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Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..

 
Anonymous Coward
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
First dont keep it a secret. Someone has to know aside from the two of you for your own protection in case something should happen and if she was playing a 'game' that it wont be hidden. She could have been BSing too as she knew it...ah, pressed for time right now. I dont think it is enough to walk away thou.

As an aside, my belief is that something like this is an internal issue, meaning an argument, or issues like that dont make people do that. Sounds like your problems are minor, look at all the homeless people who do not kill themselves.
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The human brain can be hacked by screen flashes. They were able to do this 40 years ago to a limited extent. Today, they have near total control.

If your chick is on FB a lot or screens, she is slowly having suicidal thoughts downloaded into her subconscious mind. As are all of us.

Consider her the canary in the coal mine.
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Must be horrible as a man when a woman would rather jump from a 3rd floor apt bldg (possibly breaking her ankle) than be in the same room with him. Wow. What a mind fuck. Drama drama drama
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
If I was you...I would just leave and never return.

You have only one life...one chance...at happiness.
Dont waste it and throw it away on a nutter.

Dont be fooled by emotions and curves.

Been there done it learnt the hard way.

RUN..WHILE YOU STILL CAN.
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i agree...there is something wrong with her if she went there.
thats not good and she WILL use it again because it worked THIS time.

get away OP.
im telling you now, just let her go on.
this will only get worse.
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hmm....I'm not trying to be callous, but could she be premenstrual and her hormones are running amuck, making her batshit?
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Nah, she's about 1.5 week after her last period. How do I know this? I like to know this because we don't want to have children and the more I know about her body the more I am in control
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Okay....but it does sound like you two need to go your separate ways. Not because she thought about killing herself, but because you guys argue so much and to the point she wants to kill herself.

Neither of you need that kind of bullshit in your lives....and you're both responsible, if you don't do something fast.
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Shitty situation. I really love her. I care about her. Maybe I should take some professional help? Jesus, it drives me insane, I really want to spend my life with her. I wish there were some cure, some fix.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


She is too unstable or insecure to deal with loss of job. Women need financial security in a man, as basic as men needing good looks in a woman
But life won’t always be smooth sailing. How she reacted here gives you a clear idea of how your life together would go, her not able to deal with adverse situations in life is not what you should want in a partner.
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
OK. I am older, I know exactly what your situation is about. She is trying to control your actions through making you fear she will do something drastic. I knew a guy who was suffering like this. In their fights, she would hit herself, she would try to open the door on the car and threaten to jump, she would grab the steering wheel at high speeds to try to direct the car into a tree or wall. If at home, The police would show up at the house over the fighting, and he would get a lecture or threatened with arrest because the wife would punch herself or smack herself to make it look like he was an abuser. He has been alone for many years now in an apartment. He is my friend, since we were teens.

If you want to save your own mental health, I am sorry, but you really need to get out. Look, this guy loved his wife too. But you are NOT married. The legal aspects are different for married people. When people do this stuff, they HARM everyone including any children. Plus, it may result in "trying to escape" through hard drinking, etc. There will be, in the end, no reconciliation, that is a pipe dream. He was brave in facing the fact that his life would now result in being lonely. But his sanity is still intact. His wife, she is now morbidly sick from obesity because food became the escape mechanism. So bad, that she has been warned that death is near, having reached the stage of having to use one of those scooters because she can no longer walk. It is a form of suicide by the mentally ill. Many are like this. Men drink themselves to death, women eat themselves to death, first to "punish" then to die by what I call "Suicide by slow vices". Get out, try to be at peace. Peace is more important.
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
what was the argument about?
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My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


She's right. You're a millennial snowflake who quits a job because he doesn't like it. She realized she has no future with someone like you. Real men keep working ... even while looking for a new job. She realized that you're not a real man who can be relied upon and that she just wasted several years of her life in a dead-end relationship.
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Yes, so maybe threatening to jump out the window was a way to show him how drastically important financial security and him having a job and their future children not starving is to her. And not something she would do again, just an impulse.
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It seems that people are more apt to die by suicide now than 30 or 40 years ago. Don't know if it just seems that way because we hear more about it bc of the internet, or if it's become an epidemic. I'm sure the numbers have gone up in recent years compared to when I was a kid though.

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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
Today she told me that if I won't find job in 3 months she will kill herself. Seriously. I wish I was making all this stuff up but no. She also told me that for the last few months she was trying to be cold on purpose because it was SO HURTFUL for her to make our relationship better, closer.

