Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..

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If I was you...I would just leave and never return.

You have only one life...one chance...at happiness.
Dont waste it and throw it away on a nutter.

Dont be fooled by emotions and curves.

Been there done it learnt the hard way.

RUN..WHILE YOU STILL CAN.

Today she told me that if I won't find job in 3 months she will kill herself. Seriously. I wish I was making all this stuff up but no. She also told me that for the last few months she was trying to be cold on purpose because it was SO HURTFUL for her to make our relationship better, closer.

When I read what I am writing to you I see what a dumb person I am. I am fucking silly. I have no words for my behaviour.

I am a mess right now. I have girlfriend for 5 years, we have our ups and downs, be argue a lot. I thought this is normal couple fights but today, after 20 minutes arguing she ran to the window, opened it and wanted to jump.. quickly I was near the window and I grabbed her. SHe was crying, shaking. Seriously, wtf.. ;/

After some time she said she is sorry and that will never happen again. I am devasted. I seriously think she has some mental issues. This wasn't normal. I AM NOT SURE THAT IF I DIDN'T MAKE A MOVE SHE WOULDN'T JUMP... This was so real!! Jesus! :(


She's sleeping right now. And I am nervous like never before. Jumping out of the window? We live on 3rd floor..

What should I do? Please, forum trolls, don't answer. I am expecting serious answers..

Read the narcissist threads. If she is one, get away fast and don't look back.

If she is just mental, then try counseling. Just remember that, unless you deliberately do something to hurt her, you are not responsible for her actions. She needs to learn to make sound decisions not rash hurtful decisions. If she seeks to bring harm to herself, she has issues that you cannot blame yourself for.

Gotta go. Good luck to you. I hope it works out.

Next she will be calling the cops saying you abused her, shes a crazy bitch, toss her

I am a mess right now. I have girlfriend for 5 years, we have our ups and downs, be argue a lot. I thought this is normal couple fights but today, after 20 minutes arguing she ran to the window, opened it and wanted to jump.. quickly I was near the window and I grabbed her. SHe was crying, shaking. Seriously, wtf.. ;/

After some time she said she is sorry and that will never happen again. I am devasted. I seriously think she has some mental issues. This wasn't normal. I AM NOT SURE THAT IF I DIDN'T MAKE A MOVE SHE WOULDN'T JUMP... This was so real!! Jesus! :(


She's sleeping right now. And I am nervous like never before. Jumping out of the window? We live on 3rd floor..

What should I do? Please, forum trolls, don't answer. I am expecting serious answers..

My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.

....I'm not trying to be callous, but could she be premenstrual and her hormones are running amuck, making her batshit?

Damn! glp's answer to all relationships is 'Run!'
lot a lonely peeps here i guess