Why aren't more people sexual virgins like myself????????????????????????????????

Thats how you got here!!!

Said the clown who has no understanding of physical or emotional intimacy. Which is fine, OP, but don't try to tell people who've experienced it that it's by definition only for reproduction or a meaningless, insignificant experience. It's not.

And, for the sake of discussion, how would you react to someone who regularly posted threads like "I made love to my wife today" "My fiance and I had a wonderfully intimate weekend in a cabin in the woods" I suspect you'd say "for crying out loud stop posting about having sex all the time."

News flash, you're doing the same thing in reverse. Don't want to have sex? Good for you! Others have different views on the subject. They'll respect you when you respect them.

What I meant was that we do not take "shits" because it feels good....


We "take shits" because we need to expel waste. That is why we "take shits".

It just happens to feel good when we do it.


But does that mean that we take shits *merely* because it feels good????????


We don't do that. Or at least we shouldn't.


It makes NO SENSE.




So why do people have recreational sex?????????



Sex is a REPRODUCTIVE FUNCTION.



Sex is for reproduction.



Not to feel good.



It just so happens to feel good...... to motivate us to do it...... to REPRODUCE.


But instead.....


People put pieces of plastic on their reproductive organs, and they have "sex".......



For the SOLE reason to feel pleasure from it.



WHY?.



Why do people do that????


WHY.... do people have sex JUST for pleasure???????

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No.

I was conceived during the act of *non*-recreational sex.

Uhh, you just asked "why do people have pleasure for pleasure?" Yes, you used sex as the source but use the word pleasure instead.

Simple answer? It feels good.

Why do people soak in a hot tub? It feels good.

Why do people snuggle a puppy? It feels good.

Why do people slap a cold, wet towel on their face after working hard in the heat? It feels good.

You can't be that dumb, can you?

What does that even mean? I assure you, you are the byproduct of two humans that wanted to feel good at the time.

Unless you came out of in vitro fertilization? Mom and dad had no idea that you were going to be created that day.

Yassss!!

I post about it so much because it's a problem.


It's meaningless nonsense... and it is destroying society.


People are now sex addicts..... and they only see the value in another person for the sexual arousal... and pleasure.... that person gives them.


It's turning us into unconscious...... things.




LUST is a sin in the Catholic religion for a reason.



There is a REASON why lust is looked down upon by people.



And that is because it is UNCONSCIOUS..... meaninglessness.


And ***dehumanization***.... of the other and yourself.


But people just DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT.



People WONDER..... WHY..... they get into ALL of these SEXUAL relationships.........


And what results is weird relationship after weird relationship.



FULL of HATE..... pain...... distrust......



And it is ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL........​..


!!!.... Because they treat OTHERS as SEXUAL OBJECTS OF THEIR OWN DESIRE.....


An they have been TREATED BY OTHERS.... in the SAME EXACT WAY.


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So, it was rigorously scheduled, carefully choreographed, and conducted in total darkness to prevent any visual stimuli? The sole purpose was procreation and every effort was made to avoid any pleasure or enjoyment by the two parties involved. Were they perchance spanked or whipped at the time to take their minds of the recreational aspects of vaginal coitus?

We really need to get you laid man, i'll throw in 10 bucks for the hooker.

WTF.

Where did I ask, "why do people have pleasure for pleasure?"


I did not ask or write that.



I do NOT write that :P


I asked exactly what I wrote... wtf.


The definition of "sex"... is not pleasure. wtf.


What you are doing Larry, is the definition of like.... bullshitting.




That said..... Ok..... so the reason why you have recreational sex is because it feels good.


That is just bunch of nonsense. And you need to get a life.

You are such a bullshitter.


No wonder you have recreational sex.

You love to BULLSHIT.


From what I know.... I was conceived on purpose.... and that was the purpose of them haven't sex... to conceive me.

* and that was the purpose of them having sex... to conceive me.

Recreational sex is SIN.


It is LUST.


"Sin".... coming from the idea of an arrow missing it's mark.



Everything is MEANING <3


Don't do ANYTHING, unless it MEANS something <3


“Before you play two notes, learn how to play one note, y’know? And don’t play one note unless you’ve got a reason to play it.” ~ Mark Hollis

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Sex for pleasure means nothing.

Here's where you and I part company.
You assume that love and lust are the same thing. They aren't.
I love my wife, she loves me. We enjoy intimacy which sometimes leads to sex and sometimes doesn't, that's life.

Do we have desire for each other? Yes, we do.

For you to try and make that wrong, 'sinful', or debased is more than a little offensive to me and, I suspect, others who live in a loving, committed relationship.

You might want to tone down the rhetoric up there on your soapbox.

Ok, so what was it before it was a sin? Before the dogma and rules?

"You assume that love and lust are the same thing."

Um... no I don't. Where did get that from?


What I have been saying has been the complete opposite.

It was always a sin

What's a sexual virgin?

ok, so under what conditions is it not a sin?

I wondered the same thing, apparently tacos and pastries dont count.

Someone who hasn't engaged in recreational or non-recreational sex.


But I'm really just talking about recreational sex right now

Huh? So what makes you "sexual" then?

Probably all his porhub bookmarks, can you imagine his search history

lol

Transvestite nuns, most likely.

Hey nuns are hot, and we all get a little too drunk sometimes....

Im curious op,although im convinced you are just trolling,poorly, where does masturbating fall into all this, is it a sin too?