Truly Platonic Opposite-Sex Friendships DO NOT exist. End of debate. Scientific America.

I used to be against legalizing prostitution till reading so much whining from dudes about not gettin any. Maybe prostitution should be legalized if for no other reason to stop the constant stream of cryin over lack of pussy.

It could even stop alot of slutty girl behavior. If a girl knows any dude can legally get hassle free sex for $100 anytime, the sluts start bein like, "vagina magic... waning... must resort... to personality..."

ya sure it would

Friend-zoning someone with out sex is treating them like a trick not a friend.

no not trick

emotional dumpster

if a chick calls a dude for a "visit"
knowing full well that the dude is interested in more than "just hanging out"
and denies him

she's just using him as her emotional dumpster

adopted siblings count too though.

...as well as people you simply grew up with from childhood.

because you developed a bond prior to puberty

your bond is not fundamentally sexual in nature

my family was hosting a foreign family in our home when I was born. we were all homeschooled, and i became best friends with the youngest girl.

grandmas would tease me saying she was girlfriend, but no

we were just good playmates.

our families drifted apart. but we saw each other sometimes as teenagers. honestly platonic. i never saw her any other way, and wouldn't to this day.

she is married now.

I also spent time with a girl at college who was also from my church. not close enough to call "friends", but absolutely zero undertones. we just weren't attracted to each other that way.

some food for thought: what if you met someone of the opposite sex who is EXTREMELY UGLY to you. like, HIDEOUS.
BUT, you share the same hobby, and enjoy each other's company. enough that you could call each other friends. why? because you're not completely shallow.

But, BOTH of you think the other is ugly, and would be grossed out by anything else.

fascinating

Last Edited by T-Man on 04/25/2019 05:13 PM

yes and no

the highest rate of successful marriages are those who met as children in Grade School grew up together, through middle school, and high school

and either married before, during, or after college / university

success rate drops to shit if they met after High school

That does not surprise me at all. If people would get to know another person before jumping into bed with them and starting a relationship with the speed of Usain Bolt out of the starting block, more marriages would be successful.

Girls are not machines you put nice quarters into and sex falls out. This concept is hellish for some guys to accept.

Men are not machines that you dangle the steak in front of so that money and resources fall out of and you get to keep the steak

we are wired and designed for intimate companionship

men are supposed to have men friends and a wife
women are supposed to have women friends and a husband

a man's wife is supposed to be his only woman friend and companion
all other women are either relatives or acquaintances

a woman's husband is supposed to be her only man friend and companion
all other men are either relatives or acquaintances

all of this understanding was lost and thrown out with the perverse free love and free fucks for all sexual revolution

Yeah, that's Muslim thinking.

Reminds me of a woman I worked w/ and her boyfriend sat in the parking lot during her entire shift and if she dared talk to a co-worker male he'd come in there raising hell. He only wanted her talking to other girls, and that was it. He said any girl wanting to be friends w/ a guy was just being a whore. Maybe some men and women get off on Muslim-level of control and jealousy, but it ain't healthy.

nope not mudslime thinking

it's about protection against getting hurt by those who actually get off on dangling the steak knowing full well the dude would jump in a heartbeat and her knowing full well she will never give it up

mudslimes are not interested in equal intimate companionship
mudslime thinking says women are second class chatle to service men

I cannot be more than acquaintances with women because I cannot be "just friends"

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