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Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..

 
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Let her. If she flies she will come back. If not then she wasnt meant for you.
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OK, so here is the news. I am out. I moved out. On the last weekend I took all my things, I paid everything I should pay and that's it..
Seriously, I love this girl more than anyone else, she's great girl but she has issues. I know that if we would stay living like this something bad would happen, that's for sure.

Her family took care of her, she won't be alone. I know that she signed in for a therapy. That's best news so far.

And what's next? God only knows. I love her and if everything would be ok I would marry this girl. But there are many problems which can be fixed. I am optymistic.


FOR SURE I won't see her, call her for the next few weeks. I need to take care of my life, find good job, take care of my health, visit some old friends. My life is a mess right now but I was brave enough to move out and try again. I refuse to be a man who argue all the time. I want to be happy, I want to be stronger each and every day. We need a break, we need to be at peace.


I don't say that we won't be together - I know that I don't want another girl because I love her. We were together 5 years and they were full of love and joy but some parts were terrible. So I will try to fix all bad things and see what's next. Maybe we will be together, maybe not.

For the next few months I want to stay single and take care of myself. This was the hardest thing for me to end this relationship but I wish her all the best, I wish all the best for me. My heart isn't broken that much because when we saw each other last time we hugged ourselves, we kissed, we said to each other we love each other so much and that we will see what happen next.

I love her the most and because of this I wish her to recover soon, to have good life. If I would be egoist I would do anything to be together but this would end bad now. We need time, we need therapy, we need to take a breath, pray and see what's next.



Thanks all for the support! Seriously... I don't know that if I wouldn't post here I would move out on my own.. I am alone in apartment, I miss her, I love her but if I ever wanna to be with her we need time, we need cure, we need to do good things. And we will!!

Thanks
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06/25/2019 08:49 AM
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Are you retarded?

No phone calls.

Worse is when you both want to have sex.

It is a trap.

No Phone Calls!!!!
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06/25/2019 08:50 AM
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Are you retarded?

No phone calls.

Worse is when you both want to have sex.

It is a trap.

No Phone Calls!!!!
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Change your phone number, today.
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Thanks for the update and sharing your story.
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06/25/2019 09:10 AM
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OMG it's good to live alone. :)

Lovely weather today.

cool2
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06/25/2019 09:15 AM
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Thanks for the update and sharing your story.
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No problem. I feel very weird without her. I seriously thought that I would be crying all the time, that I would be devasted. But I love her and I know that break would help us. Help us as people. I don't know if we will be together. If suddenly she would be cured of her issues and I would take care of my things then there is nothing that could stop us from being together. But reality is different.

I am glad that I know some couples who refused to change bad things and they are staying in the same shit over and over. Police come, police go, alcohol, drugs...

I don't want this! I feel like I stopped wicked in the right time! We spent together 5 years but if we ever wanna to try again and be together for the rest of our lives we need to repair our lifes and then maybe...


I just wish I had my head clear right now to start building new life but you know that's not easy. I thing about her, I care about her and I wish her all the best. God will help me, I am sure he will!
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OMG it's good to live alone. :)

Lovely weather today.

cool2
 Quoting: Accidental Stoner 77022301


I was living alone few years, it isn't bad :) I am not a dude who need to be in relationship. I have now time to seek new job, maybe even stary new rock bad (I play guitar). I need to hit a gym and start running again. Many things to do!
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06/25/2019 09:38 AM
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Nah, she's about 1.5 week after her last period. How do I know this? I like to know this because we don't want to have children and the more I know about her body the more I am in control
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Okay....but it does sound like you two need to go your separate ways. Not because she thought about killing herself, but because you guys argue so much and to the point she wants to kill herself.

Neither of you need that kind of bullshit in your lives....and you're both responsible, if you don't do something fast.
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Shitty situation. I really love her. I care about her. Maybe I should take some professional help? Jesus, it drives me insane, I really want to spend my life with her. I wish there were some cure, some fix.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


She needs help, not you. You're just stupid bc pussy. You'd better walk away if you have any common sense. She's bad news.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4939650


Her guilt trip seems to be working on you. She appears to be more worried about your revenue stream than you. She must also not have much confidence in you to land another job.

