The first time I broke ties with my sister is when I was 18 and she was Pregnant at 13. My Parents needed my room for the babies room,( they were going to raise it, mistake #1). and my Dad gave me 30 days to move out.
Not 31 days 30.
I was lucky to be employed full time in Retail and told my Boss in my FT retail job my predicament, and he promoted me to an Assistant Manager's position that required re location to a city 5 hours away.
My sister used to pinch herself and fall down the stairs at home, run to my Dad and tell him I did it. After 10 years of this behaviour, the neighbour lady told my dad about her antics. I never got an apology from him and my Mother told me about it after he died of Cancer. I was never given a full apology, but what the hell. Life goes on.
My sister finally found someone dumb enough to marry her at 18, and at her wedding reception, she went behind my back telling my Dad that I was calling him weak and stupid for his support of her marriage.
I found out from my cousin and confronted her and my Father about it and I did get a sort of, "sorry son" out of it.
After my Father died I waited until my Mother's dementia got worse so after paying for a retirement village for six years, 70 % of the cost out of my pocket. I moved my Mother across Country and into my house,( That I re modelled for her accommodation with my own money), and my Mother lived with my wife and I for 9 years.
I had noticed that during the 9 years, I got no help from anybody in helping with my Mother's care. ( My sister wrote me a $200 check that bounced), and all our Relatives were not calling any more to speak to me about my Mother, or for anything else.
Come to find out,(from my same cousin that committed suicide by cop), years later. My sister was relaying tales of abuse from my wife and I that were out and out lies, because of her jealousy about my Mom living with me and not her.
I cut off all ties after my sister called me crying about her Daughter,( she had 3 Miscarriages), who was on the run from the F.B.I. I received calls from the Bureau for 4 years about her where abouts, and again found out my Sister had received a letter in which my Niece had told her that I sexually abused her and forced her to write bad checks.
Of course The F.B.I traced all mail that my sister had gotten for 4 years and a letter supposedly from my niece, in Las Vegas, her daughter, was a complete lie.
The F.B.I. found no letter, after tracing all letters, telegrams, Western Union, etc... from anyone even resembling any territory in or out of the United States,( my sister said she destroyed the letter in order to protect me).After 4 years of questioning my niece was busted in a Meth Raid and all the truth did come out.
This was 9 years ago. My sister has made several attempts to contact me and I will not resume any correspondence with her and never will. My Mother died 3 years ago, and all kinds of nasty rumours began circulating about me from you know who. I ignore them and her.
My life has almost returned to normal and I couldn't be happier and my wife and I have enjoyed 9 years of peace and quiet, I will never talk to my sister again.
If you side with my sister on this, may God help you. I don't want or need this kind of person around me, ever.
Jesus Christ protects those who Pray to him and genuinely need the Saints help.
Thank you God for my Faith and Intervention.