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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77779818 United States 07/12/2019 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If her phone was cut off, how is she talking to you on the phone? If she has an extra phone, why does she need 2 phones? Seems like she is wasting money, having 2 phone bills, when she only needs one phone. Always listen to your gut. If something does not seems right, it's probably isn't. |
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Boaty User ID: 77647819 United States 07/12/2019 01:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dump her. ```````````````` ````__/\__`````` ~~~\____/~~~~ .~~..~~~....~~~ ~..~~~....~~~~ Thoughts do not come from you nor God; you do not create thoughts; you are not your thoughts; every thought is a lie. - 2 Corinthians 10:5 - [link to www.biblegateway.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77477799 United States 07/12/2019 01:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I neglect to pay my Verizon bill and it turns out you can wait a month but you got to either pay two months the next month or just pay last month and leave this month for next month but that's still two bills and etc only paying the past due one instead of the current one is what created the problem. The girl is bad at handling her finances and needs help! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77190942 I am aware some carriers give a month leeway. Mine does as well. However, if she paid the delinquent bill on 6/17 that doesn't explain how how her phone was cut off on 7/2 which was exactly 15 days later. As I explained in the first post, if the delinquent bill was paid on 6/17 I wouldn't expect her phone to be cut off until at least 7/17, a month later. So I'm not sure what you're saying indicates she didn't lie, unless there's something I'm missing? It is possible this phone company even tho you pay late has a standard shut off date even if the last bill was paid late. Example... bill due the 15th... was not paid until the 22nd... that would make it due for disconnect 3 weeks later. Best advice to you is.. 1. no more giving money 2. ask to see the bill then if you want to pay it your self. 3.think this relationship through. It sounds to me like she scammed you to get money for something else. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77643766 Canada 07/12/2019 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated. Quoting: Sciencefan 6/17 9:36pm Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me) Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment? Her- I'm ritually a month behind. She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275 I sent her the money. 7/2 (asking about her day) Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17. Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible? Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month. I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information. I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind. No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please. Any ideas? Thanks rofl your GF lives an hour away and you're paying her cellphone bill? Lol she's lying and she's cheating on you, and on top of all that? She's clearly using you for money. You sound like an incel who actually has a GF, but I doubt she ever really puts out, amiright? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77777748 United States 07/12/2019 02:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated. Quoting: Sciencefan 6/17 9:36pm Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me) Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment? Her- I'm ritually a month behind. She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275 I sent her the money. 7/2 (asking about her day) Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17. Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible? Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month. I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information. I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind. No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please. Any ideas? Thanks Sorry, having a hard time getting past 275 for a phone bill, brain locked without anymore more thoughts than, WTF? |
Rock Hard User ID: 75431422 Australia 07/12/2019 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated. Quoting: Sciencefan 6/17 9:36pm Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me) Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment? Her- I'm ritually a month behind. She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275 I sent her the money. 7/2 (asking about her day) Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17. Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible? Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month. I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information. I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind. No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please. Any ideas? Thanks Don't trust anyone mate. umm i have lost count what some woman will do. Cover yourself then they haven't got a leg to stand on. Believe me and it fucks them every time. |
Rock Hard User ID: 75431422 Australia 07/12/2019 02:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh yeah and they always want the TV Set. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77738290 United States 07/12/2019 03:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated. Quoting: Sciencefan 6/17 9:36pm Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me) Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment? Her- I'm ritually a month behind. She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275 I sent her the money. 7/2 (asking about her day) Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17. Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible? Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month. I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information. I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind. No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please. Any ideas? Thanks Your 'girlfriend' lives an hoir away? She is getting fucked dude. No telling how many men are her other boyfriends... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77811428 Canada 07/12/2019 03:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1) How long have you been dating? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57023320 If less than 5 years, your a cuck. Before giving a girlfriend money, ask this simple question, "would you marry her?". BTW, my cell phone provider shuts my phone off if I'm a day late. I never heard of a cell phone provider let someone go one to two months behind in bills. Coupled with the long distance nature of the relationship, it doesn't look good. For all you know, your paying both her and her real boyfriends cellphone bill. I get 21 hours, 59 minutes and 59 seconds after the bill is due. |
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Bailey Howe User ID: 77788995 United States 07/12/2019 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suspect my GF lied to me about something involving money. Placing the evidence here, opinions are appreciated. Quoting: Sciencefan 6/17 9:36pm Her- forgot to pay my phone bill. (she lives an hour from me) Me- It's just a late fee though, if you miss a payment? Her- I'm ritually a month behind. She has 2 phones and an Ipad, asked for $275 I sent her the money. 7/2 (asking about her day) Her- ...My phone got turned off halfway through the day By my thinking, even if she was a month behind, if she made a payment on 6/17 she shouldn't have service interruption until at least 7/17. Me yesterday- 9:30 pm the 17th you asked for 275 for a phone bill, then 3 weeks later you tell me your phone was cut off. How is that possible? Her - my phone bill is always a month behind. So having paid what's past due I still had to pay the current month. I didn't press the matter but her explanation offered no new information. I know the knee jerk reaction is that she lied. I'm hoping someone will have some insight on how it's possible to pay a phone bill on 6/17 and have service interrupted on 7/2 even if she stays a month behind. No "women suck" responses, just some cold hard logic or knowledge of phone billing please. Any ideas? Thanks OP.... I hear ya' but dont worry too much Now. The question you ask relates to that individual company' s billing cycle. If she has not paid her bill and is subsequently disconnected all the way around... Your only obligation to her is to DEMAND why it was not paid being you gave her the money for it right? You should begin to worry when she asks you for money for this again? Whats it going for? Obviously not her phone. Now here is where the honesty part comes in. Is SHE being honest?? Dont say anything yet until #1: shes disconnected or #2: She asks you for more money or the same amou t again. Do not give her anymore money at this point. A word to the wise: The most successful couples pay their way in marriage if working. Counseling is suggested prior to how as a couple you would handle joint finances Good luck |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77815714 United States 07/14/2019 12:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im a 49 year old female...i know people well....why are you paying for her phone's if you don't live together,first of all? Why does she need two phones plus ipad? I've never lived off a man....not even my partners I married...does she work? Real women of integrity don't mooch off their bf an hour away. ...and yes, she's lying. If she's capable of this manipulation, she's also capable of cheating and using other men this way too. Stop being a fool. If you are this thoughtful and generous,you deserve more...I am still very attractive yet only been on a few dates in ten years...cuz most people are scum these days...I'd rather be alone than with s omeone undeserving of me,maybe you should consider the same. Good luck, op. Quoting: Halfbreedgal 70226005 |