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Help determining if girlfriend lied
Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated.

6/17 9:36pm

Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me)
Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment?
Her- I'm ritually a month behind.

She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275

I sent her the money.

7/2

(asking about her day)
Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day

By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17.

Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible?
Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month.

I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information.

I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind.

No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please.

Any ideas?

Thanks

Last Edited by Sciencefan on 07/12/2019 11:41 AM
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You sent her the money instead of paying the bill yourself.

Can you check her account and see when and if the bill was paid ?
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If you doubt her integrity, then that pebble of an idea will grow exponentially if the two of you don’t straighten it out together. Foundations will crumble under lies, mistrust and deception.

Discover the truth of your relationship. Is it physically based? Is it similar interest based? Be honest with each other on this and proceed accordingly.
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Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated.

6/17 9:36pm

Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me)
Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment?
Her- I'm ritually a month behind.

She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275

I sent her the money.

7/2

(asking about her day)
Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day

By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17.

Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible?
Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month.

I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information.

I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind.

No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please.

Any ideas?

Thanks
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Re: Help determining if girlfriend lied
If you doubt her integrity, then that pebble of an idea will grow exponentially if the two of you don’t straighten it out together. Foundations will crumble under lies, mistrust and deception.

Discover the truth of your relationship. Is it physically based? Is it similar interest based? Be honest with each other on this and proceed accordingly.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77681801


It’s not about paying the bill, it’s about revealing both of your true intentions- if she can’t provide documentation of covering her bill or proving exactly where it did go, then there’s other things going on. Best to walk the other way-
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You sent her the money instead of paying the bill yourself.

Can you check her account and see when and if the bill was paid ?
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Tell her to give you the last bill that came in the mail and youll take care of it. But dont pay for anything else without the physical bill in your hands.

Tell her not to worry moving forward, just give you the bills and youll do it.


Of course you will break up wirh her because she will refuse and get aggressive. If she does get aggressive at all just say

'Look i was just trying to help but youre being rude so i wont help anymore'

Then you dump her quick because she eoll dump you otherwize
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always a month behind

why?

sounds like someone who has money management problems

get that sorted or you will be drained of your disposable income constantly
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1) How long have you been dating?

If less than 5 years, your a cuck.

Before giving a girlfriend money, ask this simple question, "would you marry her?".

BTW, my cell phone provider shuts my phone off if I'm a day late. I never heard of a cell phone provider let someone go one to two months behind in bills.

Coupled with the long distance nature of the relationship, it doesn't look good.

For all you know, your paying both her and her real boyfriends cellphone bill.
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I think the bigger issue is why does someone need 2 phones and an ipad, especially if they can't pay the bills? I would tell her I'm not paying for your excessive crap and live within your means.
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Quit sending her money, are you fuckin stupid?

Fuck her one last time and be done with that bitch.
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You sent her the money instead of paying the bill yourself.

Can you check her account and see when and if the bill was paid ?
 Quoting: fromthefuture


Tell her to give you the last bill that came in the mail and youll take care of it. But dont pay for anything else without the physical bill in your hands.

Tell her not to worry moving forward, just give you the bills and youll do it.


Of course you will break up wirh her because she will refuse and get aggressive. If she does get aggressive at all just say

'Look i was just trying to help but youre being rude so i wont help anymore'

Then you dump her quick because she eoll dump you otherwize
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70936872


Yep.

If she gets defensive about it, she's lying.

If she hands over the bills, she's telling the truth and now you're paying a monthly fee to have found out it was the truth.
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Re: Help determining if girlfriend lied
1) How long have you been dating?

If less than 5 years, your a cuck.

Before giving a girlfriend money, ask this simple question, "would you marry her?".

BTW, my cell phone provider shuts my phone off if I'm a day late. I never heard of a cell phone provider let someone go one to two months behind in bills.

Coupled with the long distance nature of the relationship, it doesn't look good.

For all you know, your paying both her and her real boyfriends cellphone bill.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57023320



You may be right about another boyfriend. I wouldn't pay for anyone's bills unless I was married to them. And even then, only if they were living within their means and I knew they weren't using me and really loved me.

I had to edit and mention that I NEVER EVER asked a boyfriend to pay my bills, or anyone for that matter. If people have emergency issues with money, there is city and state aid...temporarily. If it's not an emergency, budget yourself better.