When I read what I am writing to you I see what a dumb person I am. I am fucking silly. I have no words for my behaviour.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200



Both are manipulation.

Ring the suicide hotline NOW. Tell them what's going on.

By doing that, you'll soon know if she's for real or not.

Either way, I'd be out of there, and like others said, read up on narcissism.

hf
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
move into a high rise apartment at least 20 th floor

3 floors is not high enough she will just cripple herself and you will end up feeding her thru a straw

maybe think about getting a life insurance policy for her

you could walk away from this a rich single man
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lmao
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06/18/2019 07:36 AM
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Next she will be calling the cops saying you abused her, shes a crazy bitch, toss her
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hesright

it will be her word versus yours

who do you think the cops will believe
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06/18/2019 07:38 AM
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So tell us about her mom OP. If her mom is on her 3rd husband and a nut case, well... I find the apple don't fall far from the tree.
Perhaps she is mad you are not paying all the rent not just half...
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Her mom is ok, dad too. There are many things I don't tell you but now I see some schemes. She is manipulative, always was, I remember few situtations before we were living in the same apartment for example: she asked me if she can come to my place - I said to her that I don't have time because I have deadline in work and I need to finish project for tomorrow. Then she started to say things like she won't be a problem and when I said that I need to focus on project today then she started to write smses, calling me, crying and saying things like 'another man would be glad the she want to come for a visit'. Mental games. And worse and worse. She is very jelous. I am normal guy, I guess something like 6-7/10. Nothing special but girls like me. There were many times when some girl talked to me in pub and my girfriend was jelous and she wasn't talking me for days.


OK. Enough drama. I won't waste my life, I promised myself this. I told the whole situation to our good friend (just in case if there need to be some witness). On Friday I am moving out. I paid half of my rent. I will stay in my friend's flat for few days till I find something.

The thing is that my girlfriend wasn't mad about this but I guess this isn't the end. She will be back soon and I guess there will be some mental games. But fuck this, I rather be alone than spend another week in situation like this.

Seriously, I don't know what is happening right now, maybe she is already banging some dude and all the drama is to make me move out. Nevermind. It's right thing to do.

I am 32, shes 28. I am not that old, I can find decent girl in the future. Thanks GLP. I will inform you how things are. Wish me that nothing bad happen in the coming days.

My heart is broken but I can't live like this. This is mental prison for me, I lost many friends because of her, I am more sad person. Enough!
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06/18/2019 07:39 AM
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SHORT TERM: call the suicide hotline and explain the situation, see what they can advise.

MEDIUM TERM: make a good faith attempt to try and get her some help.

LONG TERM: run like hell away from her, she is only going to bring excessive drama and misery into your life
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
I am a mess right now. I have girlfriend for 5 years, we have our ups and downs, be argue a lot. I thought this is normal couple fights but today, after 20 minutes arguing she ran to the window, opened it and wanted to jump.. quickly I was near the window and I grabbed her. SHe was crying, shaking. Seriously, wtf.. ;/

After some time she said she is sorry and that will never happen again. I am devasted. I seriously think she has some mental issues. This wasn't normal. I AM NOT SURE THAT IF I DIDN'T MAKE A MOVE SHE WOULDN'T JUMP... This was so real!! Jesus! :(


She's sleeping right now. And I am nervous like never before. Jumping out of the window? We live on 3rd floor..

What should I do? Please, forum trolls, don't answer. I am expecting serious answers..
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get a basement apartment, because now that she knows this works it is for ever. The children will also pick it up !
peace
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06/18/2019 07:41 AM
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
Love really is blind,
look around you, do you see any "healthy" relationships,
respect for saying that you really want to be with this girl even after all this..

don't listen to the haters here, they are just lonely hypocrites. If you really love this girl, try to understand her. We don't know, it could be her way of expressing her undying love for you, like some sort of romantic drama, romeo and juliet kinda thing..

Always try to see all sides of a situation.
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
is there such a thing as a mentally stable woman in 2019. all seem unhinged
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06/18/2019 08:31 AM
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Run like a wind!
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Creepy dude, just creepy..
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DOOM ON hiding
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bump
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Threatening suicide is just another manipulation in the bag of tricks. Been through it, my ex passively threatened suicide a number of times over the years. Usually came down to she didn't like how an argument/discussion was going, so using that threat changed the focus.

