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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69520875 Russia 05/17/2019 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look at every online space today, do people freely share information here ? Are they relaxed ? Is there a vibrancy to it anymore ? Do the people in authority behave in the best way to keep that vibrancy going or are they fucking around all over the place ? |
Polkahonkus User ID: 46574913 United States 05/17/2019 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period. Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. |
Polkahonkus User ID: 46574913 United States 05/17/2019 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period. Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. |
CSnow User ID: 74827762 United States 05/17/2019 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Women of color" Everybody is a person of color, there are no monochrome people. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76450582 If white people aren't people of color than neither are black people. Whatever color a woman is, if she is sociopolitically similar to somewhat young Candace Owens compared with tricky, cunning, unethical, old-bag liberal Hillary Clinton, the one main trait of those two makes one of them more likely to be a liar, troublemaker and slimeball. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75691392 United States 05/17/2019 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75691392 See? You just have to be assholes. It's just a fact jack. I hope I made your miserable little day today. Sure did bitch! You must lead quite a boring life. You better get to work to find yourself someone who will like you. |
Polkahonkus User ID: 46574913 United States 05/17/2019 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75691392 See? You just have to be assholes. It's just a fact jack. I hope I made your miserable little day today. Sure did bitch! You must lead quite a boring life. OK. When the cartoon sandwich makes me hungry it’s time to put the phone away and get dinner. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76782215 United States 05/17/2019 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period. Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. |
XJDUB User ID: 73274634 Canada 05/17/2019 08:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When you don't put yourself in our shoes, we say, 'It's no big deal.' When we don't put ourselves in your shoes, we never hear the fucking end of it. Let the facts fall wherever, whenever, and however they may. INTP - The Logician. 'Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.' - Albert Einstein. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75691392 United States 05/17/2019 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men aren't women. Don't be ticked off when they express themselves as men. I'm a woman who happens to really love men. I believe they are friendly and funny as hell when allowed to be in their natural element. It's only violent criminal men who need to be reigned in, in my opinion. The rest are the way they are for a reason. Superior strength, impregnating as many women as possible, and protection of territory is what they do naturally. Don't expect them to like being home with crying babies behind a deadbolt lock, with a smartphone, trying to figure out what's for dinner. They can do it, but it's not their natural state. Oh, and thanks for undoing all the progress women have made the past two or three generations by going entirely too far in making demands. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76710705 ^^^A woman who took full advantage of the "perks" she could obtain through her relationships at work. Business is to be run by the management, not the tattooed and pierced sexpots in the break room. If your place of employment isn't run by a manager who actually manages well, then leave. Women worked hard to have respect in the business world only to have fools and idiots out on the streets looking like full-on harlots complaining about men who don't deserve that broad brush. Oh please. My jobs were all professional and I'm probably older than you. It's not tattooed and pierced sex pots I'm even talking about. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77098490 United States 05/17/2019 08:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This fucking bitch can not possibly understand men in Hr-regulated workplaces. Sorry, no hand shakes, no hugs, no dinners, no travel, nothing. Definitely not in the same room as you alone. Risk: -loss of employment -lawsuit -Revocation of benefits from former employment -Possible criminal action -Record and jail time as a result of jail time -Loss of home, and everything else -etc. All because of a woman "felt" like she was harassed. Of course the court will side with her in a gynocentric world. That's why I always treat women like shit, and fuck & pump them, then ghost them worse than last months's rotting dinner leftovers. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 22653956 United States 05/17/2019 08:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good. Married men should not be having aclose relationship of any type with a woman that is not his wife. Any woman with integrity would not have a married man as her mentor. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76694357 turn about is true as well, I will never meet with my workers in my dept. alone as well, I don't need any false accusations either. |
last one I just don't give a fuck User ID: 60052792 United States 05/17/2019 08:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My bosses hired the ladies, but their asses were mine out in the field. Fired 'em all. It wasn't womens work, and everybody involved(including the women) knew it. If I'd known I was going to live this long, I would have taken better care of myself.---Grandpa Rednecks, hillbillies, and cowboys will save the nation---me I dreamed I was drinkin', woke up and I was "we put our faith in maniacs"- Lemmy Kilmister |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75691392 United States 05/17/2019 08:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This fucking bitch can not possibly understand men in Hr-regulated workplaces. Sorry, no hand shakes, no hugs, no dinners, no travel, nothing. Definitely not in the same room as you alone. Risk: -loss of employment -lawsuit -Revocation of benefits from former employment -Possible criminal action -Record and jail time as a result of jail time -Loss of home, and everything else -etc. All because of a woman "felt" like she was harassed. Of course the court will side with her in a gynocentric world. That's why I always treat women like shit, and fuck & pump them, then ghost them worse than last months's rotting dinner leftovers. And this is why islam is going to take over the west. For punishment of our stanky system. |
Just Some Chick User ID: 72757330 United States 05/17/2019 08:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period. Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. I suppose that my point is that nobody should have to leave the bar, or find a new job....It should go back to a point where a woman could get mad at the creepy guy, tell him off, and they both go their own way, rather than him getting his life ruined. It used to be that the creepy guy was simply ignored, and he would back off. Now, EVERY guy is the creepy guy trying to rape everybody, and it's bs. Feminism has ruined everything. Everybody is offended over every freaking thing. The best stories are told by the survivors. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76782215 United States 05/17/2019 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period. Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. I suppose that my point is that nobody should have to leave the bar, or find a new job....It should go back to a point where a woman could get mad at the creepy guy, tell him off, and they both go their own way, rather than him getting his life ruined. It used to be that the creepy guy was simply ignored, and he would back off. Now, EVERY guy is the creepy guy trying to rape everybody, and it's bs. Feminism has ruined everything. Everybody is offended over every freaking thing. |
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MaxHeadroomIntrusion User ID: 75227623 United States 05/17/2019 09:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period. Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. You're dreaming. None of that is accurate. That's not what happens at all. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 51586761 United States 05/17/2019 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to nypost.com (secure)] Quoting: javierruizleon "“We’re in a bad place — no one’s ever gotten promoted without a one-on-one meeting, I feel confident in saying that,” Sandberg tells “CBS This Morning” host Gayle King Friday. “Senior men right now are nine times more hesitant to travel with a woman and six times more likely to hesitate to have a work dinner.” Women — and especially women of color — don’t get the same amount of mentoring as men, “which means we’re not getting an equal seat at the table,” Sandberg says. “It’s not enough to not harass us, you need to not ignore us, either.”" Because of the way society is I won't mentor anybody of any age. It's a messed up world |
Phillip J. Fry User ID: 76390139 United States 05/17/2019 09:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Mere accusations cost you your job and reputation. No proof necessary & no recourse. Avoid the crazy. Ok, then it’ll cost you you job! . "Don't do anything that affects anything. Unless it turns out you were supposed to do it, in which case for the love of God. Don't not do it!" |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77657746 Mexico 05/17/2019 09:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to nypost.com (secure)] Quoting: javierruizleon "“We’re in a bad place — no one’s ever gotten promoted without a one-on-one meeting, I feel confident in saying that,” Sandberg tells “CBS This Morning” host Gayle King Friday. “Senior men right now are nine times more hesitant to travel with a woman and six times more likely to hesitate to have a work dinner.” Women — and especially women of color — don’t get the same amount of mentoring as men, “which means we’re not getting an equal seat at the table,” Sandberg says. “It’s not enough to not harass us, you need to not ignore us, either.”" CANT HAVE IT BOTH WAYS IDIOT!!! |