Just don't commit to any long term relationship and see if you can work it out since you care about her so much.

Be ready to back a way from the relationship. Granted, there is give in take in any relationship but she seems to be over the edge.

PS: Hide the knives too.
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Okay....but it does sound like you two need to go your separate ways. Not because she thought about killing herself, but because you guys argue so much and to the point she wants to kill herself.

Neither of you need that kind of bullshit in your lives....and you're both responsible, if you don't do something fast.
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Shitty situation. I really love her. I care about her. Maybe I should take some professional help? Jesus, it drives me insane, I really want to spend my life with her. I wish there were some cure, some fix.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


She needs help, not you. You're just stupid bc pussy. You'd better walk away if you have any common sense. She's bad news.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4939650


Her guilt trip seems to be working on you. She appears to be more worried about your revenue stream than you. She must also not have much confidence in you to land another job.

Just don't commit to any long term relationship and see if you can work it out since you care about her so much.

Be ready to back a way from the relationship. Granted, there is give in take in any relationship but she seems to be over the edge.

PS: Hide the knives too.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69952205


I posted above before reading all of the prior pages. I would delete my post but was not logged in.

Glad you moved out.
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Not that it should actually matter to you, but human to human, I'm proud of you.

You chose the high road - sometimes like right now, not the easiest road - and you are practicing maturity and integrity, and I'm just damn proud of you.

Do you realize you're one in a million?....ohyeah

At least in my eyes you are!


As far as the feeling weird without her goes, that will lessen as the days go by.

Just stick to your resolve, and you'll see your life blossom right before your eyes....hf
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under wandering stars I've grown,
by myself, but not alone...

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OMG it's good to live alone. :)

Lovely weather today.

cool2
 Quoting: Accidental Stoner 77022301


I was living alone few years, it isn't bad :) I am not a dude who need to be in relationship. I have now time to seek new job, maybe even stary new rock bad (I play guitar). I need to hit a gym and start running again. Many things to do!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


thumbs

Well, on the other hand, it's cheap and easy for me to say...
I'm hitting the age when testosterone levels quite noticeably
drop by the month.

I don't mind at all, though.
So good to lead a drama-free life. :)
Good trade-off, methinks.

chuckle

I like the "start new rock band" part thumbs
Do it!

cheers
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hmm....I'm not trying to be callous, but could she be premenstrual and her hormones are running amuck, making her batshit?
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Nah, she's about 1.5 week after her last period. How do I know this? I like to know this because we don't want to have children and the more I know about her body the more I am in control
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200



Okay....but it does sound like you two need to go your separate ways. Not because she thought about killing herself, but because you guys argue so much and to the point she wants to kill herself.

Neither of you need that kind of bullshit in your lives....and you're both responsible, if you don't do something fast.
 Quoting: cosmicgypsy

Shitty situation. I really love her. I care about her. Maybe I should take some professional help? Jesus, it drives me insane, I really want to spend my life with her. I wish there were some cure, some fix.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


The right decisions are given by the name you mentioned. Learn that and you won't be asking GLP for relationship advice, unless of course it's the correct path to truth.

I was with a girl for 8 years and we fought like cats and dogs. I didn't see the right course of action until I had completely sabotaged muy life and the relationship. Don't make the same mistake I did. Pray about it. Talk to her. Tell her how you really feel.

God bless.
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06/25/2019 10:04 AM
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Are you retarded?

No phone calls.

Worse is when you both want to have sex.

It is a trap.

No Phone Calls!!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75679102


If she wants you back and is manipulative wouldn't be surprised for her to come up pregnant. Then you are tied to her in some form for 18 years at least and would be agony raising a child together as it is now.
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06/25/2019 10:08 AM
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And what's next? God only knows. I love her and if everything would be ok I would marry this girl. But there are many problems which can be fixed. I am optymistic.

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200




Stop deluding yourself.

This woman is hard-wired for crazy

DETACH and don't look back

You're just trying to tell yourself you're still a good person for leaving her. YOU DIDN'T DO IT FOR HER! YOU DID IT FOR YOU!!


