My 10 year old Daughter just said she is bisexual?! | |
MissCleo User ID: 77082640 United States 06/17/2019 10:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My daughter told me, painfully, she was bi right before 9th grade started....I think she was about 14. I told her I loved her anyways....I love the person, not the sin. She was quite relieved....like she expected me to freak out or something, but I had already lived through a marriage (heterosexual, or so I thought). Quoting: Maiya She is now 26 and clearly bi. Where did she get this from? The internet, plus her biological father is gay. The apple does not fall far from the tree. I cannot help her...she has to go through her own deal...as I did. I am not gay in anyway...but we all struggle with our own vices. I refuse to judge anybody...best I can. Blessings to you, you’re a wonderful mother! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52923498 United States 06/17/2019 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In the event this is not corrected and spirals over the years, take care of your own baby. This is not your kid... you have a lot you can say and do to try to eductae and influence her, but if mom or dad influences her another way, and If it cycles, just make sure not to put your own baby into any questionable shit situations- letting her words influence your kid. Gay/Bi is one thing. The culture is something else entirely. But at 10, she really has no idea what she’s even talking about. I say it’s a dumb phase of trying to be cool and different. Show her other ways to express individualism. |
Renaissance Woman User ID: 74808330 United States 06/17/2019 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My daughter is 13. We homeschool. We have noticed that some of her younger friends in the neighborhood or other activities (the ones who are around age 10 and in public school) are confused because they have friends who are girls -- you know, like a good old fashioned best friend. Yes, they love that girl, and they get confused if that means they are gay or bi. And of course they're not really into boys yet, so they don't understand the whole preference thing. Quoting: Renaissance Woman They love their best girl friend but not the icky boys yet, so what does that mean? They ask my daughter about this, since she is "older". Yes, kids that age are confused that having a friend the same sex means they are gay. Seriously. We don't notice these issues or questions with the homeschool friends. Home School leads to freaks look at the DUGGERS! When you have kids, you are going to regret ever saying that. Home Schooling is the smartest thing to do in a time like this. Both of my kids have never been to a public school, and you wouldn't believe the compliments I get from so many people out in public stating how well behaved and polite they are. This has been my experience with my daughter and with other homeschool families I know. "For with thee is the fountain of life: in thy light shall we see light." |
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LittleMe I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 76095636 United States 06/17/2019 11:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My daughter told me, painfully, she was bi right before 9th grade started....I think she was about 14. I told her I loved her anyways....I love the person, not the sin. She was quite relieved....like she expected me to freak out or something, but I had already lived through a marriage (heterosexual, or so I thought). Quoting: Maiya She is now 26 and clearly bi. Where did she get this from? The internet, plus her biological father is gay. The apple does not fall far from the tree. I cannot help her...she has to go through her own deal...as I did. I am not gay in anyway...but we all struggle with our own vices. I refuse to judge anybody...best I can. Blessings to you, you’re a wonderful mother! |
psyoptics User ID: 76886181 United States 06/17/2019 11:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | !!!!!!! OMG your 10 year old is having SEX!!!!!! with several different people? I would be more up set about that then the Bi thing...... because outside of the twisted Liberal-LALA-land. Bisexual means you are actively having sex with both males and females. relax....this is just trendy things in schools. I now you daughter is not having sex yet. we are not helping our children learn how to have a loving/ caring relationship with friends anymore. girls can have BFF's and not have a sexual relationship with them....same goes for boys. a good video editor can make anyone say anything the editor wants. |
WalrusRider User ID: 413488 United States 06/17/2019 11:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's only 10. It's not too late to save her, but she needs to be totally disconnected from public school, LGBT-friendly media, and any friends that will corrupt her. All billionaires, banksters, and people in high-ranking positions of power (both public and private) who have not openly and strongly come out against woke ideology and globalism are our enemies - as are their minions. They are the NWO. |