Manipulates the situation. Once that cat is out of the bag, you can't put it back in, if you stay with her it'll be in the back of your head anytime you argue about anything. It'll be there when she is depressed and doesn't want to talk.

OP, you're doing the right thing getting out. Don't look back, and don't listen when she calls in a week and says everything is great and she misses you.

Tigers can't change their stripes.
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
Love really is blind,
look around you, do you see any "healthy" relationships,
respect for saying that you really want to be with this girl even after all this..

don't listen to the haters here, they are just lonely hypocrites. If you really love this girl, try to understand her. We don't know, it could be her way of expressing her undying love for you, like some sort of romantic drama, romeo and juliet kinda thing..

Always try to see all sides of a situation.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77739495
NO, threatening suicide is a manipulation used by manipulative people. It isn't healthy, it isn't romantic, and it's no different than a man threatening to punch his wife/gf.

Fuck out of here with the unicorns shooting rainbows "love is blind" bullshit.

Would you recommend a woman staying with a man who threatened to beat her? Would you say that he was just "expressing his undying love" for her?
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
Must be horrible as a man when a woman would rather jump from a 3rd floor apt bldg (possibly breaking her ankle) than be in the same room with him. Wow. What a mind fuck. Drama drama drama
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Think how recently it was that humans were able to fly that they still keep trying to get aloft whenever they are suffering.
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
what was the argument about?
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My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.
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hmm....I'm not trying to be callous, but could she be premenstrual and her hormones are running amuck, making her batshit?
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Nah, she's about 1.5 week after her last period. How do I know this? I like to know this because we don't want to have children and the more I know about her body the more I am in control
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


Are you saying this happened day eleven of her cycle when she was ovulating? Seriously, read about histamine.

Is she lean like a greyhound, very smart and driven and a little bit obsessive. Has fun in bed and orgasms on a hairtrigger, like all it takes is to breathe on her neck?

If you like her, you really want to understand what goes on with her.

What’s her ancestry?

The first thing she needs to do is start eating very clean. Off all processed foods and for now off all high histamine foods—off seedy things like corn or strawberries. Meat, eggs, vegetables, yoghurt.

Antihistamine Medicine is not the way to go except in emergency. A Benadryl might calm her but you want to do some research and decide am natural remedy.
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It’s pronounced Pocahonky
Or Pokeyhonkus
Or Pokey
Or Pocus
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what was the argument about?
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My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


Her friend is the problem.

Stirring her up with BS.

‘Friend’ needs to go.
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life is short.
dump her.
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Re: Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..
I am a mess right now. I have girlfriend for 5 years, we have our ups and downs, be argue a lot. I thought this is normal couple fights but today, after 20 minutes arguing she ran to the window, opened it and wanted to jump.. quickly I was near the window and I grabbed her. SHe was crying, shaking. Seriously, wtf.. ;/

After some time she said she is sorry and that will never happen again. I am devasted. I seriously think she has some mental issues. This wasn't normal. I AM NOT SURE THAT IF I DIDN'T MAKE A MOVE SHE WOULDN'T JUMP... This was so real!! Jesus! :(


She's sleeping right now. And I am nervous like never before. Jumping out of the window? We live on 3rd floor..

What should I do? Please, forum trolls, don't answer. I am expecting serious answers..
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You'll find nobody could care less.
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I am a mess right now. I have girlfriend for 5 years, we have our ups and downs, be argue a lot. I thought this is normal couple fights but today, after 20 minutes arguing she ran to the window, opened it and wanted to jump.. quickly I was near the window and I grabbed her. SHe was crying, shaking. Seriously, wtf.. ;/

After some time she said she is sorry and that will never happen again. I am devasted. I seriously think she has some mental issues. This wasn't normal. I AM NOT SURE THAT IF I DIDN'T MAKE A MOVE SHE WOULDN'T JUMP... This was so real!! Jesus! :(


She's sleeping right now. And I am nervous like never before. Jumping out of the window? We live on 3rd floor..

What should I do? Please, forum trolls, don't answer. I am expecting serious answers..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


I think everything is fine but just stop arguing with her, it is not manly. Instead act, make decisions, even if it is unexpected and confront her with fait accompli. This way you will show that you are the man and in control and that will substantially reduce her stress and will make her to rely on you and you can enjoy your relationship.
You can handle the truth at your own risk. Lust for power exposes the slave.
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OP, hows things?
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