The memories will fade and you will meet someone else you deserve and forget the crazy that almost ruined your life.
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I am very impressed by you. First, loving another person is not easy. You BOTH have issues or you wouldn't be human. EVERYONE fights, there is no such thing as happy ever after. You've expressed so much love for this woman, and I don't doubt that you do love her. She's very lucky. So are YOU. The important thing is what happened between I love you to wanting to jump out a window. That's the issue here. What made you fall in love with her is still there. Believe me, you will never find another person exactly like her again. If you're willing to loose her for another new partner with new and perhaps more serious issues. I hope that you put yourself in her shoes just for a while, leaving is so easy now days. There's no security in a relationship anymore. Other woman may show attention to you or men to her. The most important thing to remember is letting your partner know without any doubt that no one could take their place. Not for nothin,stayin out of places where single people are looking to hook up is no place to be if you're devoted to someone that you say that you love like no other.If you can't look at your issues, than maybe a dog would be a nice companion.Yet even a dog will bite if you abuse it. Five years in, don't give up. Listen to your heart and stop lookin for strangers to advise you. This is your relationship, go fix it.
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I am very impressed by you. First, loving another person is not easy. You BOTH have issues or you wouldn't be human. EVERYONE fights, there is no such thing as happy ever after. You've expressed so much love for this woman, and I don't doubt that you do love her. She's very lucky. So are YOU. The important thing is what happened between I love you to wanting to jump out a window. That's the issue here. What made you fall in love with her is still there. Believe me, you will never find another person exactly like her again. If you're willing to loose her for another new partner with new and perhaps more serious issues. I hope that you put yourself in her shoes just for a while, leaving is so easy now days. There's no security in a relationship anymore. Other woman may show attention to you or men to her. The most important thing to remember is letting your partner know without any doubt that no one could take their place. Not for nothin,stayin out of places where single people are looking to hook up is no place to be if you're devoted to someone that you say that you love like no other.If you can't look at your issues, than maybe a dog would be a nice companion.Yet even a dog will bite if you abuse it. Five years in, don't give up. Listen to your heart and stop lookin for strangers to advise you. This is your relationship, go fix it.
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Thank you for these words. Now I am drinking beers, watching some tv series, trying to forget about all of this because it isn't easy. But tomorrow I will be stronger, I promised this to myself. I have one life, one opportunity. I don't need to be in mental prison for the rest of my life. I wanna to be happy!
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Come off it OP

You cut your financial expenses by picking a fight with a woman you can’t afford now and sending her back to her parents.

shed be a fool to take you back.

You both sound hysterical. Are you Indian? I’m just curious.
1/4 German, 1/172 Iroquois

It’s pronounced Pocahonky
Or Pokeyhonkus
Or Pokey
Or Pocus
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06/25/2019 01:36 PM
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Stick it in her butt & give her a lollipop.
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Good for you!5a
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Pics or it didn't happen. Live stream it on your FaceTime next time.
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Dump her.

Manipulative mentally unstable people are hell.

You do not want this woman as a mother to your children.

Call her parents, get her committed to a psyche ward and

DUMP HER ASS.

I am serious.

When you meet a nice sane woman to settle with you will be thankful.

Do not kid yourself. Suicide threats are purely about trying to control you. She would sooner die then let you have agency. Think on that.
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I am very impressed by you. First, loving another person is not easy. You BOTH have issues or you wouldn't be human. EVERYONE fights, there is no such thing as happy ever after. You've expressed so much love for this woman, and I don't doubt that you do love her. She's very lucky. So are YOU. The important thing is what happened between I love you to wanting to jump out a window. That's the issue here. What made you fall in love with her is still there. Believe me, you will never find another person exactly like her again. If you're willing to loose her for another new partner with new and perhaps more serious issues. I hope that you put yourself in her shoes just for a while, leaving is so easy now days. There's no security in a relationship anymore. Other woman may show attention to you or men to her. The most important thing to remember is letting your partner know without any doubt that no one could take their place. Not for nothin,stayin out of places where single people are looking to hook up is no place to be if you're devoted to someone that you say that you love like no other.If you can't look at your issues, than maybe a dog would be a nice companion.Yet even a dog will bite if you abuse it. Five years in, don't give up. Listen to your heart and stop lookin for strangers to advise you. This is your relationship, go fix it.
 Quoting: odiecody 68643560


Thank you for these words. Now I am drinking beers, watching some tv series, trying to forget about all of this because it isn't easy. But tomorrow I will be stronger, I promised this to myself. I have one life, one opportunity. I don't need to be in mental prison for the rest of my life. I wanna to be happy!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


Good for you.

