I know this isn't the answer you are looking for but....

At an early age I decided that I would live my life the best way I could in accordance with Jesus' teachings.
My wife and I dated for 5 years - last year of high school and all through University before we were married and we were both virgins when we were married.
We have raised 2 boys who are now 21 and 23 and tried to teach them the best we could, showing them that dedicating your life to GOD is the best thing you can do.
Keep your nose clean and your attitude humble.
GOD has blessed us beyond measure - even though we went through some very lean times early in our marriage - 25 years later she is still my best friend.

So I guess the answer to your question would be that we bucked the trend of modern society and stuck with the 'old ways' despite criticism and some ridicule along the way.
GOD is good and will bless your intentions.