Love really is blind,
look around you, do you see any "healthy" relationships,
respect for saying that you really want to be with this girl even after all this..

don't listen to the haters here, they are just lonely hypocrites. If you really love this girl, try to understand her. We don't know, it could be her way of expressing her undying love for you, like some sort of romantic drama, romeo and juliet kinda thing..

Always try to see all sides of a situation.