Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: study

Right. That's what I was trying to say.

Not surprising. Just saw a trial going on in Australia where a dude stopped and helped a girl get her car going, and she accused him of sexual assault and he lost his job, went to jail with no bail!, his wife divorced him, the media smeared him....and omg, just awful.

I'm not American but I would like that very much. Seperate transportation for men and women makes me think of how it was probably like back in the 50's when relations between men and women were much better. Seperation between male and females was what made society great in the past. Now there is too much contact between men and women and I personaly feel uncomfortable about that. If there were separate transports for men and women, separate shops for men and women and seperate cafe's for men and women I would be a social bunny and probably going out everyday, lol.

Better off to just avoid the risks altogether and not hire women unless you absolutely have too. Work environment is always better when women are not around.

It's the women (as usual) who are complaining that men aren't passing on their knowledge (mentoring) as much as they used to.

Men typically DGAF, but they sure as hell aren't going to put themselves at risk by trying to mentor a woman who can lie about being sexually harassed.

stay away from women...it's poison

Why would I mentor a creature who has done nothing but stab me in the back my entire life?

I would sooner mentor a snake.

Maybe it is not men are afraid..perhaps it is just woman are waking up to the fact of what happens after their expiration date happens..men are not afraid,they are simply not interested in an old hag for a mate..the results of haughty woman coming to fruit.

Open wide your mouth. My anus wishes to express it's gratitude my passing wind into your asophagus.

Yep, I refuse to work with female contractors oh, and I made that decision way before the me-too movement.

A female contractor acted really weird on me one day, not accusing me of anything but just walking away from the job without saying anything.

Yep.

Good luck with that. Risk the company by going out to a work dinner with you. That ain't happening and it is not a wise choice for someone with a lot of responsibility. The current environment is not good. It's not the men that are paying it is the female gender.

Don't waste you time. Women have trouble following a point.

I simply refuse to have any one on one with a woman in the workplace. You need to talk to me in private you bring in HR as well.

YEP.

If I was still in the Corporate World I would NOT stay at the same hotel as the women traveling to a meeting would be staying. Of course I would NEVER have a one on one dinner with them, and absolutely would NEVER go out for drinks, even in a group, with any woman when on the road.

In the office I would also avoid ANY situation where I would be one on one with woman in other than an open environment with lots of people around - say open bullpen setting, ONLY deal with them IN the office setting, NEVER outside of the 4 walls of the office (no dinners, no drinks, NO weekends working together on a project outside the office's 4 walls - and then working with them on the weekend AT the office ONLY IF several other people were there also)

I have seen FALSE claims filed, and it is NOT pretty for the male EVEN IF everyone in the organization knows the woman filing the claim is absolutely batty.

MANY women today are also shoulder chip endowed ... which means that they not only have a HUGE sense of entitlement but will take anything negative said, including even slightly disagreeing with them about a really bad idea, as sexual harassment.

It is a total minefield for the Males ... and the absolute BEST advice for males in an organization these days is to AVOID AVOID AVOID the women trying to climb the organization's ladders.

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As soon as you went off to the merchant marines the neighbors would gang bang your wife

Back in the 1950s I know someone who had to come back to his small town from serving his country and shoot five men

I would have to agree with you. Women from the very beginning screwed it up. Isn't that right Eve? The biblical saga always tells of women screwing things up. God foreknew this and that's why He placed the women/wife beneath a man/husband.

Good friend (male) is a senior exec. He's been at same employer for 30+ years and has a sterling reputation. He is demanding when it comes to accountability. A group of women in his organization got very upset when he fired one of their "clique" members. They conspired against him to try to get him fired.

He was accused of sexism and misogyny. Formal complaints were made to HR by multiple women. The only thing that saved him was that one of the clique had a crisis of conscience and ratted out the ringleaders for fake reports. She actually had recorded a conference call where they discussed in great detail how they were going to "get him". She played the recording for HR and saved the guy's job, family, reputation, etc. It was ridiculously easy for them to almost destroy him.

I like how this 'female' Chosenite is trying to throw all of this back on males. That if we, as males, don't voluntarily put ourselves in a one-on-one setting with a female, due to legitimate fear of this woman trying to ruin his life for her thrills, her ability to get some attention on social media, and possibly get money out it, that we are losing out on "cold hard cash".

suggesting that society as a whole loses out because it requires women doing the jobs that they only have due to affirmative action.

Yeah, this is the left, controlled by the 'Chosen'.

My boss is woke as f... and the only woman in the whole company is the receptionist.
He said that in the past they also did waste time at the workplace, but at least they were cheaper than men for the usual office stuff.

Now he has to pay them equally for the same position ... he just hires men.

I am glad about it, I would also never do any business travel with a woman, have a 1:1 meeting with one in my office... way to risky in the MeeToo era.

Heck, I do even shoo away women when I use the elevators alone with no one else around.
"Stop and sorry for the inconvenience , but I do not ride alone in elevators with a woman I do not know"

Men don't even open doors for women anymore but I observe them opening them for each other. Maybe its because they all have sex with the same prostitutes?

I don’t even talk to women in my work place. I might say a manly thing and get in trouble.

Tough. You need for us to "not ignore" you. We don't need it though.

Should have thought of it earlier. I still don't see her saying the me-too and other snowflake behavior was even overdone. With women like that, we just keep our distance!

We must have the same employer ! The only woman who works here is a receptionist as well. My boss has expressed similar sentiments.

Well there’s no point in mentoring a woman unless she’s going to blow you.

Don't hit on them but also don't ignore them?!? Getting a little picky there, huh? Just ignore women, nothing but chaos dealing with them. Not worth the hassle plus all this metoo horsesh!t, which is designed to ruin normal relationships, leading to depopulation.

Nah equality. Men have each others backs generally. Not always but i'd say more often than not. Let the woman open up her own door. As daunting a task, I suspect women can handle it.

It's just too much trouble and it's not our problem. Those are attitudes that women should understand well, because they're very common in women.

And if you're one of the good women, you'll have many better interactions with men. But you don't deserve us to go out of our way to recognize you or make sure you're not "caught up" in it. What have you done to push back against other women and protect men?

Nah, didn't think so. You're not good, you're lukewarm, which is way above average for women but still ...

Law of unintended consequences, bitches!

Kinda sick, but as one guy said in the amazon reviews, probably best the guys read this to recognize the signs, and know when they are being targeted. Heres a link to the pdf if its allowed here: [link to norskk.is]