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Study: Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a LTR or living with a man

 
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Who are they thinking about when they lose interest?
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Who are they thinking about when they lose interest?
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Hmmm, you really wanna know?
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Only money keeps them interested.
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I know some will throw rocks, but marriages between two virgins are the strongest marriages and the least likely to end in divorce. It's a real thrill to sleep with someone new, but that's just a passing thrill and a Divorce hurts forever.
 Quoting: Pilgrim001


So you’re basically saying to marry girls off at like 4 in this day in age
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72558941

I know you're joking, kind of.
I'm saying that delaying marriage to age 25 or 27 is a guarantee of high divorce rates. I'm a product of an earlier age, so I can't make firm conclusions about the ages that today's kids are losing their virginity. In my day, if they could make it to 16 or 17 they could get married, but "society" said they should wait until after college to get married and the net result is most women burn their v card back in HS and who knows how many before 27. Yes, Some men too, but a guy has a lot harder time racking up the same numbers as a girl. There isn't much of a competition to it. A girl can have as many, as often as she wants. But it's not likely to result in lifetime happiness.
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I get what you’re saying, but in these days with heavy social media everywhere, that has made the world a whole lot smaller. And “city life” seems to have infiltrated even the most rural of places, meaning that at some point, even the virginest of virgin girls will begin to feel fomo (fear of missing out) and would love to know what the other side is like, even desire it. I see this happening a lot too. Lot of older women in 25+yr marriages are divorcing and taking a chance at this deluded fairytale life they believe they’ll have kicking old hubby to the curb.
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I found another interesting study which correlates to this thread. Check it out GLP:

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A new study, published in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, finds that while men may be just as likely as women to be openly affectionate, researchers also identified some surprising differences between men and women in the way they express their love.

While the more husbands loved their wives, they more likely they were to initiate sex, wives were actually less likely to make the first move the more they loved their husbands.

The findings suggest that if a wife is not feeling loved by her husband, she may be more accommodating to her husband's moods and needs in an attempt to kick-start the marriage, rather than expressing interest or engaging in more joint activities.

"Multilevel analyses revealed that, counter to theoretical expectations, both genders were equally likely to show love through affection. But whereas wives expressed love by enacting fewer negative or antagonistic behaviors, husbands showed love by initiating sex, sharing leisure activities, and doing household work together with their wives," the study authors wrote.


Holy Shit on multiple levels. To summarize:

•The more men loved their wives, the more they wanted to have sex with their wives.
•The more women loved their husbands, the less they wanted to have sex with their husbands.
•Men showed affection by initiating sex, sharing leisure activities, and doing housework with their wife.
Women showed affection by enacting fewer negative or antagonistic behaviors (ie. nagging less and being less annoying).
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Who are they thinking about when they lose interest?
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themselves, him, and how much they don't want it from him anymore
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Who are they thinking about when they lose interest?
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themselves, him, and how much they don't want it from him anymore
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Why do men take a woman's sex drive personally?

Not everything is about you.

If I magically waved a wand and took away your sex drive would it have ANYTHING to do with your spouse if you didn't want sex?
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Why do men take a woman's sex drive personally?

Not everything is about you.

If I magically waved a wand and took away your sex drive would it have ANYTHING to do with your spouse if you didn't want sex?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77197203


Women actually get angry (sometimes very angry) when her spouse can’t perform or get it up. Insults are plenty too. They begin questioning his manhood and shit like that.

In fact, women are the most likely to cheat because of stuff like that. Very petty
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What are you all babbling about? Its because of this or that or men are to blame or women are to blame, blah, blah, blah, etc., etc.

Put your PHDs in psychology away. They're not needed. The reason men and women can't get along or love each other these days is because of the programming. You've all soaked this shit up from OPRAH, Povich, Springer, movies, television, music---its all programming, and it sowed the seeds of destruction into your lives. You all lapped it up because you didn't consider your own minds and bodies as something to be safeguarded. I bet most of you met your "soul mates" very young and you promptly SHAT ALL OVER THEM. And you didn't give two shits about it because of the programming. People are not people to you anymore, they are targets.

You'll never get it. Just go watch some more television. Have your mind and heart further divided into a million competing parts. Viciously tear each other apart. And laugh. That bitter laugh is all you got left. Because of the programming.

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I pray for the day I no longer have an interest in sex.

Having been celibate now for 13 years and having no intention of ever having sex again, I am glad that I can truthfully say, when I was married, I never once turned down sex.

It was the best part of my relationships, sometimes the only good part.

Before you say, "Oh, you went for the bad guys", I will say to you, I have never been asked out by a good guy.
 Quoting: HarshingMyMellow


I think women tend to become A sexual as the grow older anyways. Making yourself up to be pursued by men takes a lot of energy. Then you finally get him, and all his nasty habits turn you off. If he makes you laugh still and is a good supported you stay, even through his secrete affairs. Almost a relief really if the bank account stays stable. She both your spouses and yours free pass.

You can kiss up love on him making him feel guilty knowing full well what he is doing. While she stratifies his loins and is eventually dumps. Yeh, she will come crying to you about what she has done, placing the blame on him. But you will take his side that she is crazy and mentally unstable, while obtaining a restraining order. Only you know you have them both played as you go shopping and enjoy your family life with the kids. Absolutely, love being made up too.

And you know what, in time he will do the same thing again, because I am not putting out on a regular bases. In time, after the kids are grown, If he gets to attached to his bimbo's and starts to spend to much money on her, I take him to the cleaners in a divorce if it suites me. All that is important is the children well being and that I am compensated.

But if he can keep it on the down low, and not invest much in his bimboo's, staying disease free. He can be a free range husband for all I care. Just be a good man at home, a good provider, and fantastic dad. I don't want to know about the other women.
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Re: Study: Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a LTR or living with a man
My dad told me when I was 24 on my wedding day...

"Son..word of advice and wisdom that time will prove to be true. On your wedding night get a really big jar...the biggest you can find and every time you have sex drop in a jelly bean.
I gaurantee that jar will be full in the first 6 months. Then after 6 months take out a jelly bean every time you have sex...and I gaurantee that jar will never ever be empty"

He was right.

The jar filled up in less than six months. At the six month mark I began taking beans out...I was married to her for 10 years and the jar only got back down to 3/4.

After the divorce I counted the jelly beans.

There were 958 beans left.

But..we DID fuck a hell oft a lot that first year.
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Wow, you fucked 6.66 times a day in the first 6 months. It goes without saying I think you exaggerate.





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