Study: Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a LTR or living with a man

*LTR with non-Chads

No man. This is a general thing that is bigger than that. Women are designed to look for the next best thing constantly. The only way they might find Chad more stimulating is if they have to constantly fight for his attention or he's actively cheating on them.

Women can't be happy with anything they have. Once they have a man and they know he's theirs their vaginas go dead. Probably it would be slower with a Chad but I believe from this research it would happen universally.

Women are designed to whore around. People pretend women want monogamy but they really don't. It's just another lie that's not backed by the evidence. As soon as they have it their sex drive disappears.

they are not very mature people, heck they can't help it. they are like a ball in a pinball machine. not real smart either. just like it as long as it last and move on.

i am joking kinda

Most women don't have a high interest before that either. Prefer just fooling around. But then I am older and don't need to be interested.

As long as they cook and clean the house i can´t see a problem.

I pray for the day I no longer have an interest in sex.

Having been celibate now for 13 years and having no intention of ever having sex again, I am glad that I can truthfully say, when I was married, I never once turned down sex.

It was the best part of my relationships, sometimes the only good part.

Before you say, "Oh, you went for the bad guys", I will say to you, I have never been asked out by a good guy.

OP you gave me the most intense chuckle of the day

so hear you. A lot of women end up celibate. You're not alone.

Well am I wrong?

I've been married to the same man for 20 years and still have sex with him every other day. It gets better as the years go by. Why? Because he makes sure I come. He makes an art of it, and makes sure to pat my bootie every time he can get away with it.

I'd be absolutely insane to walk away from that!


You whiners need to actually grow a pair that aren't completely self-absorbed.

I believe this to be true. What is the Solution? The Judeo model had the Patriarch, and the wife(s) were basically property. Linage came through the Patriarch.

The African model is the Matriarch model and children are conceived by random meetings in the bush where the sperm donor takes what he wants (sex) and then each goes their own way.
Today, in Africanized American, we are deep into the Matriarchal society.
In all fairness, for the sake of all non-sexually involved men, we need to either go deeper into the African model so they can take the sex they want, or return to the Patriarchal model where women are protected by the patriarch and not by the government.
It's the current situation that is stressful, at least to men.

Oh, and for the record: he works hard, but the life we've chosen is naturally "poor as dirt". He's also chubby and past his prime. I couldn't care less.

It is not a turn off
Women get turned on from the brain
Men get turned on in the crotch
Turn her on in her brain and you will get it every time.

Gee, it's almost as if men and women are different. lol

secret is to never get married, if you or she doesn't like the relationship anymore you leave and you lose nothing, but if kids are involved it might be a problem.

My dad told me when I was 24 on my wedding day...

"Son..word of advice and wisdom that time will prove to be true. On your wedding night get a really big jar...the biggest you can find and every time you have sex drop in a jelly bean.
I gaurantee that jar will be full in the first 6 months. Then after 6 months take out a jelly bean every time you have sex...and I gaurantee that jar will never ever be empty"

He was right.

The jar filled up in less than six months. At the six month mark I began taking beans out...I was married to her for 10 years and the jar only got back down to 3/4.

After the divorce I counted the jelly beans.

There were 958 beans left.

But..we DID fuck a hell oft a lot that first year.

I know this might sound crazy to some women, but you're allowed to ask men out.

OP is getting his "science" from Vice?

That is fucking pathetic.

You left out the other part of the story..

In the end, you ate all 958 crusty jelly beans, sicko.

Wow what a loser

Now after all those jelly beans with fucked teeth too

Maybe a Fleshlight would be more your speed

The only problem with this statement is that you're a dude who hasn't been laid in 15 years who just happens to resemble Chris Christie

I didn’t know there were beadrooms, dead or alive.

Interest will not be lost if the sex is good.

I was not raised that way.

To even hint to a man that you like him in that way is unladylike.

A fleshlight at least would have been faithful and way cheaper.

Who has the patience for those mind games...

Maybe do the math. 6 months = 180 days. 5 times a day = 900. After 10 years he still had 958 Jelly beans yet you take him seriously.................

I was with my Sue for 21+ yrs. Up and down like many relationships go but we stuck it out. If you're paying attention you can often tell her mooods just by her TASTE!! I think they appreciate the discernment. One night soft and gentle and a week or so later they wanna get spanked and fuk'd in the ass. Mix them up and it can seeem like you're not paying attention and things tend to slide quickly if either of you feel that for too long.

I stumbled on a technique - known to a few for centuries but not taught in sex ed and still debated by some of the best sexperts out there. The last two and half years we were together were fabulous. She went from 1 orgasm a night - usually from a good tongue lashing to a dozen or more and some nights many many more than that. Clitoral O's are wonderful to behold but the area over-sensitizes. Other areas are built for more abuse but they are still wired into the orgasm center in the brain. The O's are full body more like a seizure sometimes than orgasms. When the spot and the stimulation is known you can achieve massive O's in about 2 minutes from a cold start!! Spectacular!!!

Sadly the Angels came and took away my Sue one Christmas Eve many years ago now (time flies) but not too long after she died I posted the technique on several self-help relationship sites. I got banned from most because many women claimed if THEY didn't know about this there's NO WAY some middle aged white dude knew about it either and it was classified as bullshit and/or me just trying to get laid or make money. I just wanted to SHARE what we had and what we HAD was incredible. The post took off on one web site and has clocked well over a million hits. MEGS of feedback telling me that much to their surprise the technique DOES WORK - sometimes not the first or second attempt but easy instructions allow their EUREEEKA moment eventually.

In the theme of this thread I can guarantee you she will never get BORED when she is orgasming 1 or 2 DOZEN TIMES a night. Feed back from teens right up to their late 80's and thought they had tried EVERYTHING. The most common theme to my feedback is "sex was always about him. Now it's about me too and I'M ADDICTED!!"

It's worth a look. Read it. TRY IT and then SHARE. It's good karma!! MANY many couples have emailed me to tell me it saved their marriage or relationship.

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