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Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: study
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Oh those poor feminists.... I've been with jerk men. I've known men who treated my women friends like crap. Guess what? I raised my standards. I stopped talking to them. I walked the hell away, out of the room. Creepy drunk guy at the bar? Either go to the other side or go to a different bar. Creepy guy at work? Find a different job. I'm not minimizing women who are really victims of rape or something...But if some guy makes a lewd comment about how you have nice boobs, walk tf away. I'm sick of women complaining about equality and then bitching that they aren't treated like women. GTFO yourselves. You can't have it both ways. Men and women are different. Period.
Quoting: Just Some Chick It’s better in rich progressive blue states. Creepy guy at a bar? Bartender sends HIM to another bar. Creepy guy at work? His female coworkers clue him in that he needs to restrain himself and if he can’t, Human Resources deals with him. Maybe HE needs to find a new job. Some guy makes a lewd comment about how you’ve got nice boobs and others in the vicinity will address that with him immediately, make sure he’s OK and knows he can’t go talking about boobs and make sure you aren’t too rattled by it. It’s really amazing how some parts of the US can be so normal and pleasant while others are so deplorable and dysfunctional. Some folks DO have it both ways—women are equal people AND no one sexually harasses or molests anyone. I didn’t even know the full extent of the misery in the Ohio River Valley until I got out of it for decades and came back. Some folks lack behind. They suffer for it too. So, you take is a step further then. If you disagree with a man's approach in a bar, you feel that it is appropriate for that person to be removed from the bar, just because you said so? Its interesting that this gets labeled "creepy" and "dysfunctional" because if the same person who approached you was a hot, dare I say it, "Chad" - you would have no problem with his approach, even if what transpired was EXACTLY the same. Going out in public, and particularly a bar, is not a guarantee that nobody will try to hit on you. If men never tried hitting on women, the human race itself would die out because there would never be any children to replace those who died. I'm not against controlling these things in places where they are wholly inappropriate but I have also found that in this day and age some women seem to have extremely low standards about what exactly "inappropriate" is.
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