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Message Subject What's with people that never apologize?
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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Kind of interesting, as I was musing over this just recently, I found this article. There's have been many in my life that seem incapable of it. Curious of other alternative explanations as well.

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Kind of interesting, as I was musing over this just recently. There's have been many in my life that seem incapable of it. Curious of other alternatives as well.

"When it’s boiled down, the act of saying sorry is an admission of having done something wrong. For some people, admitting wrongdoing is not possible, even when they feel bad about their actions and know they are in the wrong. It’s odd to witness, but this never-sorry person can actually be remorseful while still refusing to utter the two words that would right their wrong.

To be able to admit that we’ve done something wrong requires a certain level of self-esteem or ego strength. People who are deeply insecure can find it challenging to apologize, in part because a single mistake has the power to obliterate their entire self-worth. The idea that they could make a mistake and still be a valuable and good person is unthinkable for someone whose self-esteem is severely lacking.

An apology is an admission of fallibility, which can trigger the vast reservoir of inadequacy and shame they carry, and thus threaten the fragile narrative they’ve constructed about themselves. For a person with a damaged sense of self-worth, acknowledging an error can be tantamount to annihilation."
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Thank You for sharing this! I have truly thought my whole life it was just me, that everyone had a problem with admitting they made any error or mistake and certainly I have NEVER had an apology no matter any evil shit that has been done unjustly.

I have wondered is it this species or is it just me? I have no problem admitting when I am wrong and saying I am sorry and doing whatever I can to correct it.

Wow, this post was very enlightening for me to read. Now, I know it is NOT just me, it happens to other good people as well. Thanks and God Bless You and Yours.
 
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