Sad but true. Poor choices made seem to be a general pattern, not as often just a single accident.

Especially women are succeptable to pathologic social programming, they predominantly seek out some version of control by socially 'popular' dominating authority that tells them that they (the women) dont have to follow traditional roles that women generally are suited for emotionally and physically, so they inevitably fail but by then they end up with some mixed culture baby that a baby daddy generates before running off and the straight society is stuck paying for AND DISPITE all that sacrifice from strangers motivated by generosity that is motivated by Christian principles end up attacking exactly EVERYTHING that attempted to nurture it to productive adulthood.