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I neglect to pay my Verizon bill and it turns out you can wait a month but you got to either pay two months the next month or just pay last month and leave this month for next month but that's still two bills and etc only paying the past due one instead of the current one is what created the problem. The girl is bad at handling her finances and needs help!
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wtfwtfwtfwtf

Read my post up before this she's not a liar damn everyone is quick to judge
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I neglect to pay my Verizon bill and it turns out you can wait a month but you got to either pay two months the next month or just pay last month and leave this month for next month but that's still two bills and etc only paying the past due one instead of the current one is what created the problem. The girl is bad at handling her finances and needs help!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77190942


I am aware some carriers give a month leeway. Mine does as well.

However, if she paid the delinquent bill on 6/17 that doesn't explain how how her phone was cut off on 7/2 which was exactly 15 days later.

As I explained in the first post, if the delinquent bill was paid on 6/17 I wouldn't expect her phone to be cut off until at least 7/17, a month later. So I'm not sure what you're saying indicates she didn't lie, unless there's something I'm missing?

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Quit sending her money, are you fuckin stupid?

Fuck her one last time and be done with that bitch.
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soon as she got cash she went out partying?

let's see.. you an hour away.. several means of communicating with her..

she likely has other guys on the string.

you seem to like her bro, I hope not for your sake.
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Hard to say she might just be an idiot.

Perhaps she paid chad or tyrones phone bills?
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Don't give her any more money. If it's legit, she'll let you pay the bill directly.
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Don't give her any more money. If it's legit, she'll let you pay the bill directly.
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yeah this..

first rule when you give somebody money for something, they have to prove they used it for that purpose.

if not then it is a one time gift and no obligation to do again.
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Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated.

6/17 9:36pm

Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me)
Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment?
Her- I'm ritually a month behind.

She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275

I sent her the money.

7/2

(asking about her day)
Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day

By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17.

Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible?
Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month.

I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information.

I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind.

No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please.

Any ideas?

Thanks
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she's conning you. that's what girls do.
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She's probably popping pills
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Dude. Bruh.

Man. Just no. Gah


Start over man. With everything. Just reset. Go away for awhile. Tell no one. Leave.
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Im a 49 year old female...i know people well....why are you paying for her phone's if you don't live together,first of all? Why does she need two phones plus ipad? I've never lived off a man....not even my partners I married...does she work? Real women of integrity don't mooch off their bf an hour away. ...and yes, she's lying. If she's capable of this manipulation, she's also capable of cheating and using other men this way too. Stop being a fool. If you are this thoughtful and generous,you deserve more...I am still very attractive yet only been on a few dates in ten years...cuz most people are scum these days...I'd rather be alone than with s omeone undeserving of me,maybe you should consider the same. Good luck, op.
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Unless one is an office-issued work phone, the two phones thing alone should be a major red flag.
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Re: Help determining if girlfriend lied
Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated.

6/17 9:36pm

Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me)
Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment?
Her- I'm ritually a month behind.

She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275

I sent her the money.

7/2

(asking about her day)
Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day

By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17.

Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible?
Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month.

I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information.

I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind.

No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please.

Any ideas?

Thanks
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she's conning you. that's what girls do.
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Not all of us are that way! I supported lazy men in my life at one time...does that make all men bad?
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Unless one is an office-issued work phone, the two phones thing alone should be a major red flag.
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You are absolutely correct. ....and like someone stated, look to see when the bill was paid...i think shes using you, bro.ditch her.
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I went to my phone carrier store and asked one of the workers there about this. They said no, not possible for phone service to be cut off before 7/17 when a payment was made 6/17.

Only possible if a payment installment was agreed upon where partial payment was made 6/17 and the rest was expected shortly after.

So, yea I'm convinced she was lying. It's not just some girl I had a thing for, it was someone who has been important to me for a long time. I don't feel bad having given her the benefit of the doubt. Sadly, she has cut herself off from someone who cares about her.
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Confront her with your suspicion. Ask her to show the payment.

If she lied (99%), you give her the chance to either refund you or you break up with her.

That's it!

If you let this one pass, she'll do it again (100%).

Show her you are the man and you won't take that shit.

I've had a similar experience.
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She may have just used it for other bills she didn't feel like going into depth about with you.

Or crack.

Probably crack.

Last Edited by TlvmmCpoft on 07/12/2019 12:42 PM
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