the honeymoon effect wears off then she turns into a real bitch.

She starts to want 'SO MUCH MORE'.......

lol

Like she deserves so much more?

She deserves what she will eventually get in the end, a case of herpes and a woman's shelter.

My sister broke up with her first long term boyfriend because all he did was work and lay on the couch, drink beer and eat junk food. He made pretty good money- she worked part time and was in college. When she would ask what kind of things he wanted to do he life, he only talked about his career. She said don't you want to travel and have adventures? He said no.
He was charming and took her out a lot before they started living together- a good looking guy. Then after about a year and a half he gained 50 pounds. One time he got a three day weekend and my sister was all excited because she thought they would go somewhere, but all he did was want to lay on the couch and watch sports and movies. He told her- wait until you get to be my age- you will understand. He was 27-
she was 21. She said, you mean in six years I am going to fall apart? lol.

I've always been like that guy.

Just want to get my shit done and have peace.

What the hell is wrong with everyone?


Why is everyone racing to their death?

It makes no sense!

I've always been like that guy.

Just want to get my shit done and have peace.

What the hell is wrong with everyone?


Why is everyone racing to their death?

It makes no sense!

OH I want to travel the world, blah blah,blah,blah.

People so concerned about the future, they never enjoy the time they have right now.

Fools, all of them.

Actually know we live in a society in which women have a deep distrust of men, and in many cases a hatred for them, and yet these feelings are largely unfounded.

Its women who pretend to be something their not to get their guy, and are willing to modify their behavior in order to get him..

But after that's done, they have to hope that their man will figure out what they really want. Because their a fraud.

Society has always made excuses for women's bad behavior...

Actually know we live in a society in which women have a deep distrust of men, and in many cases a hatred for them, and yet these feelings are largely unfounded.

Its women who pretend to be something their not to get their guy, and are willing to modify their behavior in order to get him..

But after that's done, they have to hope that their man will figure out what they really want. Because their a fraud.

Society has always made excuses for women's bad behavior...