Don't listen to that idiot.

You owe her nothing.


You tried.


That drama shit aint worth it.


People who are nice and sane deserve a chance. Not the crazies.
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bump
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I am very impressed by you. First, loving another person is not easy. You BOTH have issues or you wouldn't be human. EVERYONE fights, there is no such thing as happy ever after. You've expressed so much love for this woman, and I don't doubt that you do love her. She's very lucky. So are YOU. The important thing is what happened between I love you to wanting to jump out a window. That's the issue here. What made you fall in love with her is still there. Believe me, you will never find another person exactly like her again. If you're willing to loose her for another new partner with new and perhaps more serious issues. I hope that you put yourself in her shoes just for a while, leaving is so easy now days. There's no security in a relationship anymore. Other woman may show attention to you or men to her. The most important thing to remember is letting your partner know without any doubt that no one could take their place. Not for nothin,stayin out of places where single people are looking to hook up is no place to be if you're devoted to someone that you say that you love like no other.If you can't look at your issues, than maybe a dog would be a nice companion.Yet even a dog will bite if you abuse it. Five years in, don't give up. Listen to your heart and stop lookin for strangers to advise you. This is your relationship, go fix it.
 Quoting: odiecody 68643560


Thank you for these words. Now I am drinking beers, watching some tv series, trying to forget about all of this because it isn't easy. But tomorrow I will be stronger, I promised this to myself. I have one life, one opportunity. I don't need to be in mental prison for the rest of my life. I wanna to be happy!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


Good for you.

Don't listen to that idiot.

You owe her nothing.


You tried.


That drama shit aint worth it.


People who are nice and sane deserve a chance. Not the crazies.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77729402


rofl where are they?
Anonymous Coward
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Great on you man! I am sitting here 18 yrs after my girlfriend at the time threatened to throw herself out of a moving car over something very minimal. Not even a full blown argument.

Well, now we are getting divorced with a 6yr old and she is not getting the money she wants. So, long story short it looks like we are going to court and she has been telling everyone that I have abused her and that she will get everything!

The crazy only gets worse with time. I like you thought I loved her and took HER abuse, manipulation, and cheating over all the years because I thought I loved her. And I do still in a way especially since we share a child. But I saw the writing on the wall earlier and didn't have the resolve to do what you have done.

Stick with it!
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Great on you man! I am sitting here 18 yrs after my girlfriend at the time threatened to throw herself out of a moving car over something very minimal. Not even a full blown argument.

Well, now we are getting divorced with a 6yr old and she is not getting the money she wants. So, long story short it looks like we are going to court and she has been telling everyone that I have abused her and that she will get everything!

The crazy only gets worse with time. I like you thought I loved her and took HER abuse, manipulation, and cheating over all the years because I thought I loved her. And I do still in a way especially since we share a child. But I saw the writing on the wall earlier and didn't have the resolve to do what you have done.

Stick with it!
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Love is a mystery, isn't it?
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what was the argument about?
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My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.
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You don't have a job therefore she doesn't have her freedom to get cock on the side and do what she wants.

Basically she wants your financial support and distance so she can have her freedoms.
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what was the argument about?
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My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77484200


She's right. You're a millennial snowflake who quits a job because he doesn't like it. She realized she has no future with someone like you. Real men keep working ... even while looking for a new job. She realized that you're not a real man who can be relied upon and that she just wasted several years of her life in a dead-end relationship.
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Dumbass he is paying all the bills with money he saved.

He's going through a career change idiot.

She is selfish and wants to go party with her friends or meet up with Chad while he's at work.

That's the bottom line.

She wants his financial support without him being there so she can have her freedoms.

She's tired of him being around her so much right now.