Maiya It's kind of fun to do the impossible. User ID: 69614778 United States 06/18/2019 01:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My daughter told me, painfully, she was bi right before 9th grade started....I think she was about 14. I told her I loved her anyways....I love the person, not the sin. She was quite relieved....like she expected me to freak out or something, but I had already lived through a marriage (heterosexual, or so I thought). Quoting: Maiya She is now 26 and clearly bi. Where did she get this from? The internet, plus her biological father is gay. The apple does not fall far from the tree. I cannot help her...she has to go through her own deal...as I did. I am not gay in anyway...but we all struggle with our own vices. I refuse to judge anybody...best I can. You don't just 'catch' gay, nor is it genetic. You don't 'just' put your face in a vagina. Ask any straight man. That requires a full commitment and an appreciation for the craft. If you raised her to pick acquaintances based on merit and quality of person you have little to worry about. My wife is bisexual. It doesn't make her any less monogamous or change the way our relationship functions. She's perfectly feminine and we certainly don't have any wild sex orgies just because she's bi. My ex gay husband of 20 years also claimed he was monogamous...what a line of bullshit that was. I lived it. Bottom line: a person who desires the same sex is twisted. The hetero in the relationship gets a giant mind screwing. Been there. Done that. You had one secretly homo husband and now you know everything about everyone. I know you must have experienced some trauma, but Please don't let that mental stumbling block affect other areas of your life. No... 20 years of homo husband was enough. I am old and that experience was not my first. U have no idea... They never thought she would lose. Now they all lose. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77729402 Canada 06/18/2019 01:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your sexual preference is a hardwired chemical reaction based on visual and hormonal stimuli. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72818934 It has to be. Without that chemical reaction there's nothing pleasant about penises and vaginas. You don't get to choose. Childhood or pre teen molestation messes with a person's pheromone response. They are not 'born' gay. They were meddled with. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77738965 United States 06/18/2019 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 5 words: It's OK, I Love You! Accept your child for whom she is. One of my ex students from 1987 reached out to me recently that he had discovered that he is transsexual. He is married with a child and age 49. I have not seen or heard from him since history class when I taught HS. He sought my advice. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 40533137 United States 06/18/2019 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's only 10. It's not too late to save her, but she needs to be totally disconnected from public school, LGBT-friendly media, and any friends that will corrupt her. Yeah thats the answer. Just shut kids away from society so that when they become adults they will have no street smarts and not know how to interact properly with people. Your idea is a set up to fail at life. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76568888 United States 06/18/2019 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ask her what ‘bisexual’ means to her. It might just mean that she can like both genders as friends, maybe she doesn’t know what it means. Don’t freak out, just explain things, and let her know that she is not bisexual, she’s your cute little daughter. |
grover User ID: 76326459 United States 06/18/2019 02:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | than other kids. But thought it was because i had red hair. There only two other kids with red hair. They were some what ostracized because they were Catholic. And the only openly Catholic kids in the rural farm school. Hmmmm... So i thought that i was different because i was Catholic. Wrong !!! I was in high school before i figured out why i was different. And i that was because i was "homosexual". Actually didn't find that word until college. So it was bit more subtle than that. And did not experience it until i was in my early twenties. Couldn't imagine what two guys did together or what a homosexual looked like even...LOL! So drove 1000 miles to NYC because i had read that homosexuals lived in Greengage Village. And with in 48 hours had figured it all out. In hind site i am grateful that it took a while and i was given a chance to figure it out my self.... If i would have had it explained to me by some Flaming Butt Ugly Drag Queen..... I would have ended up as screwed up as many of the young people today !!! Instead of thinking... oh ... that is what am and i liked it. In my own exploration trip to NYC.... |
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WalrusRider User ID: 413488 United States 06/18/2019 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's only 10. It's not too late to save her, but she needs to be totally disconnected from public school, LGBT-friendly media, and any friends that will corrupt her. Yeah thats the answer. Just shut kids away from society so that when they become adults they will have no street smarts and not know how to interact properly with people. Your idea is a set up to fail at life. You are straw manning me. I didn't advocate complete isolation. I only advocated the removal of harmful elements. What I am suggesting is not something new, outlandish, or radical. Haven't you ever heard of kids "falling into the wrong crowd"? The phrase "falling into the wrong crowd is normally used when a good kid has started hanging out with people that are likely to get them involved with drugs or gangs. When a parent notices this, the parent steps in and tries to stop their kid from hanging out with the wrong people. This is because they want their kid to develop into a successful happy person. They don't want their kid to be rotting in prison. What I'm suggesting is the same in principle. Kids who have been infected by leftism and the LGBT agenda are the wrong people for good kids to hang around. They are a bad influence on kids, just as wannabe gangsters are a bad influence on them. A responsible parent will intervene to prevent their kid from being influenced in the wrong direction. That doesn't mean that a kid has to grow up in complete isolation. They can still socialize, but they should socialize with the right crowd. Taking a kid out of public school does not mean that they cannot socialize. The kid can be social with the children of other home-schooled families who share similar ideals, or with adults if they follow you around and interact with others. All of the people who were home schooled that I knew grew up to be successful and just fine in social situations. To poison the mind of a kid because you're afraid that they'll be socially inept if you don't feed them the poison is ridiculous. Last Edited by WalrusRider on 06/18/2019 02:19 AM All billionaires, banksters, and people in high-ranking positions of power (both public and private) who have not openly and strongly come out against woke ideology and globalism are our enemies - as are their minions. They are the NWO. |
AltSwede User ID: 77620610 Sweden 06/18/2019 02:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | America are prudes compared to most European countries. They have had a lot more sex ed and explicit tv over there for years and the apocalypse has not happened. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40533137 Love and be there for your kid OP. Just be happy she is happy and healthy. It's on going. You like most Americans have zero clues about the mess Europe is these days. AltSwede |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31729382 United States 06/18/2019 02:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was that age I knew i was different Quoting: grover 76326459 than other kids. But thought it was because i had red hair. There only two other kids with red hair. They were some what ostracized because they were Catholic. And the only openly Catholic kids in the rural farm school. Hmmmm... So i thought that i was different because i was Catholic. Wrong !!! I was in high school before i figured out why i was different. And i that was because i was "homosexual". Actually didn't find that word until college. So it was bit more subtle than that. And did not experience it until i was in my early twenties. Couldn't imagine what two guys did together or what a homosexual looked like even...LOL! So drove 1000 miles to NYC because i had read that homosexuals lived in Greengage Village. And with in 48 hours had figured it all out. In hind site i am grateful that it took a while and i was given a chance to figure it out my self.... If i would have had it explained to me by some Flaming Butt Ugly Drag Queen..... I would have ended up as screwed up as many of the young people today !!! Instead of thinking... oh ... that is what am and i liked it. In my own exploration trip to NYC.... Um, thank you for sharing but you are not helping innocent and vulnerable youth. |
Buck Rogers User ID: 76916295 United States 06/18/2019 02:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wtf are they teaching kids these days. She is my step daughter and I’m really confused how a 4th grader can just assume she knows she’s bisexual. Her dad lets her watch YouTube and same with her mom without monitoring which I disagree with. But it has to do with other kids right as well? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77235429 I’m so confused. This world is messed up to normalize sexual preference at such a young age. I feel sorry for my 7 month old sons future. Starting to make me wish I had 0 kids. I’m not homophobic and could care less about others preference but to push it on someone is what I would say is wrong. Idk maybe I’m over reacting. its the schools and kids |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73049824 Canada 06/18/2019 02:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your sexual preference is a hardwired chemical reaction based on visual and hormonal stimuli. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72818934 It has to be. Without that chemical reaction there's nothing pleasant about penises and vaginas. You don't get to choose. Childhood or pre teen molestation messes with a person's pheromone response. They are not 'born' gay. They were meddled with. Plenty of homosexuals and heterosexuals alike were 'meddled with'. You're correct on some cases but it doesn't explain the numbers. Most bi/homosexuals were never molested. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73049824 Canada 06/18/2019 02:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your sexual preference is a hardwired chemical reaction based on visual and hormonal stimuli. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72818934 It has to be. Without that chemical reaction there's nothing pleasant about penises and vaginas. You don't get to choose. Childhood or pre teen molestation messes with a person's pheromone response. They are not 'born' gay. They were meddled with. There are more female homo/bisexuals than males. Yet female pedophiles are a vast minority. Or are you suggesting all molestation makes you gay, no matter the gender of the molester? That makes no sense either. Most people who were molested are heterosexual, and the majority of homo/bisexuals were never molested at all. Why don't you go work on your theory a little more Freud? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74490437 United Kingdom 06/18/2019 02:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Would be interesting to know where your 10 yr old even got the term from... When I was 10 yrs old I would impress people w my vocabulary and I am pretty sure I wouldn't have known what "bisexual" was then simply because things involved w sex I wouldn't know much about. I'm curious if she learnt this at school... OR most importantly TV...aren't shows like My Little Pony implanting the seeds now? Read somewhere Marvel/DC are to introduce gay/LGTB friendly heroes? and I'm sure there is negative shows like this everywhere and kids are so easily hypnotized by it... |