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ScrumpTheTexan Forum Administrator 05/19/2019 07:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They're assholes. I am a Christian. Christian does not equal doormat or pushover "I Have Sworn upon the Altar of God... Eternal Hostility against every form of Tyranny over the mind of man." -Thomas Jefferson, Sep. 23, 1800 The Election of Donald John Trump: [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] For previous Newsletters, click 'Scrump's News Letters' @ [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 74788550 United States 05/19/2019 07:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That's what I think... "And then there are those who refuse to say sorry because they lack empathy, and don’t actually feel sorry that you were hurt by their actions. They believe that an apology is only appropriate for situations in which they purposefully caused you harm. There’s no sorry deserved or indicated when the pain you felt was not intentionally caused and thus not “technically” their fault. Your hurt, in and of itself, has no particular value to them." |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77656938 United States 05/19/2019 08:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a friend who told me that I say sorry a lot. I told him......sorry and then.......oh shit! You are right! I resolved to correct that oversight and did. I do however refuse to apologize to someone who should apologize to me first. I did that once and the cuck acted like he was the one who was wronged when it was in fact me that was in the right all along. Nope. I refuse to apologize for someone else' bad behavior. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76945858 United States 05/19/2019 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can say I'm sorry but it's def. not easy. The right thing to do tho. I have an inlaw family member who is a chronic never sorry person who has given me so much grief over the years. I have learned to deal. Good article OP, as I was just thinking about this today, dealing with said in law. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 62403546 Canada 05/19/2019 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I believe the majority who struggle to say sorry are catholics, they only say sorry to some faceless fuck behind a flyscreen window & then told to say 20 hail mary's & all is forgiven...forget the victim Not sure if I'd pin it down to just Catholics, but the ones I'm talking about don't apologize.. like EVER |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 74788550 United States 05/19/2019 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a friend who told me that I say sorry a lot. Quoting: Osmium76 I told him......sorry and then.......oh shit! You are right! I resolved to correct that oversight and did. I do however refuse to apologize to someone who should apologize to me first. I did that once and the cuck acted like he was the one who was wronged when it was in fact me that was in the right all along. Nope. I refuse to apologize for someone else' bad behavior. lol me too... otherwise, aren't you just static and not really progressing/growing? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77656938 United States 05/19/2019 08:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a friend who told me that I say sorry a lot. Quoting: Osmium76 I told him......sorry and then.......oh shit! You are right! I resolved to correct that oversight and did. I do however refuse to apologize to someone who should apologize to me first. I did that once and the cuck acted like he was the one who was wronged when it was in fact me that was in the right all along. Nope. I refuse to apologize for someone else' bad behavior. lol me too... otherwise, aren't you just static and not really progressing/growing? There is a lot to be said about the way people communicate. I used to answer with rote when someone would ask how are you today? Now I tell them I am still on this side of the dirt, so doing better than many. How about you? Most of the time they give me a blank semi amused stare and ignore further conversation. |
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BirdMom User ID: 77595223 Panama 05/19/2019 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Another possibility other than what's been mentioned is they may have had a bad experience with an unforgiving person who's unable to graciously accept an apology, most likely a family member. There are some people, if you apologize to them, they'll view it as a weakness, a chance to get the upper hand, an opportunity to manipulate you, browbeat you into submission, and make all kinds of unreasonable demands, saying that you have to prove that you're sorry by giving up this and sacrificing that and changing this and that, and be sure to walk on egg shells and have your entire existence revolve around the person you just apologized to